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hhhfiuashfosihdf
August 9th, 2011, 05:41 AM
Hey , I'm 14. And i haven't had a girlfriend in around 2 years. I've had my first 'French kiss' but i haven't had a girlfriend in ages. Am i the only one?
randy.boii
August 9th, 2011, 06:16 AM
dude its ok i didnt have a serious girlfriend till i was 14 and she was 2 years older then me.. we dated for 2 years
my brother didnt get a girlfriend till 21 :P
Infidelitas
August 9th, 2011, 07:19 AM
Don't worry about it too much. I have never been in a relationship with a guy, so I do think your lucky :)
Kujiro
August 9th, 2011, 08:48 AM
Im sorry if its rude, but the way you have placed it, is as if you are trying to get into a relationship because you are not in a relatiobship.
For starters, im sure getting into a relationship, for the sake of getting into a relationship is totally not stylish, and its going to result in much undesired effects.
Shouldn't relationships be natured and fueled by feelings, responsibility and generousity?
I believe that there will always be someone for everyone, its just that you have not met yours, Some people meet them earlier in their lives, while others much later.
Such matters need not be forced nor should it be forced.
Let it come naturally, and when the moment is right, im sure you will eventually know what to do.
There is no need to compare others with yourself, as everyone is different.
There is no right or wrong answers, luck plays a part in this as well.
Good luck
*cheers*
dents
August 9th, 2011, 10:22 AM
nope, i didnt have my first gf or my first kiss until i was 16
Julien7
August 9th, 2011, 10:25 AM
nope, I haven't had a girl in ages;p not like i want one haha
hhhfiuashfosihdf
August 9th, 2011, 11:37 AM
Im sorry if its rude, but the way you have placed it, is as if you are trying to get into a relationship because you are not in a relatiobship.
For starters, im sure getting into a relationship, for the sake of getting into a relationship is totally not stylish, and its going to result in much undesired effects.
Shouldn't relationships be natured and fueled by feelings, responsibility and generousity?
I believe that there will always be someone for everyone, its just that you have not met yours, Some people meet them earlier in their lives, while others much later.
Such matters need not be forced nor should it be forced.
Let it come naturally, and when the moment is right, im sure you will eventually know what to do.
There is no need to compare others with yourself, as everyone is different.
There is no right or wrong answers, luck plays a part in this as well.
Good luck
*cheers*
Wasn't saying that whatsoever , i don't know why you said that? I was asking others if they have been in any relationships or haven't been in one in ages. I'm not trying to get it one either , so bye.
ExhibitG
August 9th, 2011, 12:00 PM
i didn't have my first girlfriend until i was 15 so you are completele fine (in fact i havent had one since). and all before that i used to worry about how that looks to people, and after i had a girlfriend i realized it's not such a big deal at all to have one lol. been flyin' solo ever since.
DarkHorses
August 9th, 2011, 12:08 PM
I'm sixteen and I just recently had my first kiss and relationship. So I seriously wouldn't worry about it. You don't always need to be in a relationship to be 'normal,' because in reality it's normal to go periods of time without a relationship. It's important to know how to be happy not only in a relationship, but out of one too. So just be happy with what you have for right now. :)
hhhfiuashfosihdf
August 9th, 2011, 12:49 PM
Thanks guy for your feedback & advice :)
LuckyLuke
August 9th, 2011, 01:06 PM
I'm 17 and have just recently had my first relationship, first kiss, first make out, and first breakup after officially dating for 3 or so months.
Now that I've had my first relationship and have overcome the heartbreak that comes along with the breakup, I'm on the lookout for "that girl" whose smile shakes my bones and whose voice soothes them.
Spock
August 9th, 2011, 01:17 PM
nope just got a ex girlfriend and never been kiseed
Jess
August 9th, 2011, 07:11 PM
no. tons of people your age AND older have never been in a relationship. I've never been in one
NobodysCupOf Tea
August 11th, 2011, 07:17 AM
Don't fret! I had 3 bfs one after the other... But that was two years ago and I Havnt had one since :)
In The same boat mate!
xDarkAngelx
August 11th, 2011, 02:51 PM
For me i've only ever had one relationship ages ago where nothing exactly happened and that I fucked up and I haven't had one since.
Comatose
August 11th, 2011, 08:50 PM
I generally do not date.
I didn't have my first actual boyfriend until this year. Yes, I had 'boyfriends' previously, but I wasn't interested in them, so refused to do anything with them xP even hugging/kissing/holding hands etc. I'm not frigid at all trust me on that ;) I just don't like touching people who I am not attracted to, lol.
Snuff
August 12th, 2011, 10:39 PM
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Mynameisconner
August 13th, 2011, 12:56 AM
It's been awhile for me too bro
leah.
September 4th, 2011, 04:45 PM
I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend!
kingbudapa
September 4th, 2011, 04:51 PM
I didn't get my first gf till 16 man, its normal
NobodysCupOf Tea
September 4th, 2011, 05:05 PM
no, i havnt had a boyfriend in over 2 years.... hoping ones right around the corner!
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