Um.. Gender identity crisis

[redmann]

ok so here is my problem. i want to be a girl. I always have and its really tearing me up inside. I just barely acceptedish myself as gay and am okay with it. But now this comes up and its making me so confused like i want to get SRS. but on the other hand i dont want to do it. because i want to have my own children (surrogate mother). Im just so confused about what to do because i dont know what i want more. I just dont want to have these feelings. i have already had to deal with being gay. I feel like im trapped and im going to go insane!!

[Angel Androgynous]

It's probably very hard for you, having these feelings. I think you might be transgender, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, you are still pretty young, so try to experiment a little and see where it goes. You don't have to label yourself as a gender right now.
If you say you always wanted to be a girl...
but do you feel as one? Can you live like a regular girl?

[gun_wover]

hello redmann,
when and how did you realize you are into guys?
why do you think you would fit better in this world as a female?

[redmann]

hello redmann,
when and how did you realize you are into guys?
why do you think you would fit better in this world as a female?

Like 9th grade. ( im in 12th)
Idk it has always been what ive wanted. Plus i act like a girl anyway. ( like mannerisms and alot of other stuff)

[humanesquire]

I'm in the same boat as you with all of this. Have you started HRT and if not, do you plan on it? I'm assuming you know about all of this, but if you feel like you absolutely need to start transitioning then go talk to a therapist and see if they could help you out with starting HRT and coming out.

[redmann]

no i havent because my biggest problem is figuring out of i want to or not. i just dont know if i should

[gun_wover]

i used to act like a guy too :D but it doesn't mean i wanna be one.
also being a girl is not that easy, you have to look hot all the time, shave all the gross hair, use tons of creams etc. but i bet you know already.
but let's get serious now. in life the most important decisions are best to be taken alone. here you can change ideas, but you should decide on your own.
whenever you wanna talk you can pm me. i enjoy listening and trying to make people find answers to their q.