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Kylie123
August 1st, 2011, 03:44 PM
So I am straight, but recently I have been curious about experimenting with another girl. I have a couple really close friends that I talk to everything about that I would be comfortable with but like how do you bring that up? I don't want them to think I'm weird and lose them as friends. Any girls who have experienced this before? What do I do?

Patchy
August 1st, 2011, 08:22 PM
Moved to teen sexuality.

XomaggsoX
August 3rd, 2011, 11:22 AM
I have expierenced this before and i always move into it quite slow.... likke i will be like lets play truth and dare extreme xD pretty stupid ( i know ) lol but than we always get a dare to makeot with eachother and i do ( lol ) than ask some one if they have ever kissed a girl and maybe theyll ask u the same question say yes or something like that ( hah) its a pretty stupid way to do it but it has worked for me..... (; lol i just laughed rereading how stupid this sounds but whateveveer..(: hahah

Syvelocin
August 3rd, 2011, 04:05 PM
I wouldn't bring it up with them to be honest. It depends how much value they hold with you. I have a dear friend who I've had a crush on for some time and every time I e-mail her I feel like just telling her that. Now that I'm in a relationship though, not to try to have a future with her, but just so she could know. I know that's a bit different than just experimenting but... I'm just saying, think about the risks. If they are really close friends, do not ever run the risk of losing them. Good friends are way too valuable.

If you really want to experiment however, I would go for something safer. Someone you don't know that well. I know there is an issue with comfort, but this is sex we're talking about right? Is it ever going to be comfortable on your first time experimenting with girls? Someone you know is bisexual/lesbian/curious.

I never experimented, but my question is do you need to? Really? I figured my sexuality out solely by physical and emotional attraction. Experimenting at this age is really something I can't advocate, but I know many have done so. Just saying, you don't have to experiment to figure out you're straight do you?