View Full Version : Single and friends with most girls... uh oh.
LuckyLuke
August 5th, 2011, 12:20 AM
So, I'm single and I've just realized something....
My past girlfriend attended a school different from my own and now that I'm single I realize that the reason I went for someone from a different school was because I'm friends with nearly every "good" girl (not a total "B") in my area.
So, now I face a problem and I have no idea what to do. I'm friends with most of the girls in my school- the ones I'd consider dating- and although I like some of them and I know some of them used to have a crush on me, I have no idea how to move past the friendship stage with them.
Any ideas, tips, advice, words of encouragement, etc?
Wicked_Syn
August 5th, 2011, 12:22 AM
Start hanging out with them exclusively and just TAKE IT SlOW show a bit that you are interested in them, maybe they will hint right back at you
Upintheair
August 5th, 2011, 12:55 PM
Luke, I have the same problem dear! My boyfriend and I broke up, and I suddenly realized that every guy that seems worth my time, Im friends with. Its so hard! Personally, I took some time away from dating and decided to just enjoy my time being a free woman! Im a strong believer in "when the time is right, then they will find you". Also, you dont necessarily have to date one of the girls at your school. Alot of times, it is easier to date someone at a different school because it keeps the jealousy thing down! Dont worry too much about it, Im sure when your ready for another relationship, it will come to you! :)
Monster.Mike
August 5th, 2011, 05:36 PM
Just show them that u keen. Flirt and see what happens.
steve14
August 6th, 2011, 04:26 PM
Luke, you know that one of those girls is falling for you ;) and its very likely to see that they will come to you when the times right. I know what your feeling! But you dont have to worry, ive learned, from you that it is better to find a girl from another school/ town.
Contra
August 6th, 2011, 09:09 PM
If there's one you really like, you should ask her out for a date, it doesn't even have to have a romantic premise, just go out to dinner both of you as friends or something and talk to her, have fun, make a connection, drop a few hints, just do whatever you do when you're flirting with someone you don't know. Just think about it, you know that girl, so it's even easier to please her by doing what you know she likes.
I'm pretty sure you can make it. And well, I know it's easier to talk but maybe there a few good girls out there you don't know yet. Good luck!
Riotboy
August 7th, 2011, 09:31 AM
GET THIER TRUST 1 man...one bagillian girls in the world.....you know what im talking about.....ANOTHER DATE WITH ONE!
xktx
August 7th, 2011, 01:45 PM
you dont have to be going out with someone, spend a little time alone to find yourself, its always nice. Then I would wait, the right girl with show up, it may be any of them, or someone you havent met yet xxx
Northern
May 20th, 2012, 10:59 AM
Duuude, just chill and wait yeaa? I dated my best friends, best friend 2 years ago and I havent dated since! practically all the girls im intrested in are now my good friends?! but hey like the people above me said. patience is duh key;3 or just ask on out. lol jks jks
ImCoolBeans
May 20th, 2012, 11:39 AM
Please don't bump old threads :locked:
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