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Hopegirl
July 31st, 2011, 05:34 PM
So this site isnt helping me as much as i hoped with my harming, im just getting frustrated cuz i need the help from people yet will get one or a few replied to my post, just makes me believe exactly what im told-no one actually cares, what am i ment to do ? really ? -.- ive tried everything n im so close to just throwing in the towel and just stop looking for help, shut myself off from everyone and continue doing what i do. im thinking wow 2 weeks not cutting..only to be reminded no one actually cares..Give up.

Love.Hate
July 31st, 2011, 05:55 PM
I feel like this a lot. You have to remember that we all have our own problems too, so sometimes it appears we dont care, when we do.

2 weeks is amazing! you should be really proud of yourself. Dont give up, we do care.

:hug:

-You have to focus on whatever positives you can find. Cherish happy moments, memories. That is how im getting through. Remaining positive even when you feel like the whole world is agaisnt you. Cause someone out there does give a sh*t you have to fight for your future. What you want to do/be in the future. Positivity :)

Upintheair
July 31st, 2011, 05:55 PM
dont say things like that! im here to help whenever you need it! i understand how hard it is to get though things! What I did to stop is I wore a hair band at all times and anytime i was feeling a HUGE urge to cut, i would go watch a funny movie and snap the hairband! its obviously not the same but it gets your mind off of it! Be hopeful and keep your head up! anytime you need help, im here!

bobby1273
July 31st, 2011, 06:38 PM
Right, so i suppose I'm one of those who don't post replies etc much. Well that's true but thats because I'm also going through stuff myself etc and so i want to reply to peoples posts but don't feel i can ...

People do care, as said earlier everyone's going though stuff as well. And seriously, 2 weeks, that's pretty good going. To be honest I'm jellious that you could get that far with no self harm and i wish i could achieve a small part of that, so well done.

If you need to talk ever you can pm me or what ever (may not reply instantly but i will reply as soon as i can).

anonymous53
July 31st, 2011, 06:56 PM
So this site isnt helping me as much as i hoped with my harming, im just getting frustrated cuz i need the help from people yet will get one or a few replied to my post, just makes me believe exactly what im told-no one actually cares, what am i ment to do ? really ? -.- ive tried everything n im so close to just throwing in the towel and just stop looking for help, shut myself off from everyone and continue doing what i do. im thinking wow 2 weeks not cutting..only to be reminded no one actually cares..Give up.

Hope, don't give up two weeks on this just because of slow replies. Some of us are going through very hard times. You mean more than nothing to us.

You need to get help. I replied to your last post but you never responded. Is there an adult there you can tell? To get real help?

Skyhawk
July 31st, 2011, 07:18 PM
Maybe some of us didn't quite notice your threads, I was hoovering the other sections...

But you do need to get help, professional help perhaps.

Two weeks is good for no cutting, I only made it to 4 days is because I lost the glass I used to with. (silly me -_-)

I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to. :)

xktx
August 1st, 2011, 04:07 AM
of course we care... we all feel like that sometimes, but life can get a bit complicated, but we are all her for you if you need us. x