View Full Version : I think I might be gay.
DarkHorses
August 8th, 2011, 08:21 PM
I went my whole life thinking I was straight, until about six months ago. I had crushes on guys before, but when it came to people talking about sex with guys, I was always kind of grossed out. I couldn't imagine myself having sex with a guy, and I figured that was just because of my age, and I would as I get older. But then I started a new school, and this girl told me that she was interested in me. Now, I'd never been in a relationship with a guy or a girl before, and I thought I was straight, but I really wanted a relationship (stupid, I know). So I agreed to go out with her. We ended up doing stuff sexually, and the strange thing is that I wasn't grossed out. It felt right, and okay. I can imagine myself in a relationship with a guy, but I still think sex with a guy is disgusting. But I want a relationship with this girl, and I think sex with her would be great. Now when I get turned on I think about sex with a girl. An emotional relationship with a guy would be fine, but physical? It just makes me sick to think about it, almost. Is that strange? Does it sounds like I'm gay? I don't know what I am, and it's driving me crazy. :confused:
judahtics
August 8th, 2011, 08:24 PM
if you can't stomach it, you probably aren't gay.
terbear
August 8th, 2011, 08:25 PM
Our team is always welcoming new members hahaha
DarkHorses
August 8th, 2011, 08:26 PM
I guess I should have mentioned that I'm a girl. I guess the correct term would be lesbian. xD
For future reference: I'm a girl. :P
judahtics
August 8th, 2011, 08:32 PM
lol sorry, i didn't pay attention to that. yea it sounds like you're gay hahaha
StoppingTime
August 8th, 2011, 08:39 PM
Yea didn't think about that either... but if you really believe that you are lesbian, and you are OK with that, then you may be.
Maxxie
August 8th, 2011, 08:53 PM
Are you lesbian? Maybe. Are you bisexual? Maybe.
Emotional and sexual attraction to girls.
Emotional attraction to guys.
To be honest, I'm thinking you're probably bisexual, or you may just be lesbian - over and done with. Although, I can't see WHY, seeing as how guys have so much to offer (yes, I'm gay, and yes, I'm making a joke).
Angel Androgynous
August 8th, 2011, 09:27 PM
I think you might be a lesbian, but maybe homo and heteroromantic? Like you are bisexual in the emotional sense but lesbian in the sexual sense.... if that makes any sense at all.x)
Can you see yourself emotionally involved with a guy? If not, then you are probably lesbian. :)
judahtics
August 8th, 2011, 09:37 PM
maybe you're pansexual?
Abigballofdust
August 9th, 2011, 03:43 AM
You're what your are. Declaring yourself is totally unimportant. Wait a few years and then see what happens once you leave puberty.
I'm something like you, only the other way round: there are some girls that attract me and it pleases me to be around them, hug them, stay close...but the real thing happens with guys only...
Tiggz
August 9th, 2011, 07:24 PM
you might be bi but either way own it n be proud :D
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