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Gummi
July 30th, 2011, 11:45 PM
Most of my friends masturbate, and where I live and go to school if you masturbate no one thinks anything of it because most all guys do. Well I was at my cousins house (hes a male and also one of my best friends) and hes always reaching in his pants and messing with his stuff, and I know he masturbates because we talk about it almost everytime I see him. (we dont go into details or anything) I've always wanted to ask him if he wanted to masturbate together (not eachother, just ourselves) I think he would say yes, but I have some questions first for people who have masturbated with friends/family.
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Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons?
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd?
Is it weird if they are bigger than you?
Is it awkward asking the person?
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way)

tyler17OKC
July 31st, 2011, 12:06 AM
I had the exact same situation happen just last week. I would like to see some answers here.

itsthat0n3kid
July 31st, 2011, 12:28 AM
1: it depends how you feel about it and how the other person feels about it.
2: like i said, it really depends on the people and your comfortability.
3: not really. it doesnt really matter. unless the other person is an asshole and brags.
4: it could be. but not usually. if he says "eww no" just laugh and shake it off.
5: not even. jjust curiousity.
how i answered both of your questions :)
good luck!

Gummi
July 31st, 2011, 12:33 AM
^thanks so much, me and him are both comfortable around eachother and we both masturbate so I think it will go well.

Kujiro
July 31st, 2011, 12:45 AM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons?
Everyone would feel alittle weird at the beginning, not many people would be too open to show their stuff.

Is it exciting with another person or just wierd?
That depends, everyone has their perspective on this matter, I would classify it as embarrassed rather than weird.
Definately there would be a level of excitement.

Is it weird if they are bigger than you?
Absolutely not, everyone grows at a different rate, many factors contribute to the size, but generally it would be the genes which basically determine it.
Some say that size would boost self esteem, but i guess what matters is how you look at yourself being the most important.

Is it awkward asking the person?
Definately, How often would you go up to a person, to get him or her to drop her pants.
Certain questions are generally difficult to bring forth, and this is definately one of them.

Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way)
Nope, clearly if there is no emotional factors involved, you would not be gay,
You are 13, experimentation and curiousity is absolutely normal for us. But as long as you know the boundaries and doing it safely. Everyting would be alright.

Cheers

Gummi
July 31st, 2011, 12:53 AM
^Thanks! That was very informative. I feel better about this now.

Rodeo
July 31st, 2011, 05:46 PM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? Not really cause you have already gotten past the weird stage by talking about it and deciding to do it.
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? I find it pretty exciting and not at all wierd.
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? Not really but I guess that depends on you. It never bothered me.
Is it awkward asking the person? It can be but if you already talk about masturbating it shoulden't be if they act wierd just change the subject.
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) No way its just experimenting out of curiosity I'm totally straight and I do it we even masturbate eachother sometimes and thats even more fun thatn just doing it together. Its all part of puberty.

haslam1919
August 2nd, 2011, 04:33 AM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? no, you're horny it turns you on
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? exciting
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? no
Is it awkward asking the person? sometimes
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) no

abc16
August 2nd, 2011, 06:38 AM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? not really
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? exciting.. i get bigger
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? dunno, cause we were basically the same
Is it awkward asking the person? it just happened, we played games together
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) nothing 'makes' you gay. if you fancy dudes then you are, but your just curious

Tactical Commando
August 2nd, 2011, 06:38 AM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? Yea but you get use to it. In Japan, when you goto hot springs, you go naked. I went naked and was the only teenager there.
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? Awkward?
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? Amazement? Idk
Is it awkward asking the person? Maybr

orangeandlong
August 3rd, 2011, 07:21 PM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? I didn't think it was weird...all guys have penises they might just look different.
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? I found it kinda exciting
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? I didn't worry about their size or mine other than comparing
Is it awkward asking the person? I just asked and it wasn't awkward
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) It doesn't make you gay...lots of guys experiement

talien
August 3rd, 2011, 10:04 PM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? no
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? depends on who haha
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? no
Is it awkward asking the person? not really
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) not at all

kem1
August 4th, 2011, 03:36 AM
no its not normal

Fleeceluvr
December 15th, 2011, 11:07 PM
Is it weird when you first pull out your penis and see the other persons? maybe for them but if u have a big dick u shudnt be ashamed
Is it exciting with another person or just wierd? more exciting
Is it weird if they are bigger than you? no
Is it awkward asking the person? sometimes
Does masturbating with another guy make me gay? (I'm straight and have no intrest in guys in that way) no it doesnt it just akes u curious

Benbomber
December 15th, 2011, 11:57 PM
Its easy. Just start talking about it, and get into detail about how you did it once, or different ways to do it. Eventually you will be having a deep conversation about it and just ask him. I was so nervous but i did this once and it worked. Try it.