Sensitivity

[Kuervo]

i have no clue where this wud fall into so i put it ina forum close to it, sorry in advanced :) please feel free to move it to another place

um...well....ive been getting a lot of compliments saying that they like how sensitive i am. my question is why do ppl find that.......i guess you cud say, attractive or a good quality to find in a guy. im really sensitive and i get those compliments alot.

Why do some ppl find that a good thing in a guy? and Are you sensitive and do other ppl like that about you?

Thanks :)

[AppealToReason]

I guess they find it a good thing in guys because we are not known to be open about how we feel/show emotion other than happy and angry. Of course, not all guys are like this, but a lot of people believe that's how men should be. Also, they may find it easier to talk to you about things without having to worry about you laughing at them or taunting them.
I am not at all sensitive, but there is nothing wrong with it. If you're happy, it's all good.

[judahtics]

my gf says she wishes i was more sensitive, but some girls think i'm very sensitive. it's really important to them because they are emotional creatures and we are physical creatures. according to the girls i know and from what understand, being sensitive in a great quality, but don't stop being a guy either, if ya know what i mean.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

I love that my boyfriend is sensitive,for whatever stupid reason,society has made it so guys cant cry or get upset without being labeled weak,and it bothers me like crazy. Gender has nothing to do with emotional states,a human has feelings. End of story. So its nice to know,that once in awhile,a guy isnt afraid of being sensitive.

[Imaussie]

I used to be sensitive but I manned but not saying that anyone is a pussy I just toughened up emotonly and physically and that helped me very well but that's just me their are many other ways but I don't know how you express your self nor what people are complaining about like saying a joke and your reaction etc....

[Curiousasian]

I guess it's good cuz we aren't as open

[AltoVaughn]

i have no clue where this wud fall into so i put it ina forum close to it, sorry in advanced :) please feel free to move it to another place

um...well....ive been getting a lot of compliments saying that they like how sensitive i am. my question is why do ppl find that.......i guess you cud say, attractive or a good quality to find in a guy. im really sensitive and i get those compliments alot.

Why do some ppl find that a good thing in a guy? and Are you sensitive and do other ppl like that about you?

Thanks :)

I hope you take what I say into consideration. Anyone that tells you that you have to be masculine and tough and not emotional is Wrong. I'm in love with someone who has a very hard time showing emotion, and I feel that's the worst thing about him to be honest.

It's a good thing to be sensitive in my opinion. At least for me it makes me feel like I can make a better connection with a person. Be happy with who you are.

[Brice72]

I think the balence between sensitivity and....non sensitive? Is optimal.