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LovelyMalice
August 9th, 2011, 03:57 PM
Alright, so me and this guy that I really like have our first date together coming up this Thursday. Although... we have no idea what to do. We want to do something cheap, but fun as well. Does anyone have any ideas for us?

The movie theatre in our town is closed and hasn't re-opened...

Also, what is proper first date etiquette? Is it okay to hold hands? Kiss?

anonymous53
August 9th, 2011, 05:59 PM
Roller skating, ice skating, picnic, mini golf etc.

First date etiquitte depends on how comfortable you both are with something. Best thing, go with what feels right. If he doesn't seem comfortable with something, don't pursue it. If you feel uncomfortable with something, tell him.

LuckyLuke
August 9th, 2011, 08:32 PM
The best first dates are those that allow you two to talk but also provide a level of distraction just in case. I'd suggest bowling, golf, ice cream and a walk around a more "private" area.

As for etiquette, it's really what you two feel comfortable with, how long you've know one another and to what capacity. If you've been friends for awhile, holding hands might be okay but GENERALLY a first date isn't holding hands. To see whether or not he feels comfortable with that, touch his arm/shoulder casually when laughing or being flirty; if he reacts well and if he seems to enjoy it, grab his hand nicely and if not, don't.

As for a kiss, it really depends on you two. If there's a moment between the middle and end of the date where it seems perfect and he wants it, he probably does. Go for it. That being said, don't take it too far on the first date- a peck is sweet and make out is a bit far (in my opinion).

HeartCoreHannah
August 9th, 2011, 09:20 PM
Go for a walk, go skating, or go to a cheap pizza place.

If you're comfortable with holding hands, then hold his hand. If you're comfortable kissing, then kiss him. But make sure your both okay with it first.
I hope you have a good time. (:

Vegito
August 9th, 2011, 10:00 PM
I suggest a restraunt, something cheap, maybe a local pizza place, or hotdog place, something good, but ssemi fast. When I say this, I DO NOT mean mcdonalds or a steak restraunt, lol. Although, I have never had a date, just from what I know from friends and familt, so, I'm probobly not your ideal answerer...

Mr. Awesome
August 9th, 2011, 10:26 PM
Dont know how expensive it is where u live, but bowling is always a good option for a date

oh and good luck with your first date, hope everything goes well for you