No pleasure...

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Okai,so uh...whenever my boyfriend and I are...intimate,I dont get any pleasure what-so-ever. Sometimes it doesnt bother me much,because its always really emotional,for the both of us,other times it gets annoying...I dont want to hurt his feelings..Should I bring it up? If so...how?

[judahtics]

yea you should. tell him what you like. you gotta guide him. you can't expect him to know what you like and what feels good for you. every woman is different.

[Ambrosia]

You two are probably each others first lovers, seeing the age. And he undoubtedly has no idea about how to -pleasure- a female. As his girlfriend, and intimate relation, you must be sure to teach him what you like. Men are often times a bit stupid when it comes to intimate relations (no offence, boys), no matter how often they watch porn. If you two can communicate correctly outside of sex then there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to during. These types of things come as the best time to create your perfect lover. You have to remember to make him realize how -great- he is when he does it correctly and boost his ego. If a guy thinks he's a stud then, regardless of all else, he will act like one.

Teach him about foreplay, as well. Because without this you'll be having a dull experience from the get-go. Girls are complicated. He has to learn that. He should be open to learning all sorts of new things if he cares enough!

And remember, sex isn't everything. A relationship can survive a long time without it and once you have it you should be able to stop having it without any real issues arising. If a relationship thrives on the sex then there is a problem. Make sure you two can do it when YOU want to, and not just when HE wants to. You aren't there just to please him, ya know!

[Riotboy]

Okai,so uh...whenever my boyfriend and I are...intimate,I dont get any pleasure what-so-ever. Sometimes it doesnt bother me much,because its always really emotional,for the both of us,other times it gets annoying...I dont want to hurt his feelings..Should I bring it up? If so...how?
Teach the young dog new tricks

[superhustler]

Okai,so uh...whenever my boyfriend and I are...intimate,I dont get any pleasure what-so-ever. Sometimes it doesnt bother me much,because its always really emotional,for the both of us,other times it gets annoying...I dont want to hurt his feelings..Should I bring it up? If so...how?

If you can't feel good, it means that he's not doing it right. Guide him, no need to be modest :yeah:

Men are often times a bit stupid when it comes to intimate relations

Lady, you're a feminist! :P