elan5
August 15th, 2011, 07:03 PM
Hello guys, I'm a 17 year old male who is not a virgin. I've been dating a girl on and off for the past year and a half and throughout our times together I have experienced problems with getting an erection. Our first 2 or 3 times getting sexual I was unable to get it up. I blamed it on my lack of comfort level, as I was just getting to know her at the time. These situations were very humiliating and devastating to our relationship. Now, a year later, we are prepared to have sex and I am very afraid I will be unable to get it up. I seem to only be able to achieve a partial erection. Today we hung out for 6 hours and the entire time I had a partial erection, as well as a sensation similar to blue balls after an hour or two of hanging out. I realize my sexual anxiety is obviously contributing to my problem, but I don't understand how I can not get a full erection when I am extremely turned on by a girl I am attracted to. I have absolutely no trouble achieving an erection on my own. I am afraid this problem will restrict us from having sex, which is extremely disheartening. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time.