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scottyrul
August 2nd, 2011, 04:17 AM
When I kissed my gf I felt nothing and I tried it three times that day and still nothing?. When I was younger this girl two grades higher than me would get on top of me at her house and force me to kiss her(this happened many times). So maybe I dislike kissing?. My gf asked me if this was my first kiss and I lied and said Yes even though I unwillingly kissed that girl over a hundred times. Please tell me what to do =( Im 13

XomaggsoX
August 2nd, 2011, 02:32 PM
I dont know maybe you dislike kissing but dont worry youll end up liking it again.(:

Upintheair
August 2nd, 2011, 03:19 PM
I dont think you dislike kissing, you might just be paranoid about it because of what happened before. Sometimes when you are forced into things like that, it can cause you to be nervous about it when you have that sort of contact again. Dont worry about it just yet! Keep trying and im sure things will get better!

humanesquire
August 2nd, 2011, 03:25 PM
You might not be attracted to her

UnknownError
August 2nd, 2011, 03:41 PM
>I'm 13
That's why. :)

judahtics
August 17th, 2011, 01:40 PM
you probably aren't old enough or at the right stage in puberty to enjoy it yet

Spock
August 17th, 2011, 11:00 PM
maybe its not ment to bee

Unsolvedmind
August 17th, 2011, 11:22 PM
Maybe she just really loves you!

Jupiter
August 17th, 2011, 11:23 PM
:/ sorry..

Dimitri
August 17th, 2011, 11:29 PM
I am sorry, you are 13, how do you know what a spark is? I think you are a little young to be kissing and looking for a spark. But that is just my opinion.

Jupiter
August 17th, 2011, 11:31 PM
yeah.. good point..

User Deleted
August 18th, 2011, 12:01 AM
One, it may be a genetic lack of attraction as I believe I have' (most people argue its because I'm young but there is a large history of bachelors in my family) it may be your age as has been said, or maybe its just not your 'soul mate."