is anal sex safe and not dirty

[jenn1995ma]

Ok so here i go with it girls i have ben going out with my bf for all most a year now we have messed aroud a lot but have not had sex. he knows i want to save vagina intercorse for a bit but we have done oral and hand help each othere i gess you could say the othere night he asked me about anal becuse he wants to take it a step up from just oral and a hand help. so is anal sex safe is it clean becuse it widers me out thinking about it does not seem normal to me thanks jenn

[Sam95]

Anal can give quite alot of pleasure apparently, but you need ALOT of lube because unlike the vagina, it does not produce its own self lubrication...just make sure to wipe yourself clean before he goes in, and use something small in your anus at first to stretch it a little before he goes thrusting away hehe, i tried once and was only able to get my thumb in

[jenn1995ma]

Ok did not know about lub thank you and to start off small got it i think he is rather large any ways but that is only comparing hime to the on othere boy that i have seen hi man hood of and porn he is about 8 ichs and 2 or 3 thick can you get an orgasm from anal? thanks again jenn

[timster5454]

definitely use lube. There is some risk to anal sex. The skin in your butt is very sensitive, and if it rips there is a very high chance of getting infected. Make sure he uses a condom as well. If possible have oral before hand, because the smoother he goes the safer it is.

[jenn1995ma]

Ok now i am new to this but oral befor condom or after i never givin oral with only with out

[jenn1995ma]

Ok sorry for all the questions about this but i thinking of trying it to give it a go but now i dont know if i should try masterbating my anas first or let my bf do it for me ????

[Sam95]

why dont you start off by both giving each oral, head to toe style ( your head at his dick, his head at your vagina) and whilst giving oral, get him to put some lube on 1 of his fingers and start fingering your anus, maybe then go to two fingers and then once its a bit easier to finger, he can give you anal, but remember the lube !!
And yes you can orgasm from it, just rub your clit at same time or something

[jenn1995ma]

So i called in up told him to bye some lube and we could play around some and try things out well it was going ok with him masterbating it for me then i think he went a little fast on me becuse it was not long befor he was invading it with his man hood well he got the head in and i stoped him it hurt now he was hard lubed had lub in me the best he could so he gave me a min then pushed a little more and it hurt some more so he stoped now i tryed to masterbat my vagina but it was to pain ful back there and he was pumped up read to go now the wider part is even thou i was in pain and crying a little he was so pumped up and wanted it it was starting to get me going in a weird way so he said he could finsh quick i a few strokes so i let him go well he was right becus he went in just a little the pulled back a little and he was done so now that he was done he pulled out now that hurt all most as much as going in wtf he loved it i well lets say i may try it again still fells weird back there after that too

[Sam95]

well now youve done it, it should be a bit easier next time, just spend more time widening your ass hole before he goes in

[endgame]

It hurt too much trying to put a dildo in my but, I can't imagine having a penis in there!

[jenn1995ma]

ya well its still tender to day and that is like all he is txting me about now is when are we going to do that again well he has to give me a day or two the dildoe is a good idear but i dont know where i can get one as i dont have a fake id thanks all

[Sam95]

use a pen, or something long and hard instead of a dildio, make sures it clean though !

[willamsky]

i hate that,it is not good for health and so dirty.

[Triste]

I'm not sure about anal sex. I've heard that it causes a few problems in the future.