Help, confused! What the HELL should I do?

[AladdinSane]

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[Vegito]

I dont think Im homosexual, but you should find ou t if he is homosexual too somehow, ask him or one of his friends. After that, I suggest you come outta the closet, if your at a privet school, the reprecucions should be small, if your at a public school... well i really dont know, and I dont wanna discourage you, but you might wanna talk to your school counsler, or a friend, or maybe take a self defence class. Either way, if he is homosexual, or bi, flirt with him, if he flirts back, he might like you! Try asking him to the movies or dinner, or w/e, and take it from there. Good luck!

[Maxxie]

I dont think Im homosexual, but you should find ou t if he is homosexual too somehow, ask him or one of his friends. After that, I suggest you come outta the closet, if your at a privet school, the reprecucions should be small, if your at a public school... well i really dont know, and I dont wanna discourage you, but you might wanna talk to your school counsler, or a friend, or maybe take a self defence class. Either way, if he is homosexual, or bi, flirt with him, if he flirts back, he might like you! Try asking him to the movies or dinner, or w/e, and take it from there. Good luck!

I mean, pretty much this, though I'm not advocating coming out unless YOU'RE ready. Try to "ease" into the subject of homosexuality, don't just hop on his facebook and say... "ARE YOU GAYYY?".

I know you wouldn't be THAT blunt, but you'd be suprised at the number of people who go about it that way.

[Vegito]

yeah, max makes a point, only come out if your ready, and you dont need to be blunt about asking.

[IAMWILL]

Well, he is teenager, and all teenagers have these things called hormones.
It makes guys think they want to do sexual stuff with other guys. And even though you were close and had that whole experience and such, to be honest i think its nothing out of the ordinary, you just found a guy who isn't afraid to embrace puberty.
Keep trying to get in touch with him, but if he doesn't seem interested, don't be surprised, he's probably moved on.

[AladdinSane]

Thanks for all the help people :)
I'm planning to come out (gradually, if at all possible) this year, I'm in a private school, so I shouldn't get too much stick... Hopefully :L
As for Tom, well I found out today that his phone's been broken, and that guy was just some random drunk that fell on him lol :P Plus when I was talking to him, he kept stroking my hair, so I'm guessing that a straight guy wouldn't do that...
So yeah, basically I'm going to stick with you're advice :)