So tired of it all

[HeartCoreHannah]

I just wish my parents would get a divorce already. I'm so sick of the fighting. everyday it's always something.. I've been three days free of cutting/burning so far.. and today, they managed to ruin it for me. I try to get better with my self harm.. But they always end up bringing me back down. Why can't they just get along and be happy? That would play a HUGE part in helping me with my cutting.. So when I actually needed to talk to one of them, they would be there for me.. and not fighting with each other.

[xktx]

its the holiday ... try staying over friends houses for a while, try talking to them.. i find thats what helps. They'll sort it out, its might take a while but they will. x

[HeartCoreHannah]

I do try to talk to them, it just doesn't work. But I'll try staying with friends. Thanks. (:

[Skyhawk]

You need an e-hug, shame I don't know the smiley hug code. Lol

Your friends will probably be of good help to you. ;)

[xktx]

i have a friend staying round mine for the week cos her home life isnt stable enough, and neither is she, she cuts, burns and is anorexic, and well its helped her. x

[HeartCoreHannah]

I would love an e-hug Rogue, haha. But the only problem with my staying with friends is... I only have three friends. Two of which are boys, so I know my mom won't let me stay with them. And the other is a girl of course, but she is in Florida for two weeks. So I don't know what to do. ):

[ImperfectMess]

I know how you feel, my mum and dad split up 2 years ago and before they did it was hell at home... with it being summer, why not see if there are any classes you can go to, especially try and find something like self defence! It's often not dear (or even free if you have a town community centre). It would get you out of the house and give you a more healthy outlet for you frustration! I deffinitely cut more when my dance classes aren't running

Hope things get better soon! <3

[Love.Hate]

I think that when it comes to parents they will eventually solve their problems out in the long run, and if that means a divorce then yes it does. But you can't interfere with whatever they decide to do.

I know when my parents used to argue a lot I would shut myself in my room and blast music out, or get out the house and go for a long walk. I think finding a hobby you enjoy is a better way to get your fustration out, dance? Drama? Singing? Anything really.

I hope things get better soon :hug:

[HeartCoreHannah]

Thanks. (: I do try to go places and take my mind off things, but every time I attempt to leave the house, I always get accused of going to do drugs or drink. So I just stay home locked in my room ignoring everyone. I honestly don't know what the right answers are anymore. I just wish it would all go away.