sexuality confusion

[Kuervo]

its been a while since ive known tht i was bi. not now im looking more into it and its been getting to my head. i like girls but not sexually attracted, i like guys and i am sexually attracted. plus, i have a gf and i love her yes but im not sexually attracted to her. can anyone help me clear this out. i dont know what to consider myself, bi or gay :confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:

[Reiko]

hey...yeah im like tht 2.

[Syvelocin]

We can't tell you. It's a choice you have to make. Which describes you better, which do you want to be known by? You don't have to be 100% gay to say you're gay, it can just be the one that describes you better. As well, if you want to be considered gay, make sure it's something that will help you best in the relationship department. If you want a serious relationship with a girl, saying you're gay may tell a potential candidate that you're not an option.

I had the same issue. I decided to call myself gay because I had only emotional attraction to some guys in the past, and about one or two guys I've ever found physically attractive. Certainly not sexually either. I kept calling myself bi though because I was attracted to guys, but I decided eventually to call myself gay because just a few selective crushes on the opposite sex does not mean you can exactly omit gay from the possibilities. In my head, no one is 100% gay or straight, there are varying degrees of all sexualities.

[Reiko]

Syvelocin sed it the best

[nameless12]

well, only you can decide that, but you dont need to label yourself with those two things, just enjoy what you do and love

[sdude]

Sounds like you really do know, if you are sexually attracted to guys, you are probably gay...doesn't stop you from loving a gf, just means you will have great girl friends and probably great boyfriends too...don't worry about it, explore your feelings and you will know..enjoy your life!!!

[Xilo]

I agree with Joseph.