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dajuvega
August 12th, 2011, 11:45 AM
why dont most girls here want the males in their family to see them naked? i mean, id much rather my dad or brothers see me naked than my mom. id rather they see me spread out and wide open then to have mom see me. she always is making comments and juging my looks. it feels like im being inspected and failing. with my brothers i know they just like to look at boobs and vag they dont care whos or how it looks as long as they get to see some, and dad treats me like a princess regardless. no pressure at all. mom makes me feel like abug under a microscope. and she hates me being naked around dad but she thinks its fine to look at my brothers. like its different because shes female.
so thers the question... why is it so od for your dad to see you have a vagina?

or am i just different? i actually like to be seen. its fun.

Valkyrie
August 13th, 2011, 10:24 PM
Off-Topic= Travis ur not aloud to post here...

Umm I dont mind any of the boys in my family looking at me naked too. Me and My Cousin used to see me naked when i was getting dressed to go to the beach(we just go dressed in the living room) and of course he looked. I also dont have any fuss on my dad seeing me naked. So I must just be weird aswell :P

kentucky girl
August 13th, 2011, 10:35 PM
I agree I don't see anything wrong with any male in my family seeing me naked. I don't have a dad but my brother sees me all the time and I see him. No big deal. I have been around cousins naked too.

sammy1996
August 14th, 2011, 01:05 PM
i never used to care if my brothers seen me naked but as i matured i just dont think its right, boys are boys and allways look, like you said. personally i think thats its not right if my brothers see me naked.
thats just me.
what you said about your mum inspecting you, tell her you dont like it

bobynrobyn
August 15th, 2011, 01:37 PM
my mom n dad sepperated when i was 11or 12, befor that i really didn't care who seen me , no biggy in our house . but when mom got new b/f it did make a diff,he didn't look at me like my brother did .
, he looked at me with a stare,that really got to me . (creepy) my brother just looked and he was done .... but we fooled around alot about that time in life so we kina both checked each other out . pantys and t shirt were stillok to run around the house in , but greg moms b/f still looked at me funny,i dont know why but mom started getting mad when i just had pantys on . i meen like the look in her eye went rite through me . thats about the time she made me more nervus then anyone else , and ya thats when i started being coverd up around mom. as i got to be about 16 i new why ,or at least i think i did (its called compitition) every female has a domane,and when another one is in that area they are a risk . my brother by now had a g/f and she acted the same way around me, like i was a bitch or somethen,and she didn't even know my bro and i still fooled around .

bobynrobyn

dajuvega
August 15th, 2011, 02:52 PM
Yikes! that sounds worse than just mom judging you! I guess that makes some sense too (about why mom is such a pain about it) I just hate that she acts like she's the only one above it all. If the guy wasn't in my family I might be more shy about it, but like you said my brothers just get an eyefull and move on. I do too LOL (blush). I just think it's a little weird that all these other girls here freak out if their dad sees their pussy. unless he wants in it... what's the issue? ya know?

bobynrobyn
August 15th, 2011, 03:06 PM
we are all human right ! we all look ..... my dad told me one time as i was running around the house , "you look good" ! ok ....i'm ok w/ that ,but then there is no "actions" to follow up on comment, and thats the way it's supposed to be , but moms b/f at the time seemed to be looken like he wanted some of that pussy (to me anyway) my brother says i'm crazy, he's got mom why would he want a little girl ! weeeeeell we all no that story as we grow up setten on some old guys lap !!

bobynrobyn

dajuvega
August 16th, 2011, 10:06 AM
lol i guess thats not so bad unless hes ugly or creepy. im sorry that ur moms bf made you feel that way. i think you should be able to enjoy the feeling... not have some old perv making you feel scared.

Haleygurl
August 16th, 2011, 11:00 AM
Glad this question came up, I was always afraid to ask this same thing. My mom freaks out when Im wearing my tshirt n panties around any guys. I dont think it a big deal I mean really I wear a bikini on the beach and at our pool. I remember her freakin out when she came home and I had my head in my step dads lap watching a movie.( I was wearing a tank top and panties) It's almost like she was jellous or somthing. I almost like I have to sneak around to have fun with him. He treats me like an adult in so many ways and she still acts like im a kid. She is the same way about my real dad too. a girl freind and I were over his place haveing fun in the pool. and mom came over and acted like we were about to have an orgy or somthing. I am like omg we were just jumping off his shoulders. She went crazy another time when dad and I were wresting around she walked up and thought we were having sex. She would really get mad if she knew that sometimes when I am over dads house I sometimes sleep with him and snuggle. I enjoy being with my dad and step dad and yes sometimes it is a little flirty but in a good way. But sometimes my mom acts the way she does makes me think of things more than if she would leave us alone.

doris.split
August 16th, 2011, 12:36 PM
personaly i think it would be discussting for my dad and brother to see me naked, or any family member. jaaak..only person who should see me naked is my ginekologist and my boyfriend/husband

Hannahgurl
August 16th, 2011, 12:50 PM
I have always walked around the house almost nude or close to it. I know dad's look and others look. I remember stubbing my little toe and my stepdad checked on my. He was sweet. I was wearing a talk top and that all. He help me with the toe and yes i could see he was looking at me. I was in a way flattered. He didnt try anything funny or anything. But just when he was leaving my room my mom came home and started yelling and everything. In my crazy mind I thought maybe we should have done somthing so she woul have somthing to really yell about. my step dad and I have a good reletionship alot better than me n mom.

sarahann95
August 17th, 2011, 12:46 AM
I don't really like any family member seeing me naked, and if it's my dad or my brothers...then I think that is just weird and gross, but that's me. I think I wouldn't mind as much if my mom did because she already knows what it all is since she has it and obviously wouldn't act like a guy if she saw a woman naked. But again, that's just me

Edit: I don't really like anyone seeing me naked anyways. Not the most comfortable with my body..

doris.split
August 17th, 2011, 05:07 AM
I don't really like any family member seeing me naked, and if it's my dad or my brothers...then I think that is just weird and gross, but that's me. I think I wouldn't mind as much if my mom did because she already knows what it all is since she has it and obviously wouldn't act like a guy if she saw a woman naked. But again, that's just me

Edit: I don't really like anyone seeing me naked anyways. Not the most comfortable with my body..
i agree with this!!

jesslovesu
August 17th, 2011, 10:11 AM
dad has seen me naked a few times and i dont mind it...its not like he touches me or anything...he just looks and then thats it...same with the brother, except he looks a tad bit longer haah

Hannahgurl
August 17th, 2011, 02:54 PM
dad has seen me naked a few times and i dont mind it...its not like he touches me or anything...he just looks and then thats it...same with the brother, except he looks a tad bit longer haah
your right there is nothing wrong with dad seeing us naked

kryptonite
August 17th, 2011, 02:59 PM
dad has seen me naked a few times and i dont mind it...its not like he touches me or anything...he just looks and then thats it...same with the brother, except he looks a tad bit longer haah


Just out of curosity, were they both circumcised?

lionplusfire
August 17th, 2011, 07:03 PM
It leads to incest or worse, in my world...

endgame
August 17th, 2011, 07:26 PM
your right there is nothing wrong with dad seeing us naked

Agreed

joeyjorulz
August 18th, 2011, 08:15 AM
it would be weird if my dad seen me nakid.

girl555
August 18th, 2011, 09:51 AM
i dont live with my dad, just my bro, mum and step dad and all of them see me naked all the time and even more with my brother lol. once i actually nearly ended up blowing my step dad cause it was late we were tired my head was in his lap and he had a boner. a bit awkward yet it kinda turned me on didnt end up acting on that though.

dajuvega
August 18th, 2011, 12:36 PM
but why is it weird is the question. what makes it different? thats the part idont get.
and to my other new friend about the stepdad... you re a better person han me lol if the penis was there in my face.... well, id have tried to put it into my face. notsure i could rise above that, unless it was to try and sit on it lmao.

sammy1996
August 18th, 2011, 12:53 PM
its considered weird because in alot of places incest is weird and although him seeing isnt incest its affiliated with it and guys being guys will still get hard-ons whoever it is.
in alot of families it would just create awkward situations, but its up to the individual families, if you find it ok and he finds it ok then do what you want.... to a limit anyway

kelly820
August 19th, 2011, 12:19 AM
When my mom left us me & my brother, my sister & my dad moved into a small 2 bedroom apartment/condo place and ever since, I've had to share a room with my brother & sister, we dont have problems seeing eachother. as for my dad, i don't make it a point to let him see me, but I will walk around the place naked & if he sees me its no big deal.

SadAngel
August 19th, 2011, 07:36 AM
I can't bealive i'm hearing this a mature grown teenager or grown woman shouldn't let her dad or brother or any male in the family look at your body. What is wrong with you? That is sick and bent. You can let your mum look sure it's not so bad but your dad and brother? Yea you are weird in fact you are very strange and not right at all. I wonder why you we're sick enough to let them look because you haven't grew up and know what's right and wrong. Dear at 13 you are going through puberty that means you are growning into being a woman so that means you have a womans body.

dajuvega
August 19th, 2011, 08:28 AM
so maybe i am young and strange, but are you telling me that your dad is somehow less fit to deal wih nudity in his child than your mom just because hes a man? yeah boys get boners but we get wet at the same things. how oes that make us better? im more comfortable with my dad because theres no judgement, i my be a little perverted but hes never batted an eyelash at me. i am young and alot of this is new to me but im not stupid. making blanket statements doesnt create facts... give me reasons if you re gonna tell me im a bad , sick girl. and im obviously not alone here.
but hanks for answering me at least. just tell me why you think its so wrong.

sorry double posted. stupid kindle. and sammy1996 you re a great question buddy..

---PLEASE do not double post!---

SadAngel
August 19th, 2011, 09:12 AM
so maybe i am young and strange, but are you telling me that your dad is somehow less fit to deal wih nudity in his child than your mom just because hes a man? yeah boys get boners but we get wet at the same things. how oes that make us better? im more comfortable with my dad because theres no judgement, i my be a little perverted but hes never batted an eyelash at me. i am young and alot of this is new to me but im not stupid. making blanket statements doesnt create facts... give me reasons if you re gonna tell me im a bad , sick girl. and im obviously not alone here.
but hanks for answering me at least. just tell me why you think its so wrong.


No you're not alone your just like the rest of the naive kids that are doing wrong. I'll be happy to tell you why it's wrong. 1. he's a grown man an adult 2. he's your own father and 3. As a father he shouldn't be looking at his own child body that's gone through puberty it's sick and it's not right it's not normal. This is not my opinion it's the facts if you don't like it tuff you need to know what's right and what's not right in life it's part of growning up and you need to grown up and be mature and have sense that's it's not right it's gross and strange. Why do you need your father to look at your naked body?
was it because you want him to look at it? How sick can you get really? He's probably sick himself from like looking at it and not telling you to stop you're just bad as him. I suggest you go to school more and have more PSHE on learning these kind of things. You're body is private no males in your family can look it's wrong and you should be ashamed of yourself making him look same goes for your brother. The only person who can look at your body is your boyfriend if you have a healthy relationship and he's always there for you. What do you expect your father to say? ''Yea I love your body it's very sexy? errr your not his wife your his own child and it's all wrong so stop if you don't stop this now then fine do what you like just giving you the facts need learn erm in life it's all part of being grown up. When I was 13 I never was so immature to do that. Grown up

Oh and another thing I want to say. Males stick together with males and Females stick with Females together because they have the same body and know what it's like being woman. If this puberty is so new to you then search up what happens to a girl through puberty you should know this already from school. You're mum was your age once and she knows what's it like your brother and dad doesn't. All they go through puberty is a different way they grow beards there voice gets deeper they have hormones everything else there is to it.

sammy1996
August 19th, 2011, 09:36 AM
yes but daju has clearly stated she doesnt like talking about that kinda stuff with her mum so why should she? its not like there doing anything wrong, she isnt walking into his bedroom naked or anything *i hope*.
if she finds it easier to talk to these things with her dad then she should.
you do what you want, just remember some people find it weird but you do whats best for you

dajuvega
August 19th, 2011, 09:49 AM
sammy is my new hero. as for you with all the opinions... dont you dare put your damage off on my dad. hes a good man and hes never done anything to me but be a lovng dad. you want to come after me?fine. but saying thing like that about people that you dont know is a bi##h move. being nked doesnt mean im sitting on his face to tempt him it means im naked sometimes and he sees. you dont like the question dont respond. im sorry if someone messed with you or if you re just that uptight. but dont think that going after my dad for something i said is cool. and learn to spell.

SadAngel
August 19th, 2011, 10:02 AM
so maybe i am young and strange, but are you telling me that your dad is somehow less fit to deal wih nudity in his child than your mom just because hes a man? yeah boys get boners but we get wet at the same things. how oes that make us better? im more comfortable with my dad because theres no judgement, i my be a little perverted but hes never batted an eyelash at me. i am young and alot of this is new to me but im not stupid. making blanket statements doesnt create facts... give me reasons if you re gonna tell me im a bad , sick girl. and im obviously not alone here.
but hanks for answering me at least. just tell me why you think its so wrong.

yes but daju has clearly stated she doesnt like talking about that kinda struff with her mum so why should she? its not like there doing anything wrong, she isnt walking into his bedroom naked or anything *i hope*.
if she finds it easier to talk to these things with her dad then she should.
you do what you want, just remember some people find it weird but you do whats best for you




If she doesn't want talk these things with her mother which I think it's better because she's a woman herself and use to experience in going through puberty in being a girl not like her father did experience changes in being a girl. You're little friend just said on this thread that she shows her naked body to her dad and brother so she might aswell go to his bedroom and show off everything naked to her father. I know she's your friend and your backing her up and that but being nude to her father and brother that's where I cross the line. I don't think it looks right her telling her father this what happens when your a woman it goes well when a mother explains it but oh well her telling this to her dad it's her choice. By the way they done something wrong already so...there

sammy is my new hero. as for you with all the opinions... dont you dare put your damage off on my dad. hes a good man and hes never done anything to me but be a lovng dad. you want to come after me?fine. but saying thing like that about people that you dont know is a bi##h move. being nked doesnt mean im sitting on his face to tempt him it means im naked sometimes and he sees. you dont like the question dont respond. im sorry if someone messed with you or if you re just that uptight. but dont think that going after my dad for something i said is cool. and learn to spell.



I wasn't bitchy I was stateing the facts learn it in life. I can spell you just thought I miss spelled it. Anyway learn how to know what's right in life. About making b**i**h move wasn't even a bi**h move it was the facts not opinions geez you don't listen I said this before. You know any adult who's older and mature enough would say the same thing as I. I'm just shock you be this dirty to show off one of your blood relatives.

===PLEASE DO NOT DOUBLE POST===

sammy1996
August 19th, 2011, 10:41 AM
everyone calm down, she isnt showing off though thats the point, its just she doesnt care if he does see because its her dad and they are comfortable talking about that kinda thing.
Not flaunting, just her dad is filling the normally mums role of puberty advice.

SadAngel
August 19th, 2011, 10:57 AM
sammy is my new hero. as for you with all the opinions... dont you dare put your damage off on my dad. hes a good man and hes never done anything to me but be a lovng dad. you want to come after me?fine. but saying thing like that about people that you dont know is a bi##h move. being nked doesnt mean im sitting on his face to tempt him it means im naked sometimes and he sees. you dont like the question dont respond. im sorry if someone messed with you or if you re just that uptight. but dont think that going after my dad for something i said is cool. and learn to spell.

everyone calm down, she isnt showing off though thats the point, its just she doesnt care if he does see because its her dad and they are comfortable talking about that kinda thing.
Not flaunting, just her dad is filling the normally mums role of puberty advice.


Fair enough sammy.

bleedoutlove
August 19th, 2011, 10:58 AM
I have a terrible relationship with my dad that I won't go into, but I'd be very terrified if he saw me naked, my brothers stopped seeing me naked around 9 or 10, I don't even let my Mum see me in anything less than a bra now. I'm not self concious in front of friends, just family. I think you represent the minority (no offence intended).

Ambrosia
August 19th, 2011, 03:58 PM
Yes, lets listen to Sammy. Everyone calm down and keep the flaming to a minimal. If you all have any problems with something and want to fight, take it to PM. Keep it out of the thread or it'll be locked!

dajuvega
August 19th, 2011, 04:00 PM
maybe... but i cant imagine it any other way. thats why was asking. im sorry things are bad for you. you shoul never feel scare around dad. you should never have to. i know my dad does a hard job with lots of other soldiers. i know he has killed people . but i cant imagine being afraid around him. or of him. im soo sorry things worked out like that for you.
so f im the minority does that make me special or just odd? lol

crzy15
August 19th, 2011, 09:49 PM
I dont care who sees me naked in my house,, my dads never home cause he works a million hours a week, but my brothers see me naked a lot,, im not shy. its not gross or weird. Everyone should be proud of their bodies. Not ashamed!!

dajuvega
August 22nd, 2011, 02:33 PM
amen. lol, you soundlike my brother. he was walking through the house today while dad was gone with a boner. he just walked into the living room got into the superhero pose for a minute and told mom she did a great job making him. i almost peed myself.

beag_amhain
August 22nd, 2011, 03:42 PM
i wudn walk round naked at home, in shorts n a t-shirt yeah, but like nuttin less, jus wudn feel comfortable >.<

Roses_Are_Yellow
August 22nd, 2011, 06:35 PM
My dad hasn't seen me naked since I was 3. I guess there's nothing wrong with it, I just feel more comfortable with my clothes on. I guess it's normal in some houses, just not mine.

I bet you your mom's just jealous. I remember reading something, where some mother's get jealous of their daughters, especially adolescent (and odler) ones. I can't really remember the rest, but it probably has something to do with beauty, or insecurities. Maybe your mom is only making those remarks about you because she wants to feel better about her self, and maybe thats also why she doesn't want your dad to see you. Maybe she see's what she's not anymore. I had this friend, who was extremely pretty (and she knew it) and you could litterally feel her mom being sort of jealous of her. I had seen pictures of how her mom looked twenty years ago, and she had the face, and the body that would get peoples attention. But, now she's put on a little weight, and she's older (not to be mean to her or anything) and now her daughters in the lime light, and I don't think she can handle it. Maybe your situation is similar? (I hope I don't offend you or anything, if I do, sorry..)

That was just my guess, I could be way wrong though.

or maybe she feels it isn't appropraite? Which would be such a double standard since she's fine with your brotherd walking around nude...

dajuvega
August 23rd, 2011, 06:19 PM
that makes abunch of sense. she only gets hateful about my body. she compliments my brothers. when dave was waving his stiffy around she thought it was hilarious, but i sat on the couch in a towel o brush my hair and it fell open last night and she accused me of trying to show my pussy to my brother. i think i hate her this week. i made it alot worse by flashing a wide open shot of vagina to her and my brothers after she said that. she makes me crazy sometimes.


OMG, my dad came home and mom told him what happened, i am sooooo gounded for life. he was so mad at me he left the room and didnt come back for an hour. he said id been disrepectful to my mom and that i have to do lots of nasty jobs around the houseto make up for it. o the upside he got into it with my mom after we all went to bed about her being mean to me. he thinks hes quiet but he was a drill sergeant so is voice kinda carries LOL. i love my dad.

Veronica_kitty
August 25th, 2011, 01:34 PM
since it's just me and my mum who are living together and i don't have a brother, i will never know how it would feel to be seen by my dad, but i don't think it would be a problem for me.
As long as he wouldn't touch me it would be ok. In another thread here in this forum i wrote about how it would be to have a brother who sees me nude, but i guess it would be different, because this man would be my dad.
Damn, I don't know :-)
I think i wouldn't mind showing me in front of my brother (if i had one) in detail and drive him crazy with my nude body, but i geuss if my dad lived with us, i wouldn't go farther than flash him from time to time.

crzy15
August 25th, 2011, 01:40 PM
im more comfortable with my family seeing me naked then total strangers. so being naked at home is no issue for me.

screamtobeheard
August 26th, 2011, 06:56 AM
I think it'd really depend on the type of person you are and your brothers/dad are. Because honestly, I don't care who sees me naked...but I don't want my dad to. Then again, I don't want my mom to either. So, I guess it's just me. I don't really care if anyone sees me naked, as long as they're not related to me. I'm just uncomfortable with that.

lionplusfire
August 26th, 2011, 05:10 PM
I can't bealive i'm hearing this a mature grown teenager or grown woman shouldn't let her dad or brother or any male in the family look at your body. What is wrong with you? That is sick and bent. You can let your mum look sure it's not so bad but your dad and brother? Yea you are weird in fact you are very strange and not right at all. I wonder why you we're sick enough to let them look because you haven't grew up and know what's right and wrong. Dear at 13 you are going through puberty that means you are growning into being a woman so that means you have a womans body.



i agree completly

amylights
August 26th, 2011, 10:11 PM
my family sees my naked all the time and they dont care.... my brother likes to look at my boobs lol... and when i see my family naked, they dont care either... my family seen my boobs when i was changing and in the shower... and ive seen my mum completely naked including privates... we dont even bother trying to cover up.... once i was in the shower and the shower head didnt work.... my mum just came and fixed it up while i was fully naked...

Megson
August 27th, 2011, 10:06 PM
My brothers are perverted. That's why I'M uncomfortable if they ever saw me naked.

Susanna
August 28th, 2011, 09:45 AM
We are all born naked so why would it be weird or wrong to be naked? Especially in front of your own family? I think itīs weird to think itīs weird!!

briannafrmhell
August 29th, 2011, 11:06 AM
I'm naked in front of my family all the time. Didnt think it was weird :/

Triste
August 29th, 2011, 11:42 AM
A lot of girls aren't really afraid of showing their nude-ness to the males in their family. Its just, most of them believe in common decency and don't want to look awkward.

Claire Armstrong
September 1st, 2011, 03:21 AM
I live with my mum and sister I don't see my dad much. When I was younger up to about 11 I used to come down out of the bath and dry off downstairs with no clothes on with my dad around, it didnt bother me but I guess it was now. Usually now I can walk around in just my knickers cos its only my mum and sister but if my mums partner came I'd wear a towel to go to my room from the shower.

Weeping
September 1st, 2011, 03:46 AM
Simply because I don't want anyone to see me naked.

KatieBaby
September 1st, 2011, 11:39 AM
i dont want most people to see me naked, its just how i am. I dont mind around certain close friends, or in change rooms or whatever, but i dont advertise it. but people in my house i guess get the odd glimpse, its impossible to avoid. def would rather my dad not see me naked tho. weird. i didnt care i when i was younger though, just went i started puberty

Left
September 1st, 2011, 01:07 PM
I have always walked around the house almost nude or close to it. I know dad's look and others look. I remember stubbing my little toe and my stepdad checked on my. He was sweet. I was wearing a talk top and that all. He help me with the toe and yes i could see he was looking at me. I was in a way flattered. He didnt try anything funny or anything. But just when he was leaving my room my mom came home and started yelling and everything. In my crazy mind I thought maybe we should have done somthing so she woul have somthing to really yell about. my step dad and I have a good reletionship alot better than me n mom.

way effed up but thankfully just as fake as the rest of the profile is.

dajuvega
September 26th, 2011, 05:09 PM
whos profile is fake? i got grounded as hell b/c my mom got my kindle and found out i was on here. my life sucks right now.
as for the original problem here... my mom is starting to get crazy about stuff. shelets my brothers eat at the table nude but wants me in pants and shirt if dad is home. i have to close the bathroom door to shower or pee but the can piss off the deck pantless all day. mom is spending more and more time with my bros when they re naked but getting more and more crazy about me. any advice? i just want to run away.

lea59
September 26th, 2011, 09:17 PM
I feel awkward walking around in one of those towel wrap things - If anyone in my family saw me naked, I would freak (it's not incest and i dont care about incest anyways but my body is for my eyes only and my future husband's). My dad hasnt seen me naked since i was a kid, and nobody has ever really walked around my house naked with people around. It would be extremely awkward if my dad saw me naked...even worse if it was my mom though, I dont trust her at all. it's just, I'm not a kid anymore, qnd my body is mine, not my parents' to view.

jessica_is_awesome
September 27th, 2011, 02:01 AM
Well when i was little i use to walk around naked, but then i started gettin horny, and growing hair and boobs. My brother being a lil horn dog, stares at me so much its not funny...he 16 n i was like 13. Soooo we asked me to a friends party n got me drunk and we ended up fucking each other and it felt soo ogood we r still having sex sooo... maybe you shouldnnt walk arond the house. plus my dad used to finger me after he caught me in the bath rubin that lil pink dot

Crocbait230
September 28th, 2011, 06:19 PM
Personally i would rather have guys in my school see me naked than to let my dad see me naked id just find it awkward. But i have let my brother see me a few times, no big deal.

diamondiris16
September 28th, 2011, 08:13 PM
personally, i have no problem with my dad or brother seeing me naked. it doesnt matter to me. so what if the guys see my boobs and vigina? like you said i actually like being seen by them, especially my brother:)

dajuvega
October 12th, 2011, 12:04 PM
i know this is old now and you all have to be tired of me but i have to tell you you make me feel normal and waaaaay better about being me. on a side note my younger brother pinched me on the butt yesterday while i was in the shower. scared me to death. i think he was watching me. should i try to get him back?

sammy1996
October 12th, 2011, 01:24 PM
how old is he?

dajuvega
October 14th, 2011, 01:36 PM
he just turned 12. hes pretty horny most of the time. thats why i think he was watching. dont know if he was for sure. wouldnt mind if he was but he scared me pretty bad. just all into the hot water and then theres a hand on my ass out of nowhere lmao

sammy1996
October 14th, 2011, 01:48 PM
Probably best to leave it or if he carries on set him straight about it, that it unless you want something to happen which isnt recommendable tbh

Misty_Night2000
October 20th, 2011, 11:50 PM
Well I do admit that I like to tease. So I dont mind that father, brother and uncle have seen me naked. My father does touch me sometimes, not sure if I should let him.

AshleyVanSant
October 22nd, 2011, 09:43 PM
Kinda gross to me, I'd puke if my dad tried something.

kelsie12346
October 23rd, 2011, 01:48 AM
dad has seen me naked a few times and i dont mind it...its not like he touches me or anything...he just looks and then thats it...same with the brother, except he looks a tad bit longer haah

yea as long as no touching its fine shit happens

pools of blue
October 23rd, 2011, 09:18 PM
I am fine about my brother, sister and mum seeing me naked, but i would not feel right walking around naked in front of my dad. way too awkward.

christinap
October 28th, 2011, 01:42 PM
My dad has occasionally seen me naked and vice versa. The most recent time was on our summer vacation in the hotel room. Neither of us is bothered by nudity.

ClaireMarie
November 3rd, 2011, 04:06 AM
I'm always naked, bottomless or topless at home. So dad sees me like this everyday and i dont mind it. It's completely normal for me.

honeybear
November 3rd, 2011, 11:53 AM
even though my parents divorced a long time ago nudity was never an issue...mom and I go nude around each other all the time and when I stay at my dads it is pretty much the same..my male cousin saw me alot when he lived here but we had to share a room so it was kinda unavoidable...but it doesnt bother me at all

dajuvega
November 9th, 2011, 05:17 PM
thank you all for the continued input. its great to hear abou other girls who arent wierded out by dads. maybe im dumb but i still dont see why you would be. i made my dad take me to the doctor last week and it was soooo much less akward than with mom.

gtrgeek
December 1st, 2011, 03:23 PM
I think it comes down to who you get along with better. ur dad and u have are closer - that's it!

I don't mind if my Dad sees my boobs or stuff. kinda like it.

Surferchic2362
December 2nd, 2011, 05:01 PM
No male family member can ever see me. Ewww!!! As far as touching, I will cut something off. Try it. I dare

shybigirl13
December 11th, 2011, 07:11 AM
my family is open with nudity... pretti much every day im walking around the house either naked or in panties... my brother and sister walk around naked to, we just dont realy mind.

Missy789
February 10th, 2012, 07:32 AM
I wouldn't really know because I don't have brothers and I've only met my dad a few times.

Mortal Coil
February 10th, 2012, 07:36 AM
I'm not ok with any family member seeing me naked. My mom inspects me like yours does, and my brother's a total perv who brings up things like blowjobs at the dinner table. My dad... i don't know, I just would feel so so so weird if any family member saw me naked.

Missy789
February 10th, 2012, 07:44 AM
I can't bealive i'm hearing this a mature grown teenager or grown woman shouldn't let her dad or brother or any male in the family look at your body. What is wrong with you? That is sick and bent. You can let your mum look sure it's not so bad but your dad and brother? Yea you are weird in fact you are very strange and not right at all. I wonder why you we're sick enough to let them look because you haven't grew up and know what's right and wrong. Dear at 13 you are going through puberty that means you are growning into being a woman so that means you have a womans body.


Don't be so rude! :mad:

Missy789
February 10th, 2012, 07:46 AM
My dad hasn't seen me naked since I was 3. I guess there's nothing wrong with it, I just feel more comfortable with my clothes on. I guess it's normal in some houses, just not mine.

I bet you your mom's just jealous. I remember reading something, where some mother's get jealous of their daughters, especially adolescent (and odler) ones. I can't really remember the rest, but it probably has something to do with beauty, or insecurities. Maybe your mom is only making those remarks about you because she wants to feel better about her self, and maybe thats also why she doesn't want your dad to see you. Maybe she see's what she's not anymore. I had this friend, who was extremely pretty (and she knew it) and you could litterally feel her mom being sort of jealous of her. I had seen pictures of how her mom looked twenty years ago, and she had the face, and the body that would get peoples attention. But, now she's put on a little weight, and she's older (not to be mean to her or anything) and now her daughters in the lime light, and I don't think she can handle it. Maybe your situation is similar? (I hope I don't offend you or anything, if I do, sorry..)

That was just my guess, I could be way wrong though.

or maybe she feels it isn't appropraite? Which would be such a double standard since she's fine with your brotherd walking around nude...


I completely agree.

Clara13
February 10th, 2012, 02:41 PM
Yesterday I really wanted to show everything, thats why Im feeling wierd since them

Shamwow_Me
February 10th, 2012, 03:57 PM
Somee people should be ashamed . I mean letting your brother see you nude just for kicks and giggles? Tf is wrong with people?!

Carolyn
February 12th, 2012, 01:52 AM
Dads are supposed to protect their daughters. I can't see it any other way, haha.

So it's okay If he sees me without clothes. I would still be embarrassed, but I wouldn't get mad or anything like that. It would be totally different (and not okay at all) if my brother or any of the other guys in the family saw me....

Dad took me to get a physical recently. my doctor wanted to do a complete development check and here's a bit of a confession: exams turn me on a bit so I was getting all squeamish and wet which made me almost die of embarrassment when the doctor pulled down my panties to check everything.

Breakeven
February 12th, 2012, 05:49 AM
coz its not right

Anna G
February 17th, 2012, 10:25 PM
Question is is your mom judging you because she wants you to be respectable or just to show she can control you.

As for male family think its OK when your younger but as a teen is not good .You are thir sister not thir free sex show.

Nocturnal_Insomniac
February 18th, 2012, 11:40 PM
dont mind to much about my dad, my brother i care about, but then, he's ten, and that just feels weird, i get enough attention from random guys wolf whistling at me - 12DD (aus size)-, but my ten year old brother? my cousin meh, who cares, and, now that i think about it, i'm super close to my best friend and her family, i call them mum, dad, sis, bro, and i know that her brother has seen me naked more then once. first time i blushed, after that i got over it (especially since he told me how sexy i looked, and he's 100% gay. my mum and i dont get on very well, she thinks we do, but she's delusioned. i prefer my dad, and my friends family seeing me over my mum, but then, i'm weird

Chicka15
February 18th, 2012, 11:51 PM
because its wrong

Tina36DD
March 19th, 2012, 10:13 PM
I always walk from the bathroom to my bedroom with a towel or naked all the time. My Dad sees me and never says anything at all. I fell in the shower and banged my elbow. My dad came to help and covered me up befor carring me out to the couch. No big deal in our house. Caught my Dad in the garage getting clothes out of the drier naked and he just said to close the door, please. Jeez mom and dad have sex with the door open once with the light on! there is nothing to be ashamed of, i dont think.

vicky_hot
March 27th, 2012, 09:08 PM
i dont mind walking around naked around my family either. dad, uncle, brother. they have all seen me naked simce i was born so i dont see the problem.
i once had my onepiece on and naked undereith, i was checking something that was scratching me inside on my back so i open it while my uncle was there, and it slipped of and my uncle just laughed and said is everything ok :) and i sain something is iching on the back in my one piece and he helped find what it was and we laughed and then i just put it on and thats all. nothing weird with family watching as long as its not for bad intentions :)

Renee
March 28th, 2012, 09:47 PM
I don't care. I'm casual about my nudity, but my Dad freaks out. He's like, put a towel on, and I'm like, look away. Whatever.

Weber_Swagg
March 28th, 2012, 10:56 PM
My mom isn't really like that but I don't really care. They all know what it looks like so whats the problem. But i'm not really shy about my body.

smalltowngirl9189
March 29th, 2012, 08:45 PM
I am the same way. I feel as if my mom and sister judge my body when at least my dad and brothers just go wow you have tits and a pussy like every other girl. I even get shy around my boyfriend and when I have a girlfriend it's worst.

dajuvega
April 2nd, 2012, 05:52 AM
wow. im sooo glad you guys are still posting. that makes me happy. i love that we can talk like this. this seems like something that get a big answer from one way or the other. its really helping me sort things out and decide how to talk with my dad about some of this. keep it up! for the girls tha keep saying its wrong.... Why do you think its wrong? what is it that is so wierd about this for you? was it taught to you or is it just a feeling? if it isnt wierd to see him or other males in the family naked, and if we all look when we do, why is it wrong for us to be seen? why should i have to hide? thankks again for all the answers!!!

kao321
April 15th, 2012, 08:37 AM
I am pretty comfortable about my body and people seeing it, but I would say I am way more close to my dad than my mom.

swisss21
April 27th, 2012, 12:51 PM
Wearing cloths or walking naked is not an issue in my family. I walk naked in my home also swim naked always. I saw my brother and my dad naked as well almost daily. They see me too. I never remember them seeing me purposefully.

dajuvega
May 3rd, 2012, 06:07 PM
No more opinions? LOL that's a shame... this thread is kind of an old friend now. Please don't die thread! LMAO! muchas love to all of you who took the time to write me!

Clara13
May 5th, 2012, 08:21 AM
Well, for me it is much easier to talk about everything with my dad, so if I have to show something, or let someone to see me naked it would be him without doubt. Even one time when I start to shave and had some problems with the hair I prefered to show it to him instead my mom. I dont kow, just feel more comfortble arround him... I dont hame any essues about being naked arround with him or show him everything, nothin sexual, though:wub:

kao321
May 5th, 2012, 07:13 PM
I would say I am just as comfortable with showing my dad my body as with my mom. I mean most of the time I go to my mom, but if she isn't here I'll go to my dad. Like when I first got my period last year my mom wasn't here so I went to my dad.

bigboobs1992
May 5th, 2012, 07:53 PM
I dunno, its really strange when my dad or brother see me naked and when i see their penis.

whatevva
May 6th, 2012, 05:22 PM
It's just not an issue at our house. Sometimes I walk around naked for whatever reason and nobody makes a big deal over it. I also like to swim naked, but dad wears a suit if we're in together. I know that he doesn't if he's just swimminmg at night with mom. I've masturbated with my brother in a bedroom...we never touch each other though.

DanielleD
May 6th, 2012, 06:54 PM
How could u want your dad to see? Its mortifying.

Shortie
May 6th, 2012, 07:59 PM
I sure don't want dad to see, neither my mum! If I have problems I tend to deal with them myself. I wish I had a better dad and have a better relationship like you do, good luck to you!

Zeh Crazy
May 7th, 2012, 06:04 PM
There is something definitely wrong with male relatives seeing a young girl naked. You can turn someone into a pedophile or pervert by doing that. Thas sickening for the father to even allow a daughter to walk around naked in front of him. There's something wrong with any man who doesn't have a problem with that. Just because you were raised to do that, doesn't mean it's right.

dajuvega
May 8th, 2012, 02:23 PM
that seems to bee the whole question... why would it be shameful for someone to see you naked just because your pieces are different. why the heck would there be a sense of shame when nobody did anything wrong. age doesnt change it. naked is naked. dad feels the same way about you that mom does. if one is ok why not the other. as far as making someone a pervert gender has no bearing on it. this forum has proved we`re just as sex obsessed as boys. does you seeing him naked mean you ve done something to be ashamed of. is it making you a pervert. gender bias is still crappy when its aimed at men.

Smeagol
May 8th, 2012, 02:40 PM
I would hate to be seen. I'm ok with mum seeing, but if dad sees me in my underwear he hides his face until I'm gone :P And my brother is perverted :P

Zeh Crazy
May 8th, 2012, 04:51 PM
that seems to bee the whole question... why would it be shameful for someone to see you naked just because your pieces are different. why the heck would there be a sense of shame when nobody did anything wrong. age doesnt change it. naked is naked. dad feels the same way about you that mom does. if one is ok why not the other. as far as making someone a pervert gender has no bearing on it. this forum has proved we`re just as sex obsessed as boys. does you seeing him naked mean you ve done something to be ashamed of. is it making you a pervert. gender bias is still crappy when its aimed at men.


I think it's just as wrong for your mom to see you naked as it is your father. Where's the privacy? Everyone deserves privacy. It's not right to just walk around naked in front of your relatives. I'm not biased against men. I just think that there's a certain age when our bodies mature that parents whould give us privacy as we deal with and go through these changes. Allowing or liking the fact that your parents see you naked is wrong. Your parents having no problem with it in the first place is wrong.

Noxail
May 8th, 2012, 05:49 PM
Ahh the age old question, to see, or not to see. I really don't have a problem with my friends seeing me naked, we've been friends sense 1st grade, and I have nothing to hide from them. However, with my dad...... ew. No. My dad will never see me naked. Never. That's just... wrong. I don't care if my grandma ect. sees me naked, solely because I know them better, and they're the same sex. I'd be uncomfortable with any guy seeing me naked, be it my dad, my boyfriend, or my brother. :lol:

swimgurl97
May 13th, 2012, 12:52 AM
i personally don't let my family member see me naked. They saw me when i was little but now that i am fully developed I will not let any family members see me naked including my mom

GreenGummyBear
May 13th, 2012, 03:10 PM
Personally I don't want any of my family members to see, but I would much rather it was my dad than my mom or sister. I agree, it feels like they are judging me or comparing themselves. It's weird.

JessDaly
May 21st, 2012, 06:58 PM
what a stupid question

Lovemeorleaveme
May 21st, 2012, 10:42 PM
I dont have a prob with it. my dad does though, he doesnt let me walk around the house in a t-shirt and undies in the mornings when i get up because its "inappropriate". One night my family and i were about to start a movie and my dad sends my little bros and i off to get our pjs on and i come out in a t-shirt and a pair of boyleg undies and he takes one look at me and says "its not appropriate for you to be wearing that around your little brothers, go put on some pants." He said it as if i had been wearing a thong or somthing, i think ive worn skimpyer bikini bottoms and yet everythings different when its family movie night. im sry i ranted slightly there but ya.

dajuvega
May 29th, 2012, 09:01 AM
One more time I guess.... thank everyone who posted. If you don't like the question, move on. apparently not everyone thinks it's stupid, so stop flinging poo around. Thanks.

lcode
June 23rd, 2012, 07:20 PM
it's complicated to deal with that cause u have to see ur dad everyday

randomnessqueen
July 25th, 2012, 06:15 AM
i have no problem with my dad seeing me. i walk around the house naked all the time so does mom, and little sis. even when my brother still lived here he would sometimes. so we are all very open about that.

Snowcakie
July 25th, 2012, 08:03 PM
Well when i was little i use to walk around naked, but then i started gettin horny, and growing hair and boobs. My brother being a lil horn dog, stares at me so much its not funny...he 16 n i was like 13. Soooo we asked me to a friends party n got me drunk and we ended up fucking each other and it felt soo ogood we r still having sex sooo... maybe you shouldnnt walk arond the house. plus my dad used to finger me after he caught me in the bath rubin that lil pink dot

What the hell is WRONG with you?

Snowcakie
July 25th, 2012, 08:19 PM
wow. im sooo glad you guys are still posting. that makes me happy. i love that we can talk like this. this seems like something that get a big answer from one way or the other. its really helping me sort things out and decide how to talk with my dad about some of this. keep it up! for the girls tha keep saying its wrong.... Why do you think its wrong? what is it that is so wierd about this for you? was it taught to you or is it just a feeling? if it isnt wierd to see him or other males in the family naked, and if we all look when we do, why is it wrong for us to be seen? why should i have to hide? thankks again for all the answers!!!

No offense, but I'm going to state by facts- not feelings.

One, it USED to be okay when you were younger, but now since you hit puberty it's A LOT different. I don't care if they seen you naked as a child, or baby because you were a baby/child so it never occurred to them.

Two, now since you hit puberty, men; father, brother, uncle, cousin... they look at you in a different light. I do not care if he is your father or not, in my book, it's still wrong because he is still MAN; a male, and when seeing his daughter; a naked female, can get turned on and that could lead to sexual assault or rape- yes, he can rape you by his raging hormones.

Three, it teaches you to respect yourself and have moral decency as a young WOMAN.

You think it's okay being naked around your possibly aroused father, who could rape you at any minute (doesn't matter if he's the nicest person, you don't know what's on his mind.).

Four, having some form of sexual activity with you relatives is complete incest, even if it's experimenting.... it's experimental incest.

That's okay to you having incest sex, but to me? No.

Five, respect your body.

Six, even though you're not in a healthy relationship with you mother, I find it more comfortable if you were naked around her then your father because she has the same genitals as you do, went to puberty as you did and knows more about the female body then you father or any other male relatives.

I'm sorry young lady, the people that you want them agree with is right, it is wrong (TO ME) and it could lead for him to molest you and then rihgt? Would you still be naked around him?

Ignorance is not bliss.

Nullandvoid
August 5th, 2012, 10:50 AM
because it would just be really wierd I think
I wouldn't be all that comfortable... but then i don't exactly live with him 24/7

I know from the beach some families are just happy and normal that way

dajuvega
August 6th, 2012, 07:29 AM
[QUOTE=Snowcakie saod....it's still wrong because he is still MAN; a male, and when seeing his daughter; a naked female, can get turned on and that could lead to sexual assault or rape- yes, he can rape you by his raging hormones.



You think it's okay being naked around your possibly aroused father, who could rape you at any minute (doesn't matter if he's the nicest person, you don't know what's on his mind.).

Four, having some form of sexual activity with you relatives is complete incest, even if it's experimenting.... it's experimental incest.

That's okay to you having incest sex, but to me? No

I'm sorry young lady, the people that you want them agree with is right, it is wrong (TO ME) and it could lead for him to molest you and then rihgt? Would you still be naked around him?

Ignorance is not bliss.[/QUOTE]

for real?young lady? as much as i appreciate your attempt to talk down to me here i gotta a couple questiona.... who the hell has been raising you to be so afraid of your relatives? my dad isnt gonne rape me nor is anyone else. my daddy doesnt raise helpless women. we have the tools nd the guts to handle problems lol.
second...i did some research, men can control themselves and what kid our age uses the term raging hormones as anything other than a joke? i said nothing about supporting or condemning incestuous relationships.
thirdly where the heck do you get off calling me young lady and lecturing me oh so sweetly and pompously when your profile says you re my age? kind of takes away from your moral authority when you dont know anymore than i do. stop being afraid take control of your own safety and morality.

Loreley
August 6th, 2012, 08:07 AM
I don't walk around in the house naked.. I don't feel comfortable when a member of my family see me naked. When I was little, I did it, but now only my mum and my little sister see me. When I will go to the university and I will have my own house or when I will live with my bf, I will do it.

alley
August 6th, 2012, 09:04 AM
lol, no. When I was little sure would walk round naked as had no modesty ^.^ as I've grown up no one sees me nude except my boyfriend/doctor. I would be highly embarassed if any member of my family - mum or dad or whatever - saw me naked. eww.

laurenspencer
August 6th, 2012, 04:34 PM
This is aweful, why in the world would any girl want the males in their family to see them naked? I hope you aren't showing them how to insert a tampon or having sex with them too.

FreeFall
August 6th, 2012, 08:49 PM
Ew. No and never.
It was ok when I was little because I was a little girl, but once I began to blossom into a woman no way would family ever see me naked again!
The only woman my dad should see naked is my mom. Not me.

The only person that will ever see me nude is my bf.

alicia95
August 7th, 2012, 01:18 PM
I can't bealive i'm hearing this a mature grown teenager or grown woman shouldn't let her dad or brother or any male in the family look at your body. What is wrong with you? That is sick and bent. You can let your mum look sure it's not so bad but your dad and brother? Yea you are weird in fact you are very strange and not right at all. I wonder why you we're sick enough to let them look because you haven't grew up and know what's right and wrong. Dear at 13 you are going through puberty that means you are growning into being a woman so that means you have a womans body.


I can see people thinking this way, but it strikes me as odd. I suppose it has to do with upbringing, but we've never been uptight about nudity in my family. I could care less if my dad or brothers see me, and think it would be very strange to hide my nudity from them but not from my mother. I've seen them all naked, they've all seen me naked.

lou lou
August 8th, 2012, 09:20 PM
I dont care if my mom or best friends see me naked but my dad or brothers that would be VERY weird for me.

CutieHoney
August 10th, 2012, 08:17 AM
I don't mind my younger brother or my parents seeing me naked. But I do mind my older brother seeing me naked for some reason. IDK.

littlevalleygirl
August 10th, 2012, 12:28 PM
I don't let anyone see me naked except my bff and some of my other girl frieinds. That just isn't ok for me. If you do that's ok for you but not me.
I know there are naturists/nudists that are very comfortable being naked and have been brought up that way....i don't have a problem with that since it is just viewed as natural and not sexual.
The only problem I have is that some of you just do it as if your brother or father will never view you as sexual or already do. That is wrong to me. Incest is wrong and just because they are not doing anything to you physically doesn't mean they aren't thinking about it.
Still as long as you all have an open nonsexual attitude about it...then walk around naked all you want.

To dajvega/Chrissy
You need to be willing to calmly discuss your feelings about the double standard way your mom accepts you brothers being naked and not you...preferably with your dad there too....maybe with it all out in the open... you will finally get to walk around naked all you want....good luck!

toobigforlife
August 10th, 2012, 01:34 PM
I think its cuz it would be kinda awkward for some girls, plus they might be scared because of the news and stuff showing cases where fathers rape their daughters and then arresting them

whatevva
August 10th, 2012, 03:21 PM
This whole thread kinda makes me mad. I guess If your so afraid of letting your father see you naked, then you should be looking at why. He's ur father! If U dont trust him totally..then U have other issues.

Clara13
August 11th, 2012, 07:54 AM
This whole thread kinda makes me mad. I guess If your so afraid of letting your father see you naked, then you should be looking at why. He's ur father! If U dont trust him totally..then U have other issues.

I agree with u 100%

Snowcakie
August 11th, 2012, 07:11 PM
for real?young lady? as much as i appreciate your attempt to talk down to me here i gotta a couple questiona.... who the hell has been raising you to be so afraid of your relatives? my dad isnt gonne rape me nor is anyone else. my daddy doesnt raise helpless women. we have the tools nd the guts to handle problems lol.
second...i did some research, men can control themselves and what kid our age uses the term raging hormones as anything other than a joke? i said nothing about supporting or condemning incestuous relationships.
thirdly where the heck do you get off calling me young lady and lecturing me oh so sweetly and pompously when your profile says you re my age? kind of takes away from your moral authority when you dont know anymore than i do. stop being afraid take control of your own safety and morality.

No, I'm not being afraid- just having common sense :P

And no offense, but not everyone going to agree with you. Another thing, being young doesn't make you naive and can be just a mature as an adult. Yes, he can rape you at any moment- but how can you know that? He never told you what's really on his mind now does he? Probably do, but hey anyone can lie.

Male relatives should control themselves, but how long can they control their hormones before they do an irrational decision? What I'm saying is that you may think your father is not going to rape you, but since you walk around naked in front of him- how long do you think he's not going to fall into temptation? Hmm? Everyone deals with it.

I call you a young lady because you are young and a lady- aren't you? No?? Okay then.

You're going to face these types of responses, so I suggest you reply to people that does that same thing that you do because trying to prove that this is an 'okay' thing is not okay to everyone.

Age is nothing but a number, so don't think that I'm young I'm suppose to be naive.

Alliegator
August 12th, 2012, 09:13 AM
I don't care if people see me in my underwear, it's practically the same as a bikini. But for being naked I'd rather only people I was really comfortable around see me that way and that does not include my parents.

alicia95
August 13th, 2012, 08:40 AM
This whole thread kinda makes me mad. I guess If your so afraid of letting your father see you naked, then you should be looking at why. He's ur father! If U dont trust him totally..then U have other issues.

Yeah, it just seems really strange to me, the idea that people in my family wouldn't see me naked, or that it would bother me when they did. I can't conceive of how it might cause embarassment.

jhardy
August 14th, 2012, 01:21 AM
This whole thread kinda makes me mad. I guess If your so afraid of letting your father see you naked, then you should be looking at why. He's ur father! If U dont trust him totally..then U have other issues.

Exactly! And it's not like I prance around the house naked, grabbing my boobs and playing with them for all to see. But if I'm changing and my dad or brother sees me naked it's not a big deal, we're family. It's not like we're going to do anything sexual together.

lizziebeth
August 14th, 2012, 03:21 PM
im comfortable enough to change in front of my family if i absolutely have to. obviously, id rather they not see me naked, but its not like they never have before.

i can understand why some would not be comfortable with family members seeing them undressed, though.

Abnormal
August 14th, 2012, 06:27 PM
Its mostly because of the fact that some girls are self-conscious about their body and, family member or not, male or female, they don't feel good about having their body looked at. I used to be one of those girls and in a couple of ways I really still am.

whatevva
August 20th, 2012, 02:01 PM
This whole thread kinda makes me mad. I guess If your so afraid of letting your father see you naked, then you should be looking at why. He's ur father! If U dont trust him totally..then U have other issues.

wow..I cant believe some1 gave me neg rep 4 saying this!!! Grow up!

anyone50
August 20th, 2012, 03:10 PM
I think why would my father want to see me naked sure he changed my diaper when i was a baby and all but it would be uncomftable for both of us if i was nude around him and i don't think it has anything to do with my being self conscious about my body. I'm very comfatable in my skin. I can understand if you were brought up as a nudist but they way i was brought up we respect each others right to privacy especially when it comes to our bodies. I'm not judging how other's live i'm just saying it's not how we are in my family .

FreeFall
August 20th, 2012, 04:04 PM
If you're asking why, the answer is because we're not comfortable with it. I don't want to see him naked either.
My body is my body and frankly it's my "gift" to the man I'm giving my heart to. I chose for my boyfriend to be the only person beside myself to see me naked, because it's so special to me. I cover my body from rest of humanity, but show it openly to him. It's me being prone to him, open, natural and free and if I go around the house naked that takes it away for me. I'd feel like it's just another girl's body if I were to do that.
That doesn't mean I sexualize my body or fear my family, just that my naturalism and freedom is something I've decided to only share with the man I love.

kerry1998
September 14th, 2012, 02:27 AM
I really don't see a problem with it, whatever is comfortable

allie42
September 14th, 2012, 08:12 PM
i don't know why it's weird for some people but my dad see's me all the time and my bro... well HJ,BJ and sex ( this is with my bro)so im fine if he just stares at me, he's already seen it all

kerry1998
September 19th, 2012, 07:00 AM
Dad sees me all the time, can't see the big deal

radrach
September 21st, 2012, 09:04 AM
erm... each to their own, but that seems a little weird.

StephanieSanders
October 6th, 2012, 08:53 PM
Well parrents will always be parrents and not all are the same, i know some fear them being pedophiles, and others just fear being judged. I dont mind my family looking at me naked, cause i trust them not to judge or to be creepy about it.

Have a little fair girls.

ForgottenSoul
October 7th, 2012, 02:54 PM
Ummm wow. I would never go without being fully clothed in front of anyone. Maybe when I was five, but never now. I live with my brother and Dad, and the least I have warn in front of them was a bra and basketball shorts. And that was just running into the laundry room to grab a shirt. Other then that, never.

pinkgurl16
October 8th, 2012, 12:43 AM
My brothers and dad have seen me naked and i have seen my brothers and dad naked also,it really doesn't bother us.

jennross
October 11th, 2012, 09:39 AM
i run around naked all the time.. no big deal.. i have bro and dad and mom in house. no one makes a big deal of it..

jennross
October 11th, 2012, 09:39 AM
i agree

Robin98
October 26th, 2012, 10:03 AM
My dad has never seen me naked but my stepdad has. I've taken off my clothes and hopped in the shower when he's been in the bathroom shaving or brushing his teeth. He doesn't care and never makes me feel awkward. I like being naked in front of him. I've seen him naked also. I have a brother but would never let him see me. Not sure what the difference is. Maybe it's because my stepdad is more mature about nudity.

hotgirlwtits
October 26th, 2012, 07:42 PM
my brother & older sister are the only ones who have ever seen me naked

ItsChelsea
October 26th, 2012, 08:53 PM
My dad has seen me naked, and I've seen him, no big deal. Not like we look at each other sexually or anything.

deadtotheworld
October 27th, 2012, 12:36 AM
I was always raised to think that it is definitely not okay for your father to see your naked body once you start going through puberty and getting womanly features. There is no need for your dad to see you naked at all. I think it is awkward and wrong and I would NEVER do it. Sure there have been times where he might have seen something by accident but shit like that happens. I have never seen my dad naked and would never want too. I am fine with my sister seeing because we are close in age and its what im used too. I dont let my mum see me in anything less than undies and a bra. I just dont want my family members to see that much of me. Id rather save it for my future boyfriend/husband. I dont have a brother so i cant comment on that part of it.

Evaboo
January 16th, 2013, 07:44 PM
I love to be naked....we have family movie nights and I go down stairs naked my dad looks at me and what ever he's my dad he's NOT going to touch me or anything idc if he sees my boobies (32D) or vag...he watched me at the gyno.....my mom dose the same idc if they see me naked....

LilKelli69
February 28th, 2013, 10:48 PM
I'm naked all the time, my lil brother and my dad always see. me. It's no big deal.

What_ever
March 1st, 2013, 02:40 PM
I don't let my mom, my dad or anyone else to see me naked. I'd be totally embarrassed if anyone saw me.

Anna G
March 2nd, 2013, 01:22 AM
Last time my dad saw me undressed was at the doctors office when I was 13.
Would you rather have some nurse you don't even know watch, or your dad you can trust. Look at women having babies some times the whole family watches.:eek:

Lil Red
March 3rd, 2013, 01:34 AM
Agreed... My brother has seen me naked a million times and walked in on me playing with myself several times also

Rainbowfairy
March 3rd, 2013, 02:21 AM
I don't see any issue I mean he wiped my ass for all the time I was in nappies/gave me baths changed at the pool so why just because I grew boobs should it matter he is my dad and not going to want to like fuck me or when he sees me naked get a sudden urge to molest me

NatalieKallen
March 12th, 2013, 10:12 AM
I dont just purposely walk around nude with the intention of people seeing me but if my dad does see me naked it okay. I mean....he's my DAD. he has loved me and took care of me since I was born. He has always been there for me when I needed him. Honestly, Im more comfortable talking to him about girl stuff than anyone else bc I know he's not judging me and any advice he gives me is truly for my best. He has seen me naked many times since I developed and Its not a big deal to either of us. He's my DAD....hes not looking at my in a sexual way. Hes looking at me as his DAUGHTER. Im sure he thinks Im pretty when he sees me naked, BUT Im sure he thinks Im pretty with my clothes on. Doesnt every dad think his daughter is pretty? no matter what? I think its strange that a lot of girls are terrified for dad to see them naked but are okay walking around on a beach in skimpy bikini's for the whole world to see!?!? I love my dad and i know he loves me. i know he could never see me in a sexual way. I will always be his little girl.

Shortie
March 13th, 2013, 05:07 AM
This thread is so full of bullshit. I guess I was raised different. I would never want my parents to see me naked and most definitely would not want to see them. Other than a few legit post, this thread tells me most households run around naked. I don't believe it.

I am beggining to agree with you. So a lot of people have no problem running around naked in front of family and wonder why some brothers sniff panties or want to m'bate together...starting to not believe a fair amount of what I read here :(

Haybay
March 13th, 2013, 01:49 PM
I am beggining to agree with you. So a lot of people have no problem running around naked in front of family and wonder why some brothers sniff panties or want to m'bate together...starting to not believe a fair amount of what I read here :(

I have to agree.

whatevva
March 13th, 2013, 04:45 PM
This thread is so full of bullshit. I guess I was raised different. I would never want my parents to see me naked and most definitely would not want to see them. Other than a few legit post, this thread tells me most households run around naked. I don't believe it.

So u were raised to be ashamed of yourself and cant understand why everyone else isn't the same? thats sad

NatalieKallen
March 13th, 2013, 05:18 PM
So u were raised to be ashamed of yourself and cant understand why everyone else isn't the same? thats sad

I agree. Like I said, I don't just set out to walk around naked. But my family is close and they are the last people I would be embarrassed to see me. As far as it being my dad....I trust him 100%. I am more comfortable when he sees me than my boyfriend. Boyfriends come and go...my dad will always be there for me and never judge me.

Shortie
March 13th, 2013, 10:55 PM
So u were raised to be ashamed of yourself and cant understand why everyone else isn't the same? thats sad

Were you raised to have little respect for yourself and other family members you live with?

whatevva
March 13th, 2013, 11:43 PM
Were you raised to have little respect for yourself and other family members you live with?

So your idea of "having respect for myself" is living terrified that my father might see me naked? Seriously???? My respect comes from love and trust of my family members.

emily-candace
March 14th, 2013, 12:44 AM
This is totally disgusting, why would any girl want their dad to see them naked.

stepht
March 14th, 2013, 04:53 AM
wow another crazy thread, guess people have strong opinions about this one.

My dad has seen me naked plenty of times, ever since I was a baby and still sometimes now. There's no flaunting, def nothing sexual, but my fam is pretty relaxed about nudity so we don't constantly hide behind closed doors. I think it's all in the attitude. If you're all embarrassed about your body you're going to give that off and maybe it will seem sexual when you do get caught naked.

I'm not going to judge anybody tho - if you're not comfortable with it fine, dont ever get naked in front of anyone. Not how I see it but it doesnt bother me either. Just dont judge others who happen to be comfortable with nudity at home and totally trust their male family members to be mature about it.

workingatperfect
March 14th, 2013, 05:06 AM
I think a lot of why people are so uncomfortable with it is that society has sexualized nudity so much.

Personally, I don't want any family to see me in even a bra and underwear. I was running on the treadmill in the basement once in a sports bra and shorts and got embarrassed when my mom came down. Naked would be... I can't even imagine how embarrassed I would be. Sorry, but I just don't want anyone but my boyfriend to see me naked. I was always fairly comfortable in locker rooms, but that's pretty much wear I draw the line as far as people other than my man seeing my body.

NatalieKallen
March 14th, 2013, 05:51 AM
My dad has seen me naked plenty of times, ever since I was a baby and still sometimes now. There's no flaunting, def nothing sexual, but my fam is pretty relaxed about nudity so we don't constantly hide behind closed doors. I think it's all in the attitude. If you're all embarrassed about your body you're going to give that off and maybe it will seem sexual when you do get caught naked.

I'm not going to judge anybody tho - if you're not comfortable with it fine, dont ever get naked in front of anyone. Not how I see it but it doesnt bother me either. Just dont judge others who happen to be comfortable with nudity at home and totally trust their male family members to be mature about it.

Said so perfectly!!!

AbbaZabba
March 14th, 2013, 05:56 AM
I would like to make one more comment. My original comment was directed to the thread and no one in particular. I realize nudity lifestyles exist in this world, and I have no problems to how you were raised and who am I to judge you or your family. Though there is no way to prove it, no doubt that some posts are just pure BS in my opinion. I do find it insulting when people do talk about how you were raised, I'm most certainly in no position to talk about how anyone is raised and most certainly would never do that. If I offended anyone personally. that certainly wasn't my intent. It was more directed to what, in my opinion were false posts. I am very proud of who I am and how I was raised and truly do hope you feel the same about you & your family. If anyone has a problem with my post, please talk to me, I just ask that you do not bring my family into a post.

liezia
March 14th, 2013, 06:22 AM
it is weird, !

stepht
March 16th, 2013, 08:44 AM
Said so perfectly!!!

Thanks :)

dhanya
March 29th, 2013, 12:25 PM
i dad seen and did everything

San1998
April 8th, 2013, 08:44 AM
I don't have a Dad or brother. But I don't care. I have a male cousin who's cominig over from time to time and he sees me naked quite often. So no big deal.

PandaLeah
April 8th, 2013, 11:13 AM
I am the same way... my dad left us when I was a baby so I have no opinion this..

amanda1995
April 24th, 2013, 08:16 AM
We were raised that way

mandyluvgirl
April 24th, 2013, 10:49 AM
no way i dont want my dad to see me naked. Just so sick.

DerBear
April 26th, 2013, 01:22 PM
Please don't bump old threads :locked: