Ladies! I need your help! and guys too!

[steve14]

oK, so i really like this girl. and junior prom is coming up, and i want to ask her. Her name is nicole. shes more popular, and everytime i try to make plans with her shes always "busy". i went to her sweet sixteen last month and we were really close. and there was 3 stevens at her party, and 1 being me. and she called up the wrong steven to her candle. but when she read it it was about me... since she didnt call me i didnt go... so after she finished the candles, she came up to me crying, i was like whats wrong? she goes i called the wrong steven up! i was aw its ok. you know im not offended or anything...

i wanna ask her to junior prom.. junior prom is in early october.... is it too soon to ask now?

what can i do to take her out on a nice date or something nice to ask her? i dont wanna do it over text!

[Dimitri]

Ask her when school starts, about a month before prom.

[jess41095]

If what she said while lighting the candle and how she acts towards you makes it seem like she likes you definitely go for it! I'd wait alittle longer and maybe do it in school while everyones talking about the prom. Don't wait to loog thought she could sy yes to someone else! good luck(:

[Derek951]

Do you talk to her during summer? Like on Facebook or IM? I would bring up Jr Prom and talk about it---maybe just to put the idea in her head. But too soon to ask I think. Sounds like you really like her man, that's great.

[steve14]

thanks everyone! I havent really talked to her too much this summer..

[Upintheair]

I think its too soon to ask now, but derek is right! you should just drop a hint like "yea im excited for this year because of junior prom" and when school starts, ask her out to a movie or something and ask if she would go to prom with you! A really romantic way of doing it is sending her flowers with a card that says "will you go to prom with me?" good luck:)

[steve14]

thanks lizzie! i like your thinking! i think im gonna do that flowers thing. is it too much for jr prom tho?

[Upintheair]

No definitely not too much! One of my friends who is older than me asked me to his when I was a sophmore, and he asked me with flowers and I thought it was so sweet! Most girls appreciate it when guys put themselves out there! I bet she would really like it :)

[steve14]

aww thanks! she jsut texted me, and she texted me first! so i was shocked!

[Upintheair]

aw Im happy for you!

[steve14]

lol , so im doing exactly as you said, i said so are you ready to go back? she was like HELLL NO! and then i said aw your not excited for junior year?

[steve14]

ok so i wanted to let you know that shes been texting me for almost an hour now! and she just asked me tutor her for the earth science regents that she has to retakee!!! oh this just keeps gettting better and better!!!

[LuckyLuke]

Seeing as the prom is so far away, it'd be best to go on a date before going to prom. Not only does it make things less awkward for the day of but it also details exactly where you are. It lets her know that you want to go as more than just friends.

[CarolinaDude]

Seeing as the prom is so far away, it'd be best to go on a date before going to prom. Not only does it make things less awkward for the day of but it also details exactly where you are. It lets her know that you want to go as more than just friends.

This is good^, and I'd ask her whenever it feels right, but not TOO late because then she might already have a date -- not good! I like the idea of dropping hints too!

Whatever you do, do NOT ask her when prom is really close. My friend asked me on the MORNING of prom day (knowing that I kinda wanted to go but was an underclassman) and I was like "wtf" and we scrambled everywhere to get everything we needed... but we still had loads of fun!

Good luck!

[steve14]

thanks everyone! dropping hints it is and then when school starts again i will be asking ! :D i will keep you all updated ! thanks again!

[Upintheair]

i just read your updates steven haha but im so excited for you!! Her saying she wants you to be your tutor shows that she wants to spend time with you:) thats a great way to spend time with her for a while, and then you can ask her out, and then you can ask her to prom if everything goes well :)

[steve14]

thanks lizzie! PM me??

[Upintheair]

yes sir! In exactly 19 posts, I will PM you! haha:)

[steve14]

ok, well i will love to help with getting an interesting conversation going so we shall get those 19 posts out of the way!

[Upintheair]

Ah yes! How about you tell me about this girl that we are going to get you with :)

[steve14]

well shes really pretty. shes got GORGEOUS dark hair. shes a full blood italian. shes got the dreamiest eyes. shes got the bad girl personality but at the same time so innocent. shes 16. at her sweet sixteen i danced with her, and it was that night when i first danced in front of anyone i go to school with. and it was because she pulled me to the dance floor. and well in school me and one of my close friends are her body guards... on one of the stupid websites like rate my teacher, she was voted best girl to get with in my school. and oh yeah so me and my other friend look alike... and well people think were twins. we both have a VERY VERY similar accent, and we both are built big, but try to maintain a decent weight.... and we look tough, but are probabaly the only 2 guys in the school that dont want to killl everyone we see. oh yeah and this girl her name is nicole marie and and yeah...

[steve14]

oh and lizzie look for my new thread its titled "VT?" go write in there!!!!

[Upintheair]

Aw thats so sweet! And Im half italian!

[steve14]

very nice very nice!!! you want keys??

[Dimitri]

If I didn't know for sure I would have just thought you described my girlfriend except for the fact that mine is my age and not 16 but yes man, go for the girl she sounds totally worth it.
You have her and do not treat her like a peice of meat, treat her with respect and love and attention.

[dontcare97]

I think she would! Try to hang out with her more during the new school year before the prom. Make sure you do it before any other guy asks her since she is popular.