sister and condom

[oceandude33a]

so my sisters 17 and her and her boyfriend been together for a little under a year and i was in her bathroom and i saw a condom in the trash can. and i ended up hinting to my mom, and then she had a "talk" with her. and thts the second time i found one. was it wrong tht i kinda told her out, i just dont want her to get knocked up and get in more trouble

[judahtics]

mind your own business. it's not your job to tell your mom your sister is having sex. so yes, it was wrong. especially if she is agreeing to the sex. and she's taking precautions against pregnancy. also, don't you think there's the slightest chance your mom might have seen it on her own.

[oceandude33a]

well when i told my mom she said shes found it in the past, and talked to her about it

[DoctorWho]

mind your own business. it's not your job to tell your mom your sister is having sex. so yes, it was wrong. especially if she is agreeing to the sex. and she's taking precautions against pregnancy. also, don't you think there's the slightest chance your mom might have seen it on her own.

Hey dude maybe you should stop posting such jerkish things on stuff people ask about when you have no clue that maybe the sister didn't have sex but it was the parents so just mind your own business and move along

[Unique Physique]

At 17 she's nearly a legal adult and (probably? its usually 16 in most places) already the age of consent. It was quite frankly none of your business to get your mum or anyone else involved. Her sex life is part of her own privacy and her own responsibility and I'm sure if she's using protection with what sounds like a fairly steady boyfriend, she's responsible enough to not need her parents or her 15 year old brother snooping into her life. I know if I was her I'd be very angry with you.

[judahtics]

Hey dude maybe you should stop posting such jerkish things on stuff people ask about when you have no clue that maybe the sister didn't have sex but it was the parents so just mind your own business and move along

that theory doesn't even stand. he told his mommy his sister was having sex. read it again. and if you don't like my posts, don't read them.

[DoctorWho]

that theory doesn't even stand. he told his mommy his sister was having sex. read it again. and if you don't like my posts, don't read them.

I don't need to read your post's to like them I comment on you because you have to put most of your post's in an aggressive way if you ever thought about that

[judahtics]

maybe you're just a wuss. stop being so overly sensitive and take it for what it is. don't over analyze.

[DoctorWho]

maybe you're just a wuss. stop being so overly sensitive and take it for what it is. don't over analyze.

I don't care if im a wuss or not but that dosen't change the fact that ur overly aggressive now Im gonna stop before a mod comes have fun ;)

[oceandude33a]

my mom was just pissed that they were doing under her roof. shes still a minor living in my parents house and she has to follow my parents rules. the only reason tht i though i should tell my mom is because its not the first time and i have a younger sister, so if you dont agree with me f*ck you and fight me

[judahtics]

ummm you asked if people thought you were wrong. if you don't people's answers, you shouldn't have asked.

[oceandude33a]

i would have prefere "i dont agree with you" or "yes i think you did the right thing" some people will think i did the wrong thing and others wont no need to go all physco and attack people and get all pissed over a situation you barley know

[judahtics]

didn't go psycho, told you why i felt it was wrong. explained the why. something apparently you aren't used to.

[oceandude33a]

you didnt need to do a 5 sentense bitch sesh as well

[ShatteredWings]

Fighting stops now.

[DerBear]

I think it is kinda wrong to tell your mum your sister is having sex. I mean if you masturbate (i dont know if you do but just for a scenario lets say you do) and your sister knew and she told your mum you would not be to happy as it is a private thing and she has shared something that is private about your life.I suggest keeping your thoughts to yourself it is with all do respect nothing to do with you.

Just be a teen and leave your sister alone I know you care for her but whats your mum going to do ban her having sex and to be fair if you see a condom then does that not mean they are practising safe sex?

Let them be

Good Luck

Derri

[dontcare97]

I could see why you told, you are worried. Your sister being knocked up would effect the whole family, which includes you. I probably would have gone to my mom too if it was my older brother, more of a joke then a precaution. It probably wasn't right to snitch but it isn't like you did it spitefully.

[Infidelitas]

Just be thankful she isnt doing it every night, and that she can take precautions. She is old enough to know what she is doing

[Nicky97]

You are not violating any confidences to mention what people leave laying around the bathroom. If it were supposed to be a secret you would never have known.

[JayJaySpiritus]

mind your own business. it's not your job to tell your mom your sister is having sex. so yes, it was wrong. especially if she is agreeing to the sex. and she's taking precautions against pregnancy. also, don't you think there's the slightest chance your mom might have seen it on her own.

wow dude. calm your farm.
Your only worried about your sister. its fine. you did what you thought was right and theres nothing wrong with that.

[Modus Operandi]

I'm not going to tell you off, but encourage you to leave your sister alone. You're doing her more harm than good by telling your mom what's going on. Let your sister be. If she fucks up (no pun intended) her life, so be it. That's her problem, not yours.

[Curiousasian]

it's good that you care about your sister but you should've confronted her instead of your mom

[Kujiro]

It's her choice on what she wants to do with her life, if she finds the guy deserving, so be it. And there's really nothing much you can do about it.

There are things which are best left in the closet, rather than digging it out and causing more harm than good.

Your intentions were right, but execution was not so.
Having a chat with your sister would be a bett option, by having a good sibling relationship, would open more doors and she would be more willing to share her woes with you.

It's not always about "I'll tell mum...."
And it's not wise to take such matters in your own hands.
Leave it behind and move on.

Good luck
*smile*

[louisgray]

Domt rat out your family,it's just wrong

[Voodoo]

Hey kid, don't tell on your sister like that. How would you like it if she told your mom if you were having sex? 1. That is utter embarrassment to her thanks to you. 2. It can cause the relationship to shatter. 3. EVER HEAR OF MYOB? Mind YOUR OWN business. She is 17, in the United States and in most countries once you're 16 guess what YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOUR OWN WILL. You're 15, keep out of her shit dude. How would you like it if she walked in your room, looked in the trash for say and found a cum soaked tissue, then "hinted" your mom to it. I don't think you'd be happy. Just keep in mind KARMA IS A BITCH. She will get you back.

[Spock]

honestly i think you should have just kept it quite

[moonwolf9]

mind your own business. it's not your job to tell your mom your sister is having sex. so yes, it was wrong. especially if she is agreeing to the sex. and she's taking precautions against pregnancy. also, don't you think there's the slightest chance your mom might have seen it on her own.

no its not would you rather have a pregnant teenage sister or mind your own business as a brother its your job to look out for your little sister its the same thing if you found crack in her dresser than would you just mind your own business ?

[Devonb97]

Even though she's 17 (which isn't legal) doesn't mean she can have sex. I would do the same thing if I was worried about my sister.

[ImCoolBeans]

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