how to decide if you're ready for sex

[the_chef_of_your_lif]

My boyfriend and I have done everything. Well almost everything. The fingering, the handjobs, the oral, the dry humping. We've done it. Both of us want to say screw waiting til our senior year of highschool. We're going to be juniors but he's going to an early college program. He's going on 16 in a few months and I'm going to be 17 in about 7 months. I'm not afraid of his dick even with being pretty small. We have discussed sex, in depth, so it's not like we're just going to go do it. When he has me all 'excited' i wouldn't mind doing it, even when we talk about it, I honestly wouldn't mind. But a lot of the time when I'm by myself, I get scared. I dont want to. THe two parts of me argue whether i'm ready or not. I honestly did checking and couldn't find a better place to put this. SO....
How did you know that you were really ready for sex? Any suggestions to get over the fear would be nice.

[Kevinlegit15]

Honestly I think you know when you are ready for sex, you don't have to ask how to decide if you are ready. If you do it means you are not ready, but that is my opinion.

[judahtics]

sex needs to be a choice made outside of sexual stimulation and emotion. my gf and i decided to first have sex clear headed, or as much as possible. until we were able to do that, no sex. if you say to yourself, alone, i don't want to, i'd say you aren't ready.

[superhustler]

Being ready or not isn't arguable. The real question is: "Do you want to do it?" If yes, then you do it and never look back!

[PervertedStalker]

all u have 2 do is ask urself "do i really wanna do this now" just think about it and if ur gut feeling says no then, hey, dont argue with it.

[the_chef_of_your_lif]

yeah it sucks though its not so much the fact that we're not really ready, i'm pretty sure we are but the fear of the condom breaking and my birth control not working is the main thing we're worried about, and about anyone finding out. Especially my dad because he's told him that and I quote "you fuck my daughter, then I fuck you." Not a good thing to hear.

[person842]

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