Shy/Nervous

[Popcorn15]

I know this sounds weird, but I don't want my boobs to grow. I just want to stay norm and flat-chested. Or I guess you can maybe say that I'm nervous/shy/embarassed about showing it. When I walk, my shoulders are always slumped, and I don't like sitting in a straight correct posture. I'm still flat-chested, but I know my boobs will grow out very soon. How can I overcome my fear of having my boobs noticed?

I feel kind of weird asking a question like this

[Glasgow]

Dont worry, i know where your coming from. Puberty is a very private thing, and alot of people prefer to hide it. Being a guy, i am shy about my armpit hair, my pubic hair and my penis. Now that im getting older you can start seeing my penis sorta poke out of my shorts, and this bothers me. But, alot of girls start developing breasts, and its just a common thing. When you do infact start to develop, you have to realise that guys do infact look at girls chests ALOT (Well atleast all my friends do), but its mostly in pleasure and not disgust. Its something to be proud of, dont worry about it

[Gumleaf]

i know what you mean as far as being nervous about starting puberty. i'm in year 7 at school (1st year of high school in sydney australia) and when i change and shower after school sport it feels weird becasue i'm one of the only guys in my grade that has pubic hair and a reasoable size penis and it makes me feel strange sometimes compared to the others. although i was excited when these changes started happening i was very nervous as well because i looked different to everyone else. like 'leper messiah' said above, guys really like looking at girls that have started growing their boobs. in fact the girls in my class that have started growing their boobs get most of the attention from the guys so i don't think you have anything to worry about. hope this has helped!

[Sapphire]

Guys love breasts, it is a fact. When you are fully developed you will have to worry about getting a guy to notice your face instead of your chest. This is not because they are thinking "urgh, those are horrible" its because they find breasts arousing and attractive. But, a way to reduce attention to your breasts is to wear t-shirts and avoid low cut tops.
I love my breasts, I really do and I am not ashamed to say that I do flaunt them quite a bit. But when I was younger I was just like you.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

I'm a guy (kinda obvious) so I'll give you an honest opinion. Like all of the other guys who posted I love women. And breasts. And girls. And breasts.

So don't worry about growing. Be proud that you will soon have COMPLETE POWER over all of the guys you meet. Honest, I've seen a guy staple his fingers together (he was fine, don't worry) because I girl he liked dared him to do it!

We're all nervous about changing (hey, I sure am! I can't keep the ladies off of me!... well... I can dream...) but IT'S GONNA HAPPEN, so don't be afraid what guys will think, cuz it's gonna be good, whatever they're thinking (I hope?). You biggest fear should be how jealous your friends are gonna be real soon! Doesn't that make you want to look forward to this!

Anyway, if anybody has problems (physically, or they want a guys opinion or want to know "what guys will think") about anything embarrasing, feel free to PM me and I'll answer you to the best of my ability, and could even start a thead for you to get other guys opinions (so they won't know its you, if you want to be THAT secretive!).

I hope this helped, and maybe got a few laughs? (I think I'm funny.... ;)