View Full Version : Im Straight....I swear!
TrAnSMaN09
August 7th, 2011, 09:58 PM
I like him, So much, Hes sweet to me, and cares about me, But i like girls, I've always liked girls, so why am i all over him, and his....manliness,? *(if you kno what i mean) he's gentle, and really sexy, i keep thinking about him, i don't kno why, something must be wrong with me,
I don't normally like boys, like i always think there sexy but i've never done anything with one, and i like it, so why do i still like girls, i dont like being bi!
Wicked_Syn
August 7th, 2011, 10:00 PM
Live with it, you're bi. This is all normal
Angel Androgynous
August 7th, 2011, 10:03 PM
It may be your hormones, or you are perhaps bisexual. There is nothing wrong with that, and you cannot change it. A lot of people say that they don't want to be bi/gay/curious, but it is who they are. I hope that you accept yourself and let nature take its course. ^_^ Not only are you sexually attracted to him, but also emotionally, so yes, I think you are probably bi...or maybe he is special. Just accept yourself. Of course it's not easy, but it takes strength and couage to live. (:
StoppingTime
August 7th, 2011, 10:08 PM
There are two possible explanations for this.
1. You are bi. You are the only one who can truly decide whether this is true or not. If you really think you are, then don't be ashamed of it. don't let people stereotype you.
2. The second explanation is that these are your puberty hormones. if you are down with puberty, then of course this is much less likely, but possible. If you really think he is sweet and nice, that might just mean you like him as a person. But if you say he is sexy and love his "manliness" as you put it, then it could be hormones, or your bi.
Don't worry though, your definitely not the only teen going through this.. Good Luck :)
TrAnSMaN09
August 8th, 2011, 08:26 AM
He's Bi aswell, and says that he gets the best of both worlds, Iwish he was mine, But he isn't interested in me like that, I feel so safe with him!
Abigballofdust
August 8th, 2011, 11:06 AM
He's Bi aswell, and says that he gets the best of both worlds, Iwish he was mine, But he isn't interested in me like that, I feel so safe with him!
Tell him you're bi too. Magic could happen.
God I so wish I were you. Bi and with a bi friend.
Worse case scenario you have someone in the same waters as you to talk with.
Srsly, I'm so envious now...
TrAnSMaN09
August 8th, 2011, 11:16 AM
hes way older then me thou stefano
Abigballofdust
August 8th, 2011, 11:51 AM
hes way older then me thou stefano
How older?
Kujiro
August 8th, 2011, 11:56 AM
Its very normal to like someone whom is nice and sweet to you.
Be it male or female, we are all build to reciprocate feelings.
You would be really cold if you do not feel that same way
Its not wrong to like someone whos nice to you, whatever you did was just humane.
*smile*
Syvelocin
August 8th, 2011, 07:25 PM
Okay, liking one guy does not mean someone is bisexual. I wouldn't say he was bisexual unless he liked multiple guys. You can be straight and have a single crush on someone of your same sex. If it's a one-time thing, calling yourself bisexual isn't a good label for yourself...
It's completely normal. It doesn't necessarily mean anything, but it's your decision whether you want to act on it or not. It could be the beginning of discovering that you're bisexual, but it's also likely it's just a one-time thing and you never like a boy again.
TrAnSMaN09
August 8th, 2011, 07:48 PM
How older?
22....
and to everyone else, I don't think its a one time thing, I can't stop talking to him, and wishing i was in his arms, I feel so safe with him,
Contra
August 8th, 2011, 08:35 PM
and to everyone else, I don't think its a one time thing, I can't stop talking to him, and wishing i was in his arms, I feel so safe with him,
When people say a one time thing, they mean that it's only with this boy, you see?
I think you're straight, but you have feelings for that one person, it can happen, and although it can be confusing you shouldn't worry and live your life. If you think you're too young for him though, then perhaps you should move on.
Maxxie
August 8th, 2011, 08:50 PM
Hey, mate, if you like this one guy, this one time, no, I don't think you're bi. Reading this, I think you're straight. But, hey, if it persists, you might be bi. And that's YOU! There's nothing wrong with it. It's genetic, it's who you are inside, it's what makes you HAPPY! And these labels, yeah, they're there, they can describe you, but they do a shitty job of it - it's your orientation, not your personality, your looks, your intelligence... It's one tiny fraction of yourself. So go on, and don't be afraid to maybe be bi!
TrAnSMaN09
August 9th, 2011, 10:27 AM
Hey, mate, if you like this one guy, this one time, no, I don't think you're bi. Reading this, I think you're straight. But, hey, if it persists, you might be bi. And that's YOU! There's nothing wrong with it. It's genetic, it's who you are inside, it's what makes you HAPPY! And these labels, yeah, they're there, they can describe you, but they do a shitty job of it - it's your orientation, not your personality, your looks, your intelligence... It's one tiny fraction of yourself. So go on, and don't be afraid to maybe be bi!
I don't mind being bi, Now that i think about it, i thing i was just scared when i first wrote this thread, but you guys have helped me so much
But Another problem i have is that he's going away to go to school in two weeks, And i might never see him again...
Disconected
August 21st, 2011, 01:34 PM
just talk to him and be very open. u never know how he will respond or wht his feeling really r unless u ask him or tell him how u really feel. how old r u then?
TrAnSMaN09
August 21st, 2011, 02:02 PM
He knows i like him, and im 16
DirtyDog78
August 22nd, 2011, 02:29 PM
Well you could be one of the two things.
1. BiSexual: It's OK, there is nothing to be ashamed of. Many people are like that.
2. Puberty Hormones: Since you are growing up, you feel like exploring other people's private parts. :banana2:
TrAnSMaN09
August 22nd, 2011, 02:48 PM
thats tru, But i like his personality, It's so sweet, And now i find myself wanting to be with a boy more then a girl,
BiBoy5674
November 16th, 2011, 04:15 PM
Its ok to be bi :)
Syvelocin
November 16th, 2011, 08:20 PM
Please do not bump old threads. :locked:
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