Am I ugly (for girls only)

[panthersbaseball]

Ok so I'm a little over weigh but I a lot of musical and I look a lot bigger then I really am because I have fat so it makes me look chubby and I hate it but this girl that i really like says I have a cute face but I think sh thinks im ugly because Im a little chubby so is that how all girls are

[sophierocks]

no thats not how all girls are, if she is like that then she is very shallow and you may not want to pursue her anymore

[judahtics]

you could always lose some weight or tone up what you have.

[Dack]

You're not the only one in that boat, you gotta find the right girl to appreciate it, and trust me, it -will- happen eventually..juat probably not in high school because the majority of girls are so fucking shallow.

[Angel Androgynous]

To the OP: No, not all girls are like that.


I don't like it when people jump to the conclusion: "Oh they're shallow because they are not attracted to you." She would be shallow if she judged him off his looks and if she asked whichever guys she thought that were hot only because they were hot and she barely knew them, and didn't know their personality.
It's just the truth that potential relationships start with attraction...


Maybe you're just not her type! There are different girls with different tastes...

And you can't ask: "If all girls are like this" on a forum where a few people will answer because we are not spokeswomen for our whole gender. Every answer will be different. :P

[MonsterBear]

Heck no!!! this reminds me of one of my friends who's chubby too. He's really funny and has a baby face. When i told him to smile more oftn because he looks much more handsome with a smile. he got made at me and thought i was making fun of him. i told him, smiles make everyone more beautiful and he smiled backk at me.

i believe everyone has thier own beauty even if they dont see it so be confident about yourself. There are girls out there who like you just the way you are.

[Dack]

I'm not generalizing, I'm just stating that in school many girls are much too shallow so it just get ridiculous.

[Valkyrie]

I dont know if this was mentioned before (i didnt read all of other people's posts because im lazy :P), but I love cute boys lol. And Angel_Androgynous is right, you cant ask just some girls if this is true (which is not) because all girls are different.

[babyhottie]

Nooooo.

[bigdaddy101]

Ok so I'm a little over weigh but I a lot of musical and I look a lot bigger then I really am because I have fat so it makes me look chubby and I hate it but this girl that i really like says I have a cute face but I think sh thinks im ugly because Im a little chubby so is that how all girls are

Same problem a tad overweight,just chubby.

[HeartCoreHannah]

I'm a firm believer that weight shouldn't matter. I look for an intelligent, outgoing, caring, sweet, and handsome guy. So no, not all girls are that way. Just like multiple others have started above all girls are different though.