Soooo confused

[Can'tHelpIt]

I kinda want a romantic with a girl but not sure and i know (when im older) that i definatly want a sexual relationship with a guy. sooooo confused

[TheTrevor]

Just be yourself. you'll find a guy or girl to be in a relationship with sooner or later :)

[Kujiro]

It is normal to be confused at this stage,
It's because you have not given a chance to truly understand yourself.
Do not be afraid, but take this opportunity to understand yourself better.
I've always mention, I feel that sexuality is not a choice.

Do not be too worried about what others are saying, what's more important is to give yourself this chance; learn and accept it with pride and grace.

One may learn alot more about his/her own genome by taking the road less taken.
Courage and an open heart are what you need in this journey.

We can only give advise, but we can never lead the way for you, the choice is yours.

But whatever the case may be, homosexuality is not just a sexual factor, but it brings about emotions and feelings too.

The fabled example I share with everyone confused on this journey would be,

You are having a game of blackjack
You are now holding an Ace
the dealer deals you a King, you get blackjack.
the dealer deals you a queen , you get blackjack as well.

The moral of the story is, it alright be it any side you fall into.
In all of us, it's most important to be true to yourself.