View Full Version : Please, just go back to normal
HeartCoreHannah
August 7th, 2011, 11:27 PM
You hurt me to the point I cried for days. Yet I still love you more than anything and I would take you back in a heart beat. But I know you're poison. I know I need to run, get as far away from you as possible. But I can't. I just want our relationship to be back to perfect. I can't take this anymore.
Kuervo
August 8th, 2011, 12:41 AM
:'( :'( Hannah, i feel the exact same way. i love him with everything i have but he just wont talk, he pushes me back. hes the one tht hurts me the most but i love him to much to forget about him. havent felt this much hurt since idk when. its like the heart melts away. :'(
im here for u Hannah if u need anyone :)
HeartCoreHannah
August 8th, 2011, 11:12 PM
I really hope things get better for you two. :/ and same goes for you, I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. <3
Upintheair
August 8th, 2011, 11:14 PM
I know how this feels. Its so hard to let go of the poison when the poison is so addicting. Im finally over mine, and I hope the same for you! If you need someone to talk to that will understand, then Im here
Kujiro
August 9th, 2011, 01:17 AM
Love may be blissful , yet it does has its torns just like roses,
There are times, forgiveness is the key to your happiness, but its always a case to case basis.
I'd agree that at times letting go is hard, but staying together may prove to be harder.
Its just like sand, the harder you grapse it, the faster it slides down your hand.
You have to understand, people will forgive, and be happy, but will they ever forget?
Im sorry to say, but no. Scars will always be there, but its scars and pain which does not kill you thus making you a stronger person.
There is no prefect relationship, its impossible to build a relationship without disagreements, and many a times a emotional security.
Thats what makes people go really dizzy about love.
I believe you are just going thru depression now, and it takes only you to withdraw from it.
Which is the 3rd stage of grief bargaining.
Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
Anger
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.
Bargaining.
Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If I do this, will you take away the loss?"
Depression.
The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.
Acceptance.
This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person simply accepts the reality of the loss.
Stay strong and not be trap within.
Will always be there if you need to talk
Good luck
*Smile*
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