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gabrielfdz
August 14th, 2011, 03:50 PM
OK.. so I'm kind of attracted to my brother. Every time he takes his shirt off I get a boner. I don't know what to do. Someone please HELP!

AHSboy
August 14th, 2011, 03:58 PM
You may not specifically be attracted to him, you just may be turned on by his body. It's complicated... Not exactly something to worry about.

Mr. Awesome
August 14th, 2011, 03:59 PM
Its just hormones during your teenage years,there crazy, you may have an attraction to guys which is why you find your brother shirtless attractive, id suggest you dont tell him this because it could lead to an awkwardness between you two

vginy124
August 14th, 2011, 04:05 PM
It's like the Oedipus Complex..but for your brother.. Hmm, I think it is just your hormones raging. I get a boner looking at two hills that look like boobs. what are ya gonna do haha

terbear
August 14th, 2011, 04:07 PM
As long as it doesn't go farther than that, it's all good!

Boxerbriefs96
August 14th, 2011, 04:07 PM
Just because you get a boner looking at him shirtless, doesnt mean you are attracted to him. Boners are random, keep that in mind. Also, it could just mean that you like it when guys are shirtless.

SomeGuyFromHere
August 14th, 2011, 04:11 PM
I don't think getting a boner when you see him shirtless is, in itself, anything to worry about. You've just got to be careful how you deal with it and your relationship.

StoppingTime
August 14th, 2011, 04:16 PM
I don't think it has anything to do with him personally, rather that you like seeing any male shirtless. It is normal due to your hormones during puberty, and I wouldn't worry about it.

lambo420
August 14th, 2011, 04:40 PM
Yeah like everyone has been saying, its not that your attracted or anything its just puberty.

Unlucky_Leprechaun
August 14th, 2011, 05:01 PM
Its just hormones during your teenage years,there crazy, you may have an attraction to guys which is why you find your brother shirtless attractive, id suggest you dont tell him this because it could lead to an awkwardness between you two

Good Answer. Just ride the puberty roller coaster dude

Rayquaza
August 14th, 2011, 05:18 PM
sounds alright. Is he older or younger than you? Im guessing if hes older then hes probably used to getting boners at ur age

Jecko8675
August 14th, 2011, 05:42 PM
Theres no problem with this, your just. VERY curiouse..u see. HLf naked kid (even if its your brother) and your hormones kick in....dont worry, its all natural

JeydonGT
August 14th, 2011, 06:07 PM
......

DoctorWho
August 14th, 2011, 06:11 PM
Its curiosity and its normal for people your age

gabrielfdz
August 14th, 2011, 06:20 PM
sounds alright. Is he older or younger than you? Im guessing if hes older then hes probably used to getting boners at ur age

That's the thing, he never got boners during puberty. Then it would be embarrassing if he sees me getting a boner :$

sdude
August 14th, 2011, 06:29 PM
If it isn't too weird, talk to him about it...He could help you understand that it is puberty and probably a little hero-worship, quite normal.

eggs2006
August 14th, 2011, 06:50 PM
That's the thing, he never got boners during puberty. Then it would be embarrassing if he sees me getting a boner :$

I'm sure he got boners during puberty. He just hid them from you. The more you see him getting undressed, the more you will get used to it and it won't be that exciting. It's like that with Gym or Sports showers. After the first few days you get used to it and seeing other guys naked doesn't shock your brain that much.

oceandude33a
August 14th, 2011, 07:28 PM
its probally crazy hormonanes, and your just getting turned on. i dont have brothers so i cant relate, but good luck!

DoctorWho
August 14th, 2011, 09:25 PM
That's the thing, he never got boners during puberty. Then it would be embarrassing if he sees me getting a boner :$

Ahh but yet he did he wouldn't have gone through puberty without having multiple erections and/or orgasms

judahtics
August 14th, 2011, 09:26 PM
stop looking at him without his shirt on. an make sure you don't wack off thinking about him.

vginy124
August 14th, 2011, 11:26 PM
You are probably just attracted to his figure. That is all : )

Little Boy Big Toy
August 16th, 2011, 02:54 AM
get a girlfriend, or at least try

louisgray
August 16th, 2011, 07:11 AM
That is wrong ,try and think of something off putting instead

Curiousasian
August 16th, 2011, 07:13 AM
it's ok I guess. you'll probably grow out of it