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Twistember
August 7th, 2011, 05:03 PM
So about 7 months ago some of my friends started teasing me about a guy they thought I should go out with. The more they talked about him, the more I started to like him. I don't know if he knows that they're teasing me about him. I don't know if he likes me. But I like him. Should I let them set us up like they've been trying to? Should I do it myself? Should I wait until I know if he likes me or not? What do I do?

I have no experience with relationships so I have no idea what I'm doing. I really like him. I've found myself trying to look my best when I go to mcdonalds because what if I see him there? I've never done that before. I have no idea what to do.

dontcare97
August 7th, 2011, 05:18 PM
You should try to see if he likes you. Hang out with him more and maybe ask for a phone number. Try establishing a friendship and work from their.

xktx
August 7th, 2011, 05:46 PM
friendship is always a good place to start. x

Kujiro
August 7th, 2011, 08:35 PM
It comes down to confidence,

You cannot be afraid to lose, its not just about love, its about life.
Its eazy to have that confidence when things are going in your direction, but its very hard to maintain that confidence when you take the strange bounces life throws at you.

Do not be careless, but do not be too careful either.
Take a shot when you have the chance, and make it count.

Regardlessly you would have an answer, be it yes or no. Whats matters is you have tried.
Look for the best time , at your own time to figure this out, its not something that can be taught, but its felt.
And from then you will know its going in your direction, and thats how you gain confidence.

Good luck
*smile*

kizzy
August 7th, 2011, 08:48 PM
friendship is always a good place to start. x

agreed!

Vegito
August 8th, 2011, 11:39 PM
Im a guy, so its a bit hard for me to put myself in your shoes, but I do have a crush similar to yours on a girl, so basing it on that relation, try a few things. Get your friends to find out if he is straight, if so, great! If he is bi, still works, if he's homosexual... well i'm not sure where you go from there... But either way, asuming he is straight, as the others said, hang out with him a little more each day, and flirt with him a tiny bit. If he flirts back, good.

If i was him, and a girl I liked was flirting with me, personally I find it hard to recognise but, lets asume he does, he will go to his clique and tell them about it. Make sure you find out who his closer friends are, and get them to like you, not sexually, but as a person. If they like you, they will encourage him to go out with you.

If you dont want to go that route, there is a way to be settup, but in a fun way. At my school. Someone writes a name of someone on someone elses wrist, and a time, usually 1 hour later. They then tell the person they wrote the name on what time they have to wait untill. Untill this time, if they look at the name, on accident, or on purpose, they MUST ask that person out, the person who they must ask can say yes or no. If the person with the name doesnt look, they CAN ask but dont HAVE TO ask. In this case, have one of your friends, or one of his write your name on his wrist/hand, and somehow get him to look. From there, he will ask and you, not seeming to desperate, say yes. Goto the movies or something, i dont know.

Hope this helped, adios!