always bein ignored!

[lillyeg98]

i try so hard every nite not 2 think about every thing an everybody tht ignores mehh!

my mom never pays attention my dad barley does my sis dnt giv a sh** bout me niether does my 2 bros.......its so hard 2 live up 2 mehh bro he has good grades hes super funny gets all the attention he wants but i get good grades but im not funny im more lik boring type of person!im not so fun i can b wen i want but most of tha time i dnt..

i have 2 cry mehhself 2 sleep every nitee cuz i feel lik im jusst here 2 b here an do nun!!Its also when ever im wit them theres no laughs an its so akward but when im away lik there downstairs an im up they always laugh they have fun witout mehh an i cnt think of anything 2 do 2 get them 2 notice me....

i neep so advice plzz!!......

[DerBear]

I am sure they notice you but do you do anything to be noticed in the first place

I am sure your sister loves you but all sisters have a fued with older siblings and brothers well its natural for them to dislike there sis in some ways

I am sure your family love you

[LongShot157]

Im sure your parents love you and do care about you, and like derri said, do you talk with your parents or do you keep to yourself? cause i used to be this same way, my parents never said i did good at anything, never really talked with me or anything, until i started to bring stuff up with the like my grades or sports then they started to notice, and siblings again like derri said, siblings ignore and fight with each other all the time it doesnt mean they dont care, shoot i have a older brother a younger one and a younger sister, they all annoy the sh!t out of me, and i hate being around them, but on the other hand i would die for each and every memeber of my family. if you are ever feeling down and need to chat or get something off your back feel free to add me or send me a message or something i havent hit 100 posts so i cant pm yet, but go to my member page thing and post something on my wall thing, and ill gladly talk with you, ive been through A LOT in my short 19 years of life, with myself, family and friends. LeAnna you should really send me a post on my page click my name and post something on my wall thing, and i can help you out and talk with you and give you some idea's to get them to be more interactive with you, i really insist, and if you choose not to, feel free at ANY TIME to do so i am here to help anyone i can. through all my pain suffering and struggles in life, ive learned so much and it makes me feel good to help out people who are having a rough patch in life.

[lillyeg98]

yes i no they love me, but my mom has said these things 2 me.....dumb as*,stupid as*,i ruin everything, i never do anything right,and i always have 2 sumthin wrong.

i learned 2day tht mehh bro feels tha same way idk how cuz he always gets all the attention so yup i kinda no how he feels cuz i think i get it tha feelin worse than he does! so yup......:(

[Ben Michael]

My parents are the same way, my sister has a chronic disease so they never pay attention to me, not that I want all the attention but at least for them to talk to me, she makes good grades, and she's little miss perfect, I live in her shadow.......

[dontcare97]

I feel like that as well. Everyone else is so preoccupied with whatever they are doing to pay attention. It may seem like no one cares but their life wouldn't be the same without you there. Your mom might just be talking out of some anger on you. If she really felt like that you would know it.

[Kujiro]

Actually i believe you should ask yourself what kind of attention you are seeking in the first place?
Assuming they do place their attention on you, and its not the kind of attention you are seeking after, i believe it would be a void as well.

People are realistic, they tend to only fix things only when they are broken, but that does not mean you should be doing something nasty and plunging down just to gain the attention you want.

Jealousy i believe is common among siblings, as for me i dont have any, but i'd rather my parents dont pay that much attention to me at times, and allow me to do my own thing.

A resolution may be to sit down and have a good talk with the closest family member, and see if you can work it out.
But whats most important like i mention, its more important to know what you want and expect before having a conversation like such.

[lillyeg98]

My parents are the same way, my sister has a chronic disease so they never pay attention to me, not that I want all the attention but at least for them to talk to me, she makes good grades, and she's little miss perfect, I live in her shadow.......

I live in my bros shadow!