Did I handle this well?

[Botavo]

Okay so the other night I was at my friends house we've been friends for like 9 years (I'm 15) and well we gave each other oral, and I just kind of regret doing it because I'm not gay and that's not who I am and I always have this like feeling of regret and hate myself for doing that. I felt uneasy throughout the whole thing. And that same night he came out of the closet and then later afterwards I told him that I didn't feel comfortable doing that and I told him I don't want to do it anymore. Did I deal with this well? What can I do to deal with this?

[Spence97]

It sounds like you did deal with it well, I mean if you wern't comfortable then you did the right thing and dealing with your friend, say your ok with his sexuality and then say you just wanna be friends. Hope this helped! :D

[Spock]

u did fine

[IAMWILL]

I think you handled it well in telling him how you felt about the situation. It sounds like you did it without really thinking or were pressured into it, which is no big deal because thats kinda the basis of adolescence, but now after it happened it is good that you were able to just tell him how you felt about it instead of just not telling him and avoiding him because you didn't want to face the same scenario again. You can still be friends without doing it too, remember, which is a lot easier to do than being friends and never hanging out because you dont want it to happen again.

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

Being truthful and upfront is the best policy...he may not have initially liked your candor but he should appreciate it. Give him some time and I'm sure that he will see it also. It definitely isn't for everyone and at least you didn't keep him guessing about the future. I think you did fine.
You can always attempt to explain your thoughts later if the subject comes up again. Continue to be a good a friend and he will see that you are a good guy and like him fro who HE is.

[Unsolvedmind]

I would say you did perfect! :) :D

[MustangRacer35]

It sounds like you handled it well. You told him that you don't want to do that again so he probably should understand. Maybe talk to him to make sure he knows that it's nothing that he did wrong or that you have an issue with him, just that you don't feel comfortable doing anything sexual with a guy.

Don't hate yourself for doing what you did, you tried something different and you didn't like it.

[you know103]

you handle it right. just make sure that you dont lose a good friend for actions that you regret

[Viva_Satanica]

Well done! Now you know yourself, don't try it again!

[mynameisJ]

Just be truthful and just spit out your opinion. As I have studied before, a friend whom you have been with for a long time makes it easier to talk the truth. If you might think he is gay then maybe you can still be with him. Its up to you if you want to still be friends with him. Just promise to never do it again for it can be done more regularly if you do it more often. Just get over it and never talk about it again. ;)

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

You did well! You tried it and you didn't like it! :)

[Rayquaza]

Very mature and handled well. Well done.

[timster5454]

You handled it fairly well, the important think is to have an open dialogue with him. Just keep treating him as a friend. Don't pretend it didn't happen, b/c it did, but treat him just as good as you did b4.

[Tiggz]

itz sounds like you did like other on this thread have said dnt treat him any different than be for just let him no u just want to be friendz

[TheTrevor]

you handled it well

[CarolinaDude]

I'd say you handled it marvelously! And all the other answers are absolutely great, and I really don't have anything else to add ...

[zadec]

Perfect! But whatever u dont judge him!

[tiger22]

Ya totally!!!!


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