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Ironic Infidel In England
March 9th, 2007, 03:23 PM
Right, I'm Bi, and only discovered this a little while ago. over the last week, one of my girlfreind's mates has been coming on to me really strong, and I've had msn sex with him, and he wanked on webcam, I really like him, but I like my Girlfreind too. what should I do?

Ironic Infidel In England
March 10th, 2007, 02:29 AM
oh, and by the way, I like him more than my girlfreind sexually, but romantically I prefer her.

dannyley
March 10th, 2007, 06:28 AM
well, erm i don't know it has never happend 2 me, but u shud go with what ur heart says, not you puberty hormones which could be y u r finding him sexually attractive because u r in the curiousity phase

Ironic Infidel In England
March 10th, 2007, 08:10 AM
but u shud go with what ur heart says, not you puberty hormones which could be y u r finding him sexually attractive because u r in the curiousity phase

Again I say: I'M BI!

Always have liked both girls and boys. Always will.

The problem is, my heart says to go with my girlfreind but my loins say to go with him, and that is hard to resist. *sigh*

DouggyO.o
March 10th, 2007, 08:44 AM
here is my advise, talk to your girlfriend about it. does she know your bi?

because if she does she may be ok with you dating both her and him. around were i live its a common thing for bi people to have a boyfriend and a girl friend.

Ironic Infidel In England
March 10th, 2007, 10:08 AM
She know's I'm bi. I can't exactly (spelling) just come straight out with "Do you reckon it'd be ok for me to date you mate?, I think he's well fit!" any ideas on how to approch this?

DouggyO.o
March 10th, 2007, 10:21 AM
just start a random conversation about him, and tell her you think he is hot

Maverick
March 10th, 2007, 10:48 AM
This should go in relationships and dating.
I think you should do what Danyl said.