How can you tell...

[Dack]

When she wants you to kiss her? Yesterday she and I hung out, and after we gamed for a bit on my PS3, we put on a movie. While we were playing (though I guess I should say me, cause it was Dead Space 2) she was laying on me and watching me play, cause the game freaks her out. Anyways, we put the movie on after I got bored and she was still lying on me. Things started getting a little heavy, eventually we completely disregarded the movie entirely. After awhile of this, she spontaneously kissed me and then we'd started making out; but I sensed she wanted me to do it first.

My question to you guys is how i can tell when she wants *me* to kiss her, in stead if the other way around. I'm kind of new to this so that's why I might've overlooked the signals.

[LuckyLuke]

There's a few different signs and they're different for every girl. Some include:

- Looking directly into your eyes for an extended period of time where you get the feeling it's for more than listening

- Looking at your eyes and down at your lips and back at your eyes

- Playing with her hair while looking at your lips/eyes

As the guy we, unfortunately, are expected to be able to read when they want us to make the move and, from what I've heard, it just takes time.

[Dack]

I feel like such a noob around her because she has more experience; I don't want to hold her back but I also don't want to feel like an idiot by not knowing what I'm doing.

Thanks for the advice, I'll keep that in mind next time I see her, maybe I'll be able to predict she wants it this time.

[Dylan79831]

dude why the hell was you playing a ps3 game with her lol.... watch a movie or sumting

[Kayden]

Yeah, pretty much what luke said.

Gaming with girls - Big plus in my books :P

[christcenteredlife]

if you feel she wants a kiss, you can try, if she doesn't, she'll stop you lol.

i've been taught not to kiss girls out of respect, when they are ready, they will let you know. i'm guessing by a look or touch, i'm not so sure on that one yet.

[Dack]

I wasnt playing the PS3 with her; I was playing and she was watching because Dead Space 2 is such a creepy game that she actually suggested I play it. I'm mostly assuming because she wanted to cuddle with me and play with my hair and such, but anyways.

We hung out again on Thursday; once again though, she kissed me first. Although this time it was me being a tease and purposely holding my lips/face close to hers.

[KillerKing]

The definate sign for me is when my gf keeps looking at my lips, which I know is what Luke said but im just backing the point :) (if theres a page on Facebook about it, it must be true) Another point though, Don't always look for signs, it's nice to be surprised once in a while ;).