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Hatsune Miku
August 15th, 2011, 02:01 PM
So I'm going on a date tomorrow. Not really a date, were boyfriend and girlfriend but were just gonna hang out at the mall then at her house for a bit. Anyways, we were talking and shes scared to make the first move because she never has, and I've never kissed before. Were both really shy and she said shes nervous but excited to kiss me because she likes me so much (I'm the first boyfriend shes had that has treated her good). I'm so nervous (and excited). Were not going to make out, just a kiss. Now..
How do I kiss?!
Ps. She knows I haven't kissed before. :P
Brighter.Tomorrow
August 15th, 2011, 02:16 PM
*claps* Love that you send this to me Matthew. <3
First thing you want to keep in mind is touch, make sure she's okay with actual touch. Hold her hand, place your hand on her waist, use your hand to brush the hair out of her face. So on. If both of you are comfortable touching each other, then that's when you're open to make a move.
Make sure you're some place more private, a open mall, is not a good place for a first kiss. Living room, bedroom, somewhere alone. A quick peck on the forehead, or cheek is always sweet, and a nice way to start, then you can simply lower your head to her lips.
Make sure you tilt your head slightly to avoid nose clashing, and close your eyes, some people like to have open eyed kissing but normally it's just awkward, be slow. Use your lips to caress her's, and keep in mind you're more trying to part her lips, rather then incase them. A gentle hand on the face, waist or back is good hand placement. Never be to forceful. Slow, and sweet.
Upintheair
August 15th, 2011, 02:18 PM
First off, dont be so nervous! She knows you have never kissed anyone before so she will be understanding about you being unsure. Secondly, kissing really isnt that hard! Its so much harder in your head than it is actually. Just pick a time that you think is right, and lean in! She will probably know its coming and react to it. Good luck:)
LuckyLuke
August 15th, 2011, 02:20 PM
Listen Matty, it' so, so, so simple that you're going to feel silly for asking this question.
I know how you feel, no more than a few months ago did I have my first kiss. It was nerve-wracking and gd knows I waited too long. But let me give you a few tips that, had I had them awhile ago it would have made life much easier and much more fun :P.
- Don't hesitate. After a couple dates I knew, without question, that I wanted to kiss her and she wanted to kiss me and every *perfect* moment, my mind would scream to itself, "KISS HER DAMN IT!" and every perfect moment, I hesitated and didn't do it. That's the one thing I regret.
- The very first movement is the hardest but after that, it's the easiest and most natural thing in the world. You can't turn back after the first move. Once you put your arm around her or grab her chin to turn her towards you or hold her waist and look into her eyes, she'll know what you want and you'll both lean in and it should flow ever so naturally.
- If she isn't looking at you at the "perfect moment" because she's (likely) shy, just sweetly whisper her name so that she turns, and lean in 70% of the way.
- The kiss itself is very natural and doesn't require very much thought at all (if any). Lean in, pucker your lips EVER SO SLIGHTLY (you're not kissing a relative), tilt your head lightly to the side, CLOSE YOUR EYES, and place your lips lightly over either her upper or lower lip.
Vonn
August 15th, 2011, 02:21 PM
That's adorable.
Try not to think about it too much, and avoid planning every single movement because it probably isn't going to happen exactly the way you want it to. Wait for what feels like the right moment and go for it.
Hatsune Miku
August 15th, 2011, 07:30 PM
That's for the replies everyone. They're all really helpful, I'm confident and ready. (and very excited) (:
Jupiter
August 15th, 2011, 07:47 PM
just go with your instinct
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