School field trip sleeping arrangements.

[tyler17OKC]

Not exactly sure where this would go, but, I am going on two three night trips with my school. Both are gonna have four guys per room with two beds. I would be just fine sharing with whoever, as we are just there to sleep. However, past experience tells me they some of them may be uncomfortable. Should I just offer to share a bed out right, or do I just let them work out the arrangements? What have y'all done in the past?
Thanks!!!

[judahtics]

i would ask the hotel if they have cots first. then if they don't, approach the sharing situation. maybe say, i don't mind sharing, but if you aren't comfortable i don't mind taking the floor. or something like that. also, try getting in the same room as someone you are close with. maybe talk to them in advance and see how they feel. if they are ok with it, talk to your teacher and let them know your friend and you want to be roomed together because you'd be comfortable with sharing a bed for sleeping arrangements. hope that helps.

[Luka]

I had to do this. 4 guys. 2 beds.

[Curoz]

I could see that this would be awkward. Especially if you badly know the other person. I'm surprised a school would do that

[Thanatos]

I could see that this would be awkward. Especially if you badly know the other person. I'm surprised a school would do that

My school does it twice a year for Model UN trips that I go to.

As to OP, I'd go on the assumption that you are sharing. When I went this year we didnt even think about anything other then sharing, but then again I go to an all guys school so our attitudes are a bit more flexible.

[Kujiro]

It will go as far as you intend to go, bounderies are actually not drawn, not that im inciting any form of sexual activity, but it can be as clean as just a resting zone, but it can be as wild as your imaginating can take you.
Its all a matter of perspective.

Not everyone is actually comfortable with someone else on the bed, but at camps we dont really have much of a choice.

Camps are made for bonding ( no pun intended ) and teamwork and stuff.
I'd suppose you should just go with the flow.
In generally nothing would go explictly wrong.

Always expect the unexpected, but then again, it all depends on self discipline.

[spartanrob]

I've been on several school trips and that is always how we do it. Everyone just always shares. I guess we never thought of making someone sleep on the floor! We can always sign up for rooms so we sign up with friends and then its no big deal. Although one of my friends has a reputation as a major blanket hog so whenever I'm in a room with him we end up flipping coins to see who has to share with him.

[thebgsamuel]

well if the other guys dont want to sleep with someone well to bad they will have to sleep eventualy and its only sleeping! all of the trips i went to i always had my own bed but some of my friends slept toegether and they didn't even talk about it they just slept it nothing special about sleeping with an other guy!

[canyon]

Not exactly sure where this would go, but, I am going on two three night trips with my school. Both are gonna have four guys per room with two beds. I would be just fine sharing with whoever, as we are just there to sleep. However, past experience tells me they some of them may be uncomfortable. Should I just offer to share a bed out right, or do I just let them work out the arrangements? What have y'all done in the past?
Thanks!!!

You just gotta act like it won't be awkward, and then it won't be. I had to do this when I went on my trips with ROTC to Florida and Hawaii, and it's fine. We all just got into the hotel and chose a bed and put our stuff on the side we wanted, and whoever took the other side was gonna be the one to share.

If you don't have a preference as to who to share a bed with, I would let them make the arrangements and you just go along with them, that way if someone really is uncomfortable with the whole sleeping together arrangement, at least they can be the one to pick how it could be the least uncomfortable for them.

[hhhfiuashfosihdf]

If the other guys are comfortable sharing share , if not maybe top and tail so it won't be as awkward or , take a sleeping bag and you sleep in that on the bed so your not under the same duvet

[Tony223]

Should I just offer to share a bed out right, or do I just let them work out the arrangements? What have y'all done in the past?

I wouldnt offer out right because it might make them more uncomfortable because they might think you like like them or wanna do sumthing to them even tho thats not the case but if you are gonna offer do it when there trying to figure out the arrangements

hope this helped

[salty]

School trips are always like that. 2 to a bed. Sometimes can be fun

[CaliLax]

Ive done that for 4 years lol, started at 10 yrs old and im 14 now. i always room with my 3 closest friends, so we arent weird sleeping in the same bed. hell, sometimes when we sleep over each others houses now we will share beds and were not gay lol

[Heart of a lion]

I had to share a room with 4 guys before and we had 2 beds...it wasn't bad because we all knew each other, it was fun.

[Spock]

if u dont want to share a bed sleep on the couch or floor

[vginy124]

Haha I love sharing a hotel bed with other people. Not for any sexual reason, but it is just fun haha

[Jecko8675]

same..i live in mass and my grade went to cape cod, the 4 of us shared 2 beds..im bi and so was another boy so we slept in the same 1 ;) and we had so much funn that week

[Mayon]

We don't do 2 to a bed on school trips, we normally all have our own single bed

[UnknownError]

Get 4 beds next time?

[Dimitri]

Yep, two to a bed, that's how I have always done it.

[ADC12]

this happened to me a year ago and we sort of top and tailed so it wasnt awkward sleeping with the person face to face...

[hedgemor]

Had that happen, kid said heed kill me if I rolled over on to his side of the bed.....

[crazycoller]

I have been on a few trips and in most instances, we have just shared the bed, no big deal. Just stick to one side and everyone is fine. Most guys know this going in so there is no shock. It's expected. As for a few people who weren't cool with it... I know they ended up either taking the floor or a couch or rotating through somehow.

[Luke91]

I have done this several times and never had a problem. Can be a ball of fun. Most of the time I know the other boy and have slept with him at a sleepover.

[Fourth Dimension]

when i went to dc with school we had to share beds which i really had no desire to do we had 3 people in our room and one guy refused to share a bed to he took over one and then the other guy i really didnt share in general either so the other guy had it one night and i was to have it another and my night we were the last 2 up and we both fell asleep in it watching tv it wasnt a horrible thing in fact i had a monster crush on him at the time so it was kinda a + haha but really its not horrible your just sleeping

[atomsmasher]

When this happens, I say "I'm taking this bed. Either sleep next to me or on the floor." Nice and to the point.

[hollisterboi95]

i had to share one bed with three guys once. it wasnt bad, we were all real close after that. and it was for 3 weeks!

[Abigballofdust]

I don't see why should sharing a bed be a problem. When we would go on a trip we usually united two beds together and got place for a third person to avoid going back and forth between rooms. You're on a trip to have fun and speeping should be a need. It's not like sleeping means having sex automatically...

[Peep Show]

Just let it work it's self out you gotta end up with someone?

[Wakesetter03]

You'll be right man, it'll be like a sleep over but in the same bed.

100th post!

[Polishbum]

we went on a trip to Quebec city and i slept in the same bed with a dude. little did we know, we were both j/oing but we both pretended that we weren't and that we didn't hear the other person. this was in grade 7

[Thanatos]

When this happens, I say "I'm taking this bed. Either sleep next to me or on the floor." Nice and to the point.

Really only works if you have seniority on the other kids. For example, I have to room with 3 freshman this year for my Model UN trip, So I will be grabbing one bed and telling them to figure out their problems.

[AustinFB]

Yeah, this happens alot to me im in my schools football team so some away games we do this.. We share beds cause we now each other pretty well. But id say just see how things play out

[Ambrosia]

Bumpedlikealump.:locked: