How to find out?

[Orton220]

Okay so i have this friend, and everyone thinks he is gay/bi. I want to know as well but im not sure how to find out. And if it turns out he isnt then i could end up losing him as a friend and pissing alot of people off. Any ideas?

[audiophile5]

You can say something like " I never understood those who can't stand gay/bi people. I totally support them." and see how the cOnversations goes from there..

[spoke]

i think you need to decide what is more important, your friendship or his sexual orientation. if it was me, friendship always comes first. if my friends want to tell me things about themselves great. if not, also great cause they're my friends first.

[Can'tHelpIt]

i think you need to decide what is more important, your friendship or his sexual orientation. if it was me, friendship always comes first. if my friends want to tell me things about themselves great. if not, also great cause they're my friends first.

ditto

[Orton220]

Good idea tudor. And spoke, thats a really good point. i shudve mentioned that i would love to date him if he did end up being like that so thats where it gets complicated :/