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Cybercode
August 13th, 2011, 08:04 AM
OK I think something is not right and I have to take it up to the mods.

Yes I did post in the girls forums but that was only because I seen an inapropriate thread. Well it was a thread about a girl peeking at her own father. I posted it's not right and she should stop. And then I reported the thread. Well I guess mods decided to ignore that report and tell me to stay away from the girl's place. I could understand that.

Anyway, a few days after that I seen this question Yahoo Answers that would be a good question here "Can girls surf while on their period?" And that question was officially locked because it wasn't sex-ed related, and it was inappropriate.

Honestly I feel that was a little biased what happened and I'm not questioning the authority of mods but I believe lack of common sense played a big part in this. I believe my post WAS sex ex and WAS appropriate cause it could save a life and I needed someone's opinion not a "locked". So after this I have officially decided I will not be returning to this site.

Jess
August 13th, 2011, 08:32 AM
well if it was locked it was locked for a good reason.

Cybercode
August 13th, 2011, 09:04 AM
Either I don' see that reason or I'm just plain dumb. I think I should be banned from this site because I want gone. I feel deeply offended by a lot of people on this site. In all honesty I am.

Jess
August 13th, 2011, 09:13 AM
maybe you can talk with the mod who locked your thread by PM and see exactly why?

Origami
August 13th, 2011, 09:15 AM
Either I don' see that reason or I'm just plain dumb. I think I should be banned from this site because I want gone. I feel deeply offended by a lot of people on this site. In all honesty I am.

First of all, if you don't like it here, then leave. There's no need to publicly whine and complain about how "offended" you are and how you "want gone."

Secondly, I don't see why you reported the thread. It could be an honest question that didn't need to be locked or otherwise reported. Your thread however, I agree, it shouldn't have been locked, but *insert rant about staff over the last two years* and it happens from time-to-time.

You'd be best to ignore your butt hurt feelings and take up unlocking your thread with an administrator in private.

Donkey
August 13th, 2011, 09:32 AM
You should have PMed me about this, since I locked your thread.

Firstly, we get loads of threads in p101 about girls peaking at family members or whatever and worrying about the validity of their sexual feelings; that includes the ethics and morality of incest. There's nothing wrong with that and it's well within our rules - it pertains to help about sexual feelings and even if it's controversial and sounds odd, we get quite a lot of it so obviously it's a concern for a lot of people. You shouldn't have posted in that thread, certainly if it was in the girls puberty forum and also because you thought it was inappropriate.

As for your thread (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=111776), I felt it appropriate to lock that as it was not sex ed. These are help forums: you do not NEED to know whether or not it is safe for girls to surf in shark infected water while on their period. Furthermore, it's not even sex related at all - it's about sharks and how they are attracted to blood and clearly isn't within our sex-ed guidelines. Please remember these are help forums.

I hope that clears things up a little.

ShatteredWings
August 13th, 2011, 12:44 PM
Locking. If you have a problem wth a staff decision PM them