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Kenny217
August 16th, 2011, 11:21 AM
Hey, guys! I've been friends with this girl for like 12 months and I like her (a lot). And I told her once a long time ago and she said that she liked another guy at the time, but she said "but, maybe someday". So time went on and she told my other girl friend (friend who's a girl) that she only likes me as a friend. That was a long time ago, but I just moved on.

We got into a big fight and we didn't speak for a long time, but we got passed it like two months ago. Now we talk a lot more then we did before. We've spoken through the entire day, we'd fall asleep on each other, wake up and continue texting throughout the day. She's usually the one that starts the conversations. I think I'm starting to like her again, but I know that if I told her, I'd probably get the same response. :(
LaxFB3
August 16th, 2011, 01:04 PM
I feel for you dude. Just keep it to yourself at the moment though. Wait to see if you get any signs that she shares your feelings. Try to make sure she likes you before you tell her anything. If you tell her and she doesnt like you back, it could hurt your relationship the same way it did be for. Good luck, bro
Kenny217
August 16th, 2011, 01:51 PM
Yeah, I see what you mean. I am keeping it to myself, but It's gets difficult.
Jonathon
August 16th, 2011, 02:18 PM
Go for it dude! If you get rejected again it's not like it's going to ruin your friendship. You're quite lucky that she already knows that you like her and she's fine with it. You might as well try it, who knows, maybe she'll say yes?
Kenny217
August 16th, 2011, 02:36 PM
It's been some time since I've told her though, she probably thinks I don't anymore
senior.2013
August 16th, 2011, 03:24 PM
You never know till you try.
Kenny217
August 16th, 2011, 05:55 PM
You never know till you try.

True, but I don't wanna seem awkward and potentially ruin things. Plus, I don't even think she has the same feelings for me
judahtics
August 16th, 2011, 06:00 PM
it didn't ruin things the first time, why would it now?
Kenny217
August 16th, 2011, 07:43 PM
it didn't ruin things the first time, why would it now?

I meant I don't wanna make things awkward between us. Cause that's what happened last time. She stopped texting me, didn't talk to me much in school.