View Full Version : Everyone's Bisexual?
AltoVaughn
July 31st, 2011, 02:22 PM
For some reason it seems like everyone is Bisexual. While I know some people really do like both genders it seems like there's more bi people than gay or lesbian people. Considering how small a percentage of people are GLBT it just seems a little weird to me. Do some people just say that they're Bi because it's easier than coming out as gay? For some people is it a transitional stage when your still trying to figure things out? Obviously I have nothing against Bisexual people or anyone for that matter, Just curious.
ExhibitG
July 31st, 2011, 02:33 PM
technically, there are very very few people on this planet that are 100% heterosexual. the vast majority of people have some sort of attraction to the same sex, whether it's a big or small attraction. so i guess you can say yes, a lot of people are bisexual in this regard.
Harlequin
July 31st, 2011, 02:34 PM
Well lets look at something.
Out world today is "you gay or straight?" its also about sex and drugs and religion and all that good stuff.
What people miss is that it does not matter. I have girls i love dearly, but i do not want to have sex with them, that would violate some inner bffffff contract you know?
Same thing for boys. I have some good guy friends that i would help in an instant and i care for them as well. is this gay? nope.
So you may say i am Straight right?
Well sure i am, my dream is to raise a family.
But the way i live people call me gay, sure i love to cook, yes i like cleaning too, i may be in touch with my more effeminate terms i do agree (who else likes to wear kilts?!)
But i am not gay.
In my mind bi sexuality is just a puberty brought on term for those finding where their sexuality stands.
Skyhawk
July 31st, 2011, 02:41 PM
Noticed that around here, but I don't judge.
Btw nic pic of Gaga ;)
AltoVaughn
July 31st, 2011, 02:48 PM
Well lets look at something.
Out world today is "you gay or straight?" its also about sex and drugs and religion and all that good stuff.
What people miss is that it does not matter. I have girls i love dearly, but i do not want to have sex with them, that would violate some inner bffffff contract you know?
Same thing for boys. I have some good guy friends that i would help in an instant and i care for them as well. is this gay? nope.
So you may say i am Straight right?
Well sure i am, my dream is to raise a family.
But the way i live people call me gay, sure i love to cook, yes i like cleaning too, i may be in touch with my more effeminate terms i do agree (who else likes to wear kilts?!)
But i am not gay.
In my mind bi sexuality is just a puberty brought on term for those finding where their sexuality stands.
That's a whole different topic, Your personality really doesn't define you in that way. (Yes I like Kilts!)
AltoVaughn
July 31st, 2011, 02:48 PM
Noticed that around here, but I don't judge.
Btw nic pic of Gaga ;)
Why thank you :)
prob1996
July 31st, 2011, 04:46 PM
Strange isn't it? LOL I can only speak from my experience and I thought I was bi for awhile because I was having a hard time accepting that I'm gay. It was of acknowledging I have feelings for guys but not outright saying I'm gay and then having to deal with all the pain of admitting it. I think for most people our age it is a transitional step. The reason I believe this is how many bisexuals have you heard of over the age of 25? I'm sure it is possible and they do exist but most people will conform to one or the other.
AltoVaughn
July 31st, 2011, 06:38 PM
Strange isn't it? LOL I can only speak from my experience and I thought I was bi for awhile because I was having a hard time accepting that I'm gay. It was of acknowledging I have feelings for guys but not outright saying I'm gay and then having to deal with all the pain of admitting it. I think for most people our age it is a transitional step. The reason I believe this is how many bisexuals have you heard of over the age of 25? I'm sure it is possible and they do exist but most people will conform to one or the other.
Pretty similar to what I was thinking. Thanks for sharing your story to support it too.
jessehs
September 8th, 2011, 10:20 PM
i feel that people who are in there teens and therefore raging hormones plus curiousness means that while they think they are bisexual when really they are just expermenting
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