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DarkHorses
August 10th, 2011, 08:25 PM
So I'm supposed to be dating this girl, but we don't talk as much as I would like, and I started to lose some of my trust for her because she wouldn't add me on Facebook, and she said "I never go on facebook," yet it kept coming up in my news feed that she was friends with one of my friends now. So I couldn't help but wonder if she had something to hide.

Then today I was talking to one my friends who I'm not *all* that close to, but that I trust. She told me that my supposed girlfriend tried to kiss her at her birthday party, which I couldn't make it to. She also said that my girlfriend said she wasn't in a relationship.

I was pissed, so I text the girl and say I don't want anything to do with her anymore. She texted me back saying she didn't do it, that she would never hurt me, and that she loves me. So now I don't know who the hell to believe. This girl I'm dating pisses me off so many times, but I really really like her and I don't want to not have her in my life.

But at the same time I don't want to be in a relationship with someone like that. If she's even like that. I don't know what to do or who to believe.... so I'm posting here... hoping for some help. But in the end I'll probably just go back to trusting her, because I'm that stupid and trust too easily. This sucks. :(

Contra
August 10th, 2011, 08:35 PM
I think you should talk about it face to face, because she could have lied through the texts. The only way you can tell if she's lying is talking to her personally. Then it will be better to think about who to trust.

judahtics
August 10th, 2011, 08:56 PM
maybe she's in the closet.

Snuff
August 12th, 2011, 10:36 PM
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anonymous53
August 12th, 2011, 10:44 PM
She's playing you, dump her.

Ambrosia
August 12th, 2011, 11:23 PM
She's obviously just in it to be in it. Dump her. She lied, she throws love into the equation to get you to stay, and she lied, once again. She has something to hide.