My friends are **** heads

[barrydawson95]

So for the last year my 'friends' have been starting to tease me for me being different then them. I don't care about my differences usually, but they just keep teasing me. I can handle the two of them doing it, but now they've told the younger students to tease me as well, and now its just spread and half the school teases me. Sometimes I wonder why I still hang out with them, but it would be even worse to be a loner, but I don't fit in with the other groups (popular kids) that don't tease me. Most nights I end up crying my self to sleep. I have considered ending my life, but I just can't. Any advice?

[Amaryllis]

What are they teasing you about? "Different" as in how? And really, those are not friends. They will leave you hanging sooner or later. It's okay to be alone. Being alone doesn't make you a loner. You're a loner if you think you're a loner. Kids step on your head so they can get across the river. But they'll have to learn how to swim sooner or later.

No one can bring you down without your consent. Don't give up. That's just letting them win. You can do it. Keep going. You'll be okay. Things are gonna get better.

Love,
Faith And Trust

[barrydawson95]

I have physical differences (I dont want to mention online). They are my friends because in year 7 & 8 we were great friends, but in year 9 and 10 they have started to tease me, but I still call them my friends because they are the closest I have. If I was by my self it would only make it worse. I can tell.

[MyRedHeadWorld]

Physical differences? If they were friends, They wouldnt make fun of you, certainly not to a limit where u feel like ending your life! I think you should tell them how you feel and how its upsetting you and if you can, Try find new friends, make conversation with other people :) or, Im sure your friends arnt perfect, find there flase and see how they feel when u tease them about it, but dont let it get you down! :)xx

[superhustler]

I have many friends and I don't even like them (not even my bff :P). What I do is I pretend to like their company! If I can't pretend, I stay @ home, play games or fck things up. Give that a try, you might enjoy it ;)

[SoWhatIfImGoth]

Heh, join the club, pal. My friends are like that too -.-

Honestly, I just think it's natural for guys to be like that, and I've grown to accept it ;)

Although, sometimes they do P!*% me off, so I just deal with it the old fashioned way: Sigh deeply, and walk away.

[judahtics]

why do you people call these guys friends? friends are people you like and like you. and physical differences? are you trans or something? they finally figured out you don't have the same parts? that's the only thing that would cause me to have a big issue with my friends.

[DismaliciouSx]

Alright, here is what I did when my friends started treating me like crap. I left them behind, obviously they weren't real friends (they were in 7th and 8th but once high school they weren't). I know it sounds hard and being alone sounds awful but honestly what do you have to lose? Get teased all the time or be alone and prove to them they aren't needed. As soon as I forgot about them it felt like I grew up quite a bit actually because I wasnt relying on anyone and I was completely alone. Then because I was alone the real people that like you for you will reach out. So what I'm saying is, forget the ones that only use you as a self esteem booster and make it a mission to prove them wrong about everything. Sorry I was rambling there but I hope I helped and feel free to message if you need anything :D

[barrydawson95]

Thanks for the help guys :). I tried to leave them when they teased me, but they just chased me. I am not trans, I have the same parts as them. I'm just not the same physically, but im not physically disabled either. Yesterday I spent the whole six hour day hiding in the toilet, becasue I havent told my parents yet, and they dont lets me have days off and I dont think I will tell them that im bullied.

[Tenoramic]

U have to tell them.

[SadAngel]

You can either 1. ignore them or 2. tease them back.

[PirateMast]

I think most of us experience this. I went from middle school to high school with a ton of friends that followed to the same high school. Once there, they abandoned me and called me names like fag or gay(i wasn't but i guess guys feel good calling other guys names). I was depressed and basically had no friends until a random guy sits by me at lunch and says hello and introduces me to his friends... Before that, i just ignored all my past "friends" and even cussed at them when they said one word at me. Find your type of friends. It won't be easy at first but you will find your type.