What am I?

[AddyC]

So, after 1 year hanging out with a boy at my age, I realised that I have a crush on him. This is the first boy to whom i feel like this. I had crushes on 3 girls before, but it seems this is greater. So what am I: straight, bi or gay?

[Solvez18]

ur probably bi by the sounds of it, but nothings wrong with that. its what u like and ur comforatable with it

[AddyC]

No, I don't feel bad about it, also I like to think of boys while masturbating. The only thing I would worry would be hiding being bi of my friends. You see, the gay ppl are hated in romania. I am among the few not homofobic in here

[dario]

If you're reall crush on him and feel love for him you are gay or bi.

[judahtics]

you might just be really close and confusing friendship for sexual feelings. it's typical. so try and make up your mind right now. you're still young and what you are doesn't matter at this point.

[StoppingTime]

You don't necessarily have to consider yourself gay or bi because of this. You may just have strong, non sexual feelings for him, and thats perfectly normal. If you think it really is more than that, then you have to be the one to decide if you want to come out as bi or gay and face the ramifications.

[Boxerbriefs96]

I think that you are just curious, and want to explore all of your options.

[timster5454]

You seem to be bi if you have a crush on him. One mistake people often make is seperating sex and love. If you love a guy, or want to have sex with a guy, there is a chance you are bi. Figure out if you actually love him, if he seems gay you might want to try asking him out or something, just saying.

[tiger22]

You're prob just curious!


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[collapsing_rain]

i also having this weird crush on a guy and at first i tot it was just a attraction, but then now it was stronger then my previous feelings.towards girls. now, it sorta subsided by maybe a third and i think you may just be lonely and wanting somebody to embrace you that everything.is alright. give yrself more time ya?

[GryffindorSeeker]

You're... (ready for this one) HUMAN! From my own opinion, we love what we want to love as humans. To label someone else is just to be afraid of the truth, people have feelings and I'm not convinced we have all that much control over who we have those feelings for. It happens. If you love a boy and you are a boy, then what's that matter to someone else. Just don't be obnoxious with it to people and then they have no excuse to ruin your happiness.

I kinda really hope this helps....

[Kujiro]

There is a probability that your are bi, but i would still not jump to conclusions if I'd were you.
Since this is your first crush, it's good to try and explore your emotional side,
It's not just about sexual, but emotional as well.
Crushes in similar gender is common, it may come from idolizing, to admiration finally to a form of love.
Men and women were created in this world to love both genders, the world is stereotyped that it's a male female for it to be a norm.

Understanding yourself with an open heart and open mind and accepting who you really are is the first steps in this process.

Coming out is the next, but that's fully optional.
Only with a non clouded mind, the truth be realized.

Quoting myself

Many a times, the truth can be found only if you dare tread on uncharted waters, in the most unexpected places, among the most unexpected people.


Good luck on your journey
*smile*