AutumnDae
August 16th, 2011, 04:29 PM
Sunday (Might have been Saturday, I can't remember, it's irrelevant to the story though.) I received a text message from my ex boyfriend, Nolan.
It said: "Hey who is this?"
I replied: "Autumn. Why?"
"O just wondering. Contacts deleted"
"Oh, okay, haha, hope you're having a nice summer! :)"
"Thanks! You as well! :D"
I wasn't planning on replying, but he sent another message that read, "Sorry, gotta go cause I have practice tomorrow."
I didn't really think anything of the conversation, he just asked who it was, and I told him that I hoped he was having a good summer, which I do to anyone that I talk to, that I don't speak to on a regular basis. Because I genuinely mean it. I don't care if he's my exboyfriend, I hope he's having a nice summer, honestly.
Anyways, the next morning, I logged onto Facebook, and had an unread message from Nolan's girlfriend. Accusing me of "Texting, flirting, and talking" to Nolan. She said, "It bothers me because you're his ex and it's weird." and then went on to say "I don't have a problem with you, just the fact that you think it's okay to text your ex boyfriend when he has a girlfriend." She also went on to say something mildly hurtful about something that happened between Nolan and I, which isn't any of her business to begin with.
I politely told her that it wasn't a conversation, it was a few short messages, that HE initiated in the first place. I wasn't flirting, or even talking, really, I just answered his question and was being nice. I went on to say that I wasn't trying to steal her boyfriend, because I'm not that type of person, I don't think it's appropriate to call me that either, especially considering the fact that I didn't start conversation, and I wasn't overly outgoing or friendly. I also told her that it was a bit rude to mention something that was personal between Nolan and me, and she was obviously trying to pick a fight. I then told her that I hoped she was having a nice summer as well, and I honestly hope she is.
It kind of upsets me that somehow I got blamed for flirting with someone who I wasn't flirting with at all. As well as her trying to pick a fight with me. Is she really that insecure about her relationship that she can't handle her boyfriend talking to an ex? Not even talking, the conversation literally lasted 3 minutes. We didn't have an in depth conversation, we didn't talk on the phone for hours, if it was something like that, I might be able to see where she's coming from.
Either way, it's annoying that she's insecure and feels obviously threatened by me for some reason. Which is crazy, because I'm not threatening at all. To anyone. *Sigh* What a petty little girl who can't handle a real relationship, apparently.
It said: "Hey who is this?"
I replied: "Autumn. Why?"
"O just wondering. Contacts deleted"
"Oh, okay, haha, hope you're having a nice summer! :)"
"Thanks! You as well! :D"
I wasn't planning on replying, but he sent another message that read, "Sorry, gotta go cause I have practice tomorrow."
I didn't really think anything of the conversation, he just asked who it was, and I told him that I hoped he was having a good summer, which I do to anyone that I talk to, that I don't speak to on a regular basis. Because I genuinely mean it. I don't care if he's my exboyfriend, I hope he's having a nice summer, honestly.
Anyways, the next morning, I logged onto Facebook, and had an unread message from Nolan's girlfriend. Accusing me of "Texting, flirting, and talking" to Nolan. She said, "It bothers me because you're his ex and it's weird." and then went on to say "I don't have a problem with you, just the fact that you think it's okay to text your ex boyfriend when he has a girlfriend." She also went on to say something mildly hurtful about something that happened between Nolan and I, which isn't any of her business to begin with.
I politely told her that it wasn't a conversation, it was a few short messages, that HE initiated in the first place. I wasn't flirting, or even talking, really, I just answered his question and was being nice. I went on to say that I wasn't trying to steal her boyfriend, because I'm not that type of person, I don't think it's appropriate to call me that either, especially considering the fact that I didn't start conversation, and I wasn't overly outgoing or friendly. I also told her that it was a bit rude to mention something that was personal between Nolan and me, and she was obviously trying to pick a fight. I then told her that I hoped she was having a nice summer as well, and I honestly hope she is.
It kind of upsets me that somehow I got blamed for flirting with someone who I wasn't flirting with at all. As well as her trying to pick a fight with me. Is she really that insecure about her relationship that she can't handle her boyfriend talking to an ex? Not even talking, the conversation literally lasted 3 minutes. We didn't have an in depth conversation, we didn't talk on the phone for hours, if it was something like that, I might be able to see where she's coming from.
Either way, it's annoying that she's insecure and feels obviously threatened by me for some reason. Which is crazy, because I'm not threatening at all. To anyone. *Sigh* What a petty little girl who can't handle a real relationship, apparently.