Oh so your bi? Yes. Wait no.

[dude14]

K so i know this hard hard hard core depresion and self inflickting kid. He is one of my friends wich i have only known for about a year. But he keeps braking up with girls and then coming to me and flirts.He didnt tell me he was gay strait or bi ever until one day. He said ( dude can we talk for real? Well i think im legit gay for you......) then i said( no way!? Im kinda bi! We could go give it a try!) that was the short version. Well we got together,and wen i tried to get him (winky fase), he touched my lips and said later. Then we went home and he was txting me all flirty, and then broke all contacked with me for like a week. When he finally answerd my texts, i asked if he was still crushing on me and he said im strait dude. And then he sent me an im gay dude. Then an im strait dude. And on and on and on till like ten min ago! Wat does i dooooooo!?????

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

He sounds like he is confused and is just looking for a friend. Try being just a friend to him.. ya know without the feelings of sex n stuff. That stuff may come around as he gets more comfortable around you...he just maybe scared and curious. All bi / gay can associate with the "I'm just curious" stuff as we attempt to forge our own identity. I say just try and talk to him, let him know your feelings as well, your hurt and confusion about what has happened..

[Sebastian Michaelis]

I'd dump him, if he was really depressed then he would be more friendly to you. It seems he just wants to play games or is maybe confused, either try to confront him and have a serious talk or break it off.

[dude14]

But i dont think we were dating :/ im definatly nice and suportive.

[you know103]

just try being a friend to him. he probably just needs someone to talk to. try and help him out in any way you can

[Ambrosia]

This will get much better responses in Teen Sexuality.

Moved. (:

[MustangRacer35]

Just try to sit down and talk to him at some point. Let him know that you're there for him and that he can trust you with anything he tells you.

[Abigballofdust]

Tell him it's not important what he is but what he feels. Tell him you'll put aside the relationship to talk out all of his problems. Find a solution together, as friends and not as lovers.

[dude14]

Tell him it's not important what he is but what he feels. Tell him you'll put aside the relationship to talk out all of his problems. Find a solution together, as friends and not as lovers.

Thats really wise:)

[dude14]

Any idea on how to get his attention?

[Abigballofdust]

Any idea on how to get his attention?

I suppose he's not talking to you currently?
Well, try sending him an SMS, that should do.
Or pay him a visit...

[dude14]

Ima tell you the truth, i dont know what sms is:p

[Contra]

On that last part it looks like he's making fun of you and that makes me a bit concerned about his intentions. But perhaps the best thing is to have a honest talk with him about his feelings.

Ima tell you the truth, i dont know what sms is:p

Haha, an SMS is a text message! :P

[Abigballofdust]

On that last part it looks like he's making fun of you and that makes me a bit concerned about his intentions.
No. He said he's depressed, and depression can show through different symptoms. Being insecure is just one.

[Contra]

No. He said he's depressed, and depression can show through different symptoms. Being insecure is just one.

Maybe so, but texting him every ten minutes, changing his opinion keeping the same sentence structure (I'm straight dude, I'm gay dude, I'm straight dude) and not even changing the text to "It turns out I think I'm *insert sexuality here*", for example, looks like he's joking, that was just the impression I got from it, I could be wrong.

In case I'm wrong, you have to be there for him and explain him that he shouldn't worry that much about his sexuality.

[BiBoy5674]

agree with unlucky leprechaun :)

[Syvelocin]

Please do not bump old threads. :locked: