help!

[lacrosselover]

tonight im going to a friends house who i know is curious also
i want to expirement with him but i have a girlfriend! and me and her makeout alot

if i expirement with him will i be considered gay and cheating?

[andrew_]

i think its not considerded gay but i do think its considered cheating my thinkig is if my girlfriend did that to me i would count it as cheating

[AltoVaughn]

Well, putting your concerns about your sexuality aside. Would you consider it cheating if you did it with another girl besides your girlfriend? I assume yes. Same thing regardless of the gender of the person your doing things with. So i'd say it would be cheating.

[tyler007]

I don't think it is gay at all, and i really don't think its cheating either. I think its just experimentation. I really don't think you are going to tell her, or your that your friend well either. I am sure that I am one of the few who feel like this. If its just to try it out and see if you like it, its ok i think, but if you do like it and want to do it more then you might be bi and then it well be cheating. And this depends too on what you are going to do, it your kissing and making out, cheating (maybe) if your wanking together, nothing wrong with that. BUT this is just my opinion.

Im Bi and last year my "boyfriend" did catch me kissing/ making out with a girl and it did cause ALOT of problems and drama.

[Kevinlegit15]

I don't think it is gay! But I really think that is cheating.. Imagin if she did this with someone else and you found out..

[DoctorWho]

Its considered cheating but you could do it out of curiosity

[Upintheair]

Experimentation is still cheating in my opinion. If I was in a relationship and my boyfriend "experimented" with another guy, I would be so hurt. I think if you really care for your girlfriend, you shouldnt do it.

[tyler007]

Yea it might be "cheating" but unless you ready to come out, and tell the world, you like it with other guys, then i would not say anything to anyone else. ( and ask/tell the other boyt to keep it quite.) As a bi guy i have had both boyfriend and girlfriends, sometimes at the same time, and soon keeping the secret for each of them gets to be too much. you kind of have to decided with way you want to go. For me in end i gave you this girl for my now boyfriend, todd, but now we have an open relationship. So i can go out with girls as long as he knows,but i dont always tell the girl right away...

So is it cheating..... maybe is it part of hiding that you are gay/bi ??? YES and there for it is acceptable in my book.

[StoppingTime]

It isn't gay, seeing as you guys are both curios. As for cheating, even if you will one day come out, it is still probably cheating. It doesn't matter gender, and if you caught your gf doing that with another guy or girl what would you think? In my opinion I would tell him you have a gf, and you guys can decide from there. Also, if she knows your curious and she is OK with it, then I think it may not be considered cheating because you could say you were just experimenting.