what do you think?

[xktx]

my boyfriend (of 11months) has been on holiday for 3weeks, and if im totally honest I didnt miss him :/ our relationship has been quite intense and Ive been happy to have myself back for a while, and while hes been away, its like my minds started wondering, I dont seem to love him as much. :/ do you think its normal? cos I dont want to lose him, but in a way I like being on my own :/ xx

[Upintheair]

I think sometimes its normal to feel a little relieved when your boyfriend/girlfriend goes on vacation, but Im not sure if its a good thing that you didnt miss him. When your in a relationship with someone, them being gone for 3 weeks should be something you dread, not look forward to. Everyone experiences bumps in their relationship, but if you really feel that you dont love him the same way or that you just dont like being around him as much, then maybe you two have reached your point. You can always talk to him and tell him your worried about it, and see how he reacts! When you have been dating someone that long, it is worth trying to save!

[nick.P]

i didnt want him to go before, i really didnt, well I mean I miss him, but I dont miss us :/ x
and i dont want to lose him, I still love him, just not the same way I did before :/ xx

nd im scared of what life'll be without him, cos i cant seem to remember a time without him. xx

I think he is either gay and trying to hide it or bi.

I think smaller dicks are really sexy.


I wish I had a friend who I could be naked with and Jack off with. Your lucky :)

Btw I'm gay also and I would love to talk.

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[Upintheair]

Yea I completely understand! Its hard to let go of something that youve been holding for so long! But ultimately, the most important thing is that your happy! Because if your not happy, then he wont be happy. At the end of the day, you have to do whats best for you! From what it sounds, you love him, but you dont love being in a relationship with him. At least thats my first thought when you said "well I mean I miss him, but I dont miss us". I promise that you will still be able to breath without him, even if it doesnt seem like it.

And Im not saying you should break up with him, Im just saying that you should keep your happiness in mind

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[xktx]

maybe i should talk to him, he comes back on wednesday. x

[Kujiro]

I'll quote a little from
Men are from mars, women are from Venus.
Men are like rubber bands , women are like waves - chapt 7
When a woman's wave rises she feels she has an abundance of love to give, when it falls she feels her inner emptyness and needs to be filled with love, that's when she's in need of emotional house cleaning.

Apperantly what you are going thru is the down wave, during this down time, it's best to find your mate or bestie to be heard and understood.

Many a times an outsider with the vantage point would be ideal for the cleaning process.
In every relationship some downtime would increase the hearts fonder.
There is nothing wrong with you, but don't drift to lose it either.
Talk about it and you would be back in a bit.
Trust in love, it always works.

Good luck
*smile*

[Vegito]

Not to be a downer or anything, but you migt want to sit down with your boyfriend and have a serious talk to him aout your relationship, but b4 this, you need to have a serious conversation with yourself. As horrable as it sounds, you might want to make a pro and con chart of your relationship. If you see as you are doing it that there are more pros than cons, or that you truely love him, embrase this feeling with all your heart and greet him back home with open arms. If the cons are larger, you might want to think, do you actually love him, or is he something you just keep around as a souvenere or to remind you of happy times? Also, not to be mean or anything, but just incase, is this your "time of the month"? If it is, that might be why, during that time your horomones basicly just burst from your now dead egg and your horomones just plummited to the ground, to only rebuild themselves agaun over the next month untill they burst again.

[mynameisJ]

Maybe you just need some deep thinking if its TRUE love or just plain fake love. Maybe he is not so compatible for you thats why you do not have much feelings for him.

[xktx]

Well its all good now :) i didnt realise how much i missed him until i saw him, i dont know what was wrong, it may have been because it had probably been the worst two weeks of my life (for other reasons) but everything is better than perfect now :) x