Really confused

[Ashy]

hi, at the moment I consider myself straight, but everytime I see a hot guy I am completely confused, i get boners and fantasize about them. But i just seem to be losing my interest in girls. Am i gay? Please can you help.

[StoppingTime]

Before I even answer your question at all, you are not gay just from the info here.
Depending on if you have gone through puberty completely or not, it may still be the hormones going crazy and causing you to get a hard on when you see anything that could be related to sex.
When you say "losing interest" in girls,do you mean you don't fantasize them the same way you do with guys? Your not turned in by them at all? If these are both true completely, then you may want to consider a few things.

1. Have you finished puberty? If so, then read on.
2. Are you okay with being gay openly? Do you live in a place accepting gays?
3. You are the only person who can decide for sure, and good luck to you :)

[Ashy]

i dont really fantasize about girls at all anymore. Also i live in quite a homophobic area and would not feel entirely comfortable.

[StoppingTime]

i dont really fantasize about girls at all anymore. Also i live in quite a homophobic area and would not feel entirely comfortable.

Then all I can say is to just wait it out and see how you feel as you get older. If you still have these feelings, then it is completely up to you if you want to come out, depending on your comfort level.

[Abigballofdust]

As I always say: no need to call yourself anything. Saying you're gay means nothing, you can still find love in the opposite sex one day.
However, if you'd really want an answer: to me, you sound bisexual in a homosexual phase.
How much has this been happening? Have you always been able to fantasize about a guy or is it a newborn thing?

[Ashy]

I have fantasised about both sexes for years but girls always came first now i just dont feel attracted to them.

[AppealToReason]

No one can say you are or are not gay...only you can do that. Don't try to force yourself to be something you're not. If you're attracted to guys, go with it.
Who knows, could always be hormones acting up...