Umm, What's happening to me?

[Valkyrie]

Okay so I used to be totally Straight but i have been having the weirdest "wet" Dream which does not fit in with my usual "wet" Dreams, in my usual dreams I'm surrounded by sexy guys (lol what can i say :P) and bla bla bla happens... But in this dream for some reason I can only see a GIRL!!! and bla bla happens with the girl, now this is one of the first dreams i have had which had an actual girl exept me.
The big question I have is... Am I turning BI or lesbian??? This is really scaring me... Its not the only thing, I think i might be getting weird feelings about some girls. AHHHH PANIC ATTACK IN MOTION !!! lol

[Contra]

Hehe, I know how you're feeling. I believe you're not turning bi or lesbian, but that you're going through a stage of curiosity, which is normal as a teen. Don't worry, it will probably disappear after some time. :)

[judahtics]

girls have wet dreams? it sounds like you are talking about sex dreams, not really wet dreams. anyway, it doesn't mean you are bi or a lesbian. dreams are just that, dreams. they aren't anything to be taken to seriously.

[Valkyrie]

I thought my curiosity stage had already passed as ive tried some weird things, but being gay never crossed my mind at all until now. I put "wet" like that as i didnt really know what u call it and my dreams go way passed only sex. Btw Dreams can lead to many things in life, I also put there that ive beggined having weird feelings for girls aswell (not 100 % sure on that). And do u judahtics always come to my threads lol

[Contra]

You can never be completely sure that that curiosity phase has passed, as it depends on your hormones, so it can't be controlled, even if you have already experimented.

[Valkyrie]

Hmmm ok then, but i was sure i passed that stage lol
Back to topic, I really think i might be turning to a different direction concerning my sexuality. Tho Is this a good thing? (I woudnt think so)

[Maxxie]

What's wrong with a change in sexuality? Being bi or gay is not a bad thing, and a dream can't tell you what you want and certainly can't tell you what you are.

You define yourself, not your dreams and not other people.

That being said, if you're bisexual you have emotional and physical attraction to both sexes, and if you're lesbian it's only to the same sex. If you're questioning your sexuality over a dream, ask yourself if you like girls. If you like them as people and emotionally, and if you're attracted to them physically. If that's a yes, then you might be leaning towards the lower end of the Kinsey scale. Even so, that doesn't mean you'll stay there, nor does it mean you're there in the first place. You could just be curious.

[judahtics]

vainjc i go to most of the post, you generally have something interesting to have a conversation about is all :)

[Valkyrie]

All of you guys are probally right. Tho in my family dreams are somthing quite important... Many people in my family tree have been influenced by dreams, for example my great grand father was forced to leave his country (because of the war and that he was blue blooded) and he had to choose between Australia and America, his dream show him a easier life in Australia. It was a good idea tho cause his freinds (which had to leave aswell) got sent to jail (or died) right after they got to america.

Thats only one example tho, I got lots of them which i might post about later... but because of that my family is always going about that crap. I personally dont believe it but it has shown many good things.
I guess I do have interesting things to say :P Also call me Jessi.

[senior.2013]

OK then Jessi... (odd but in.) Again, it is entirely possible that your hormones are still going and your curiousity still hightend. But is is also entirely possible that you will turn out to be bi or homosexual. If people wont like you because of it and you are being you, you have to be strong enough to be without them.

[Valkyrie]

LOL Ummm.... I'm not very freindly so i dont think they will care. You can ask any of my real freinds and they will probally say I'm a bitch which is quite dissapointing. Anyway they got used to me being how I am now so if I do turn gay or bi they will get used to that, I'm probally the most exiting person they ever met.

[senior.2013]

Then either way you will be fine... :)