believe him? or the stories? :/

[scouse-emo-chick]

I'm 13 and my bf is almost 17, he's been my bestfriend for ages but we've only just got together... There's a rumor that he's raped two girls and my 'friend' who has a past with him allways makes him out to sound like he only want sex.. He's a really sweet guy though and would do anything to make me happy; even said we can take it slow if I want to... But who do I believe!? I'm actually quite scared bout it as he does have a bad past... HELP!x

[anonymous53]

Not even basing off the stories. He's 17, you're 13. It's way too big of an age gap at your age. The stories just make this guy sound worse. Go after someone your own age.

[Dark_Desires]

if a 13 year old will date a 17 year old then its going to happen were not here to judge well if his sweet and he doesnt do anything u dont want than its okay u could ask ur friend if its true but it kinda sounds bad is someone said he raped 2 girls my advice is be carefull thats all

[senior.2013]

Like everyone said, you're too young for him. And if all he wants is sex, that's where you draw the line.

[Ambrosia]

The only reason more than half the time that someone that age would date someone who is barely a teenager would be for sex. Now this isn't to say that is his only intentions but you need to be honest with yourself, it could be a big possibility. We can't tell you who to believe only because we don't know either of you or his past. But I can tell you to be careful and watch yourself. Do not have sex with this boy, do not fool around with this boy, and take it super slowly. If the rumors are true you don't want to become one of them.

[ally_____]

hey, if theirs a rumor that hes RAPED two other girls, i wouldnt risk it, what if he had? ur not safe! and dont just try and ask him about it because even if he did, would he really tell you? and for christ sake! wtf r u doing with a 17 year old?! one of my closest friends is 14 and she started dating this guy that 17 or 18, anyways he seemed all sweet and said he'd take it slow with her and sex didnt matter to him, but after a few months he started asking her for naked pics from her phone and wanted to 'hook up' she said no and that she wasnt ready, well he kept pushing and pushing, she broke up with him because he was becoming more persistant and it scarred the hell out of her! i dont know you, but i'd rather be stabbed in the face than see anything like that happen to you, it almost ruined her! so please, if ur not gonna break up with him, be VERY carful!

[scouse-emo-chick]

Yeah.."/ 've been really close to a guy the same age of my bf (16 almost 17- NOT 17 yet!) n he was like the lad alys mentioned..it was scary as hell tbh..:/ pluss it might only be a rumor.. :/