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Faolan
August 10th, 2011, 11:24 PM
I have a friend who is more than half a year younger than me and yet he is over 6 inches taller than me and is way further in puberty than I am. He is always bragging. What should I say to him?

russsh
August 10th, 2011, 11:27 PM
hey i am 14 and last in my class to get pubes and i'm small too, just get over it, you will start sometime and catch up

Vegito
August 10th, 2011, 11:32 PM
youll catch up eventually, but untill then, dont try to compare dicks or nothing cause u might be made fun of by some dumb ass cause ur behind in puberty, but youll catch up eventually.

Guillermo
August 10th, 2011, 11:45 PM
Just tell him that everyone is different and nobody goes through puberty at the same rate. Besides you'll catch up eventually...boys usually don't stop growing in height until they're about 19 or 20 usually (that's what my mom says). So I'm sure you'll have plenty of time

Tactical Commando
August 11th, 2011, 12:46 AM
I'm 15.7 and I'm starting to grow some happy trail!

MustangRacer35
August 11th, 2011, 12:58 AM
Some people start earlier/later than others. Maybe in a few years you'll be taller than him and all that. Just ignore him or maybe try to tell him that bragging now doesn't mean anything a few years from now.

Kujiro
August 11th, 2011, 01:00 AM
To be honest there's nothing much you have to say to him.
He who laughs last, laughs best :)

Let him brag all he wants, I'm sure he will get sick of it soon.
your response is fueling his taunts.

*laughs*

judahtics
August 11th, 2011, 03:25 AM
nothing. who cares that he's ahead. someone will always be further along. at least you can go to him if you have questions later on about what's happening to you, because he has experienced it.

GryffindorSeeker
August 12th, 2011, 12:55 AM
There's always this options, have a little fun with it! Tell him you rather be behind now cause he'll be bald when he graduates! While obviously that isn't true, it should get him off your case for a while :) don't make it seem like it bothers you, and who knows, you could end up bigger than him when it's all said and done!

Fourth Dimension
August 12th, 2011, 03:45 AM
we all grow at different rates dont worry so much about it

Dimitri
August 12th, 2011, 06:06 AM
Nothing really. The bigger they are, the harder they fall.

Unlucky_Leprechaun
August 12th, 2011, 06:13 AM
Truthfully, nothing..just try not to get into a conversation about it, or ignore him the best you can. It is all about genes and who knows he may end up always 6 inches taller (or more)than you or you can start, catch up and pass him...time will tell. Just be who you are, that's all you can ask yourself !

audiophile5
August 12th, 2011, 06:22 AM
If he really is your friend, he will understand you and u won't have to tell him anything...

collapsing_rain
August 12th, 2011, 08:50 AM
you will grow faster soon!its a matter of time ;)

zekeboy
August 12th, 2011, 09:02 AM
ye im shortest in my class it doesnt matter

Trevor98
August 12th, 2011, 03:54 PM
Bragging is such a turnoff. Let him make a fool of himself. Decent people are turned away by childish behavior.

Elmo101
August 12th, 2011, 06:39 PM
Everyone grows at their own rate. He may just be an early bloomer. Think nothing of it, because, odd are, you'll both "even out" eventually. Just tell him it's nothing to brag about... He'll shut up eventually!

gmath65
August 12th, 2011, 06:43 PM
What a jerk, hes obviously uninformed... don't let it bother you to much, and don't give him a reaction when he says anything.

oceandude33a
August 12th, 2011, 07:19 PM
its all with hereditary and gentic and the way puberty hits you, its different in evry one