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Bi-Girl01
March 1st, 2007, 07:52 PM
ok

so me and my sfriends write graphic stories ok?

but we only do it cos we're curious and its one way that we can wexpress it. We all like writting anyway and we incorporate sexual scenes into them

we're really mature aobut it but we've been caught at school by a teacher who read an obviously graphic section. We didn;t know that we couldn;t sdo it at school but we are sorry and wont do it again.

we jsut want some help on our side saying that this expression is ok and normal

we need help quick cos we dont know if its jsut gonna be a talk or if our parents are going to be called in :(

need help now please

we need some people on our side

ty

Jess

schrei jess
March 1st, 2007, 07:57 PM
Hey, my name is Jess too =)

And I write graphic stories as well, male on male actually. Ive never been caught but Ive had to take great risks with having it at school. I had it posted on a website and I went to it and printed it out, and had to grab all the pages quickly before anyone saw them. But anyway, Im not sure what advice I can give but Ill try.

First of all, I dont think that writing graphic sex scenes is bad - and no one else should think it's bad, it's just creativity, maybe a little dirty...but it's still creative expression. Make that your main point, probably going to be the best idea. Admit that it was wrong to bring it to school, and apologize for that. But dont be sorry for writing it, nothing wrong with expressing yourself. You can send me an instant message at 'oh sonny my love' if you want to get more advice and talk about this.

Good luck,
Jess

DouggyO.o
March 1st, 2007, 08:04 PM
welcome to vt.

first off there is nothing wrong with expressing your curiosity in a story, but bringing it to school was a mistake; one that is pretty hard to fix.

there is really no way to help you resolve this problem. Im sorry to tell you this but you might just have to take the consequence, after all your parents may look at you funny for a bit but after a little while they will get over it. they may try to talk to you about it and all that but thats kinda what you get for bringing it to school.

just be careful were you bring that stuff, and i wish you best of luck!.

sorry i couldn't help more but there really is no way...:-(

~Dougggy

Bi-Girl01
March 2nd, 2007, 01:02 AM
Hi i'm bak

the teacher, well another one, gave me and my friend an automatum.

either we:

accept 4 him to destroy the stories and no one hears of it

OR

we keep the sotires and our parents are called, my parents would flip :( specially my dad *cowers in fear*

i dont know wat to do, my feriend is kewl either way

*cry!*

HELP!

0=
March 2nd, 2007, 02:10 AM
Type them on the computer and e-mail them you yourself and let him destroy them.

thesphinx
March 2nd, 2007, 02:15 AM
how important are they to you? if they are important enough for you to talk to you parents about it then do that. if not let him destroy it.

Bi-Girl01
March 2nd, 2007, 02:38 AM
i can't get them unless we agree to tell the parentals...i dunno how much they mean to me, i really jsut wanna finish them cos i dont really like the firned i wirte those ones wif but i love da characters and i put effort inot them, but not all of them were graphic, so my otehr friend (best friend) suggested that i ask for the non graphic ones back. I dunno, i jsut dont wanna lose the cahracters and the writtings.

i worked so ahrd on them *crz* and i dont c y they have to b destroyed, he said cos they were in class he can do wat he wants

he;s such a fuck head, y can;t he jsut give em bak, it was hima d the teache's fault 4 reading them, thye cud have jsut given the sotires bak like EVERYOTHER teacher has done:mad: :(

Elscire
March 2nd, 2007, 09:22 AM
you can write more of those, like i did with mine :p, even if my teachers burn them, i can still write more whenever i feel like it

Jamz
March 2nd, 2007, 11:18 AM
Try to type slower :P Hard to read when there are multiple mistakes in each sentence. But like Elscire said, why not just write more?
You probably should have known not to take them to school, its a form of pornography in many people's mind which is only for people 18+ and definitely not supposed to be at school or work environments unless your job is in that category :)

I say you tell him to destroy them and try to save them to the comp, once they are saved they arn't really removed for quiet some time. Just go online and search deleted files recovery and you'll find a lot of programs that will search your harddrive for the stories. Deleted files are saved on your computer until there is no room for them then they are covered over by other files.

schrei jess
March 2nd, 2007, 03:33 PM
In the future, I recommend having a saved copy on the computer for backup. You can have a soft copy, handwritten, if you like but just to be safe always have one on the computer. I have mine saved and if I want a copy I just print it off.

Bi-Girl01
March 4th, 2007, 12:31 AM
ooh oki thankyou ^,^ i've decided to let them be destroyed, but seen as they never HAD a computer copy, i'm sad to say they'll never be read, but i guess me adn my freidn can just write up in a sumary what happened ;p.
i'll take all of ur advice and have some copies, me and my friedn wanna go coputer anyway, muuuch easier.
plus, i dont want my parents to kn ow cos they might try to stop me writting stories and search my computer files...which wud b bad ;p
thankyou guys ^,^ i can stop stressing now

i think tha ti'll jsut have to b there wen they're destryed and or know how they will b ^,^

oh and sorry that i type so fast, i do that lots (types slower form now on) ;p ty ty ty ty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wub

Jess

Gumleaf
March 4th, 2007, 12:52 AM
i think you made the right decision jess. it could get quite ugly if you get parents involved!

dannyley
March 4th, 2007, 01:18 AM
Hi, I think its unfsir that the school is picking u out lyk that.
Personnally I think what you are doing is expressing your feelings and
having your say and using freedom of speach that everyone shud have
So its against the law to stop you writting yiur dtories if it is your way of
expresing yourself.

Dont worry about your parents theyll see it your way.

Goood luck Jess and we're all rooting for you. x

schrei jess
March 4th, 2007, 01:30 AM
She was taking a risk having sexually explicit material at school, so it's her fualt she got caught, but I dont think it's bad for her to write things like that. Just be CAREFUL if you ever have it at school again.

dannyley
March 4th, 2007, 01:35 AM
She was taking a risk having sexually explicit material at school, so it's her fualt she got caught, but I dont think it's bad for her to write things like that. Just be CAREFUL if you ever have it at school again.

I 4git 2 mention that

DS_furio
March 6th, 2007, 08:57 PM
i like to write storys but i never finnish them and i always use real life caratures and the story is always a mimic of somthing already out apart from with new ppl and diferent things happen. some how i always turn into something highly sexual and very personnal, if mine where found id deffinatly die mine are on my pc in side folder after folder but i take my laptop into college all the time we i have to use it for all my college work i have my porn on here as well i always have to be really cearful about leaving it coz im paranoide some one i know is gonna find somthing. i dont think the teachers would mind infact im pretty sure they come up with some rubbish and make me use it in my work

Everglow
March 6th, 2007, 11:07 PM
DS_furio...are you sure you're in college at 16???

Gumleaf
March 6th, 2007, 11:44 PM
thats what i was thinking???

RowanVer.3.0
March 7th, 2007, 02:59 PM
Nothing wrong with 'graphic stories'. Regardless of how 'graphic' it is, any kind of writing is still art. It's nothing illegal or anything...

But yeah, screw them. There's nothing wrong with what you did.

Octo22
March 11th, 2007, 02:24 AM
Nothing wrong with 'graphic stories'. Regardless of how 'graphic' it is, any kind of writing is still art. It's nothing illegal or anything...

But yeah, screw them. There's nothing wrong with what you did.

Yes there is, you actually have to be a certain age just to read graphic novels (Depending on location).

Plus bringing that to school = HUGE NO-NO. As much as you'd like to think "omg the constitution can save us!", in a school environment, school has control.

My teachers told me during our school reading time, I had to stop reading my type of books because they were inappropriate. I was reading philosophy books on the thought of hell. One of them called "Dead or Damned" I see where my school was coming from (books were depressing to others, and just had an overall negative image) So I chose other literature for school.

ViolinPro
March 13th, 2007, 06:24 PM
DESTROY NOW, and dont try to draw such nasty things
really, bad for you mind, first its drawings, then its real sex

Elscire
March 13th, 2007, 06:32 PM
DESTROY NOW, and dont try to draw such nasty things
really, bad for you mind, first its drawings, then its real sex

doing that is like telling all the guys to stop looking at porn

Mirataku
April 3rd, 2007, 09:31 PM
doing that is like telling all the guys to stop looking at porn

Yeah I agree

Randy93
April 12th, 2007, 01:01 AM
when i'm in these kinds of situations i try to think of an excuse. if they are that important to you, you should talk to your parents before they are called in. beleive me that really helps its not so much of a shock if they hear it from you than to get a letter that you did something wrong at school. if i were you parent i would rather you talk to me about it .

ps you can use puberty crisis as an excuse just say you had to release some of your anger, or say that you write them to keep your mind off the peer pressure or the life of a teenager. or i don't know. when things like these happen to me just think it will be over you parents might get mad but come onn they cant be mad forever they might even forget by morning

Randy93
April 12th, 2007, 01:12 AM
yes dan i agree you are a pervert for being on the girls section!!!! thats y they are different sections.lol hehe so am i lol

but yes i cant stop watching porn and im still waiting for sex its my dream and i think if you like something you should go for it. so go ahead jess and don't let anyone ruin your art(except for the one in you dick headed, pussy brained, excuse for a teacher lol)

Miss.Suicide
April 16th, 2007, 11:46 AM
Hey, yeah me and one of my friends used to write stories like that. I can't imagine doing it with her now but back then it seemed really normal. We always wrote them at each others houses though and hid the stories or got rid of them. I was caught once by my mum .. and she went mad but I didn't really know what to say. It blew over. Erm, well I think your teacher shouldn't be angry because of what you wrote maybe just the fact you where doing it in lesson. It seems normal to me so I hope everything goes well for you.
x

Aηdy
April 16th, 2007, 12:00 PM
Ok i'm going to lock this before it gets out of hand. If the original poster wants it to be reopened, please PM me.

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