New here but serious question

[katdawg]

Hi, I've been watching the forums for awhile now. I feel this is a safe place.
Heres my question:
I really liked this guy, he really liked me, still does, but he is older than me by a few years. He is 18 now. We never dated, we were going to, but then we found out we were cousins. He didnt know and neither did I. His dad and my dad are 1st cousins. He is a virgin still, as am I. I have been dating this other guy for 11 months now. This 18 yo I'm asking about has what he calls a "micro-penis", never seen it though. He really wants me to be his first. I'm not sure what to do. He has touched my boobs and butt, I was clothed, but still. I really am not sure what to do. Im kinda creeped out. Suggestions??

[Sam95]

I think if your that little related, it doesnt really matter..no blood relation.
And just because he wants to have sex for his first time doesnt mean you should be is first. Only have sex when your ready and want to, with who you want !

[sammy1996]

the relation is so distant it wouldnt matter unless your family has problems with it.
about the sex, only do it if you feel comfortable

[sammy1996]

girls only btw

[Triste]

That might not be a problem if its that distant. Think about it, we're all related in a way.

[bobynrobyn]

for one thing you don't show your age .....you do state that he is 18. soooooo, is this guy feeding you a line of crap to get his dick wet or what ?
in our state if your under 18 he's going to jail.....the relationship of familys don't meen nutten ! when i was 15 i had a guy try to put the make on me like you wouldn't believe, and he was 19 ......well my brother found out , and he just being 2 yr. older then me said he was going to tell mom about the guy ! anyway it didn't happen and he found another girl who was 15 , then talked smack all over about her !! glad it wasn't me ! some of this stuff turns out soooooooo ugly !!

bobynrobyn

[doris.split]

in your place i wouldn't do it..it really creapy..i mean you are not 1 cousins..but still..i suggest you wait for someone else

[Haleygurl]

well the age thing is not a big deal, and the relative thing is not that big a deal either. I mean I like older guys and I confess I have kinda been with(not all the way) someone who was related. The main thing is how do you really feel about it, and if it creeps you out even remotly then dont do it. Never do anything thing you don't wanna do.